Questions From A Newb

[Newb]

I'm considering seeing an escort for the first time, but I'm apprehensive about the following.

1) use of names - do I need to give my real name to the escort? What is the etiquette here. I assume that the escorts use fake names, so I shouldn't have to give my real name too, right?

2) getting sti's when kissing. Is it possible to get sti's when kissing an escort? Is it a material risk?

Cheers!

 

[DJV]

I'm considering seeing an escort for the first time, but I'm apprehensive about the following.

1) use of names - do I need to give my real name to the escort? What is the etiquette here. I assume that the escorts use fake names, so I shouldn't have to give my real name too, right?

2) getting sti's when kissing. Is it possible to get sti's when kissing an escort? Is it a material risk?

Cheers!

Hi,

1) you can trust the provider for keeping confidential info, though there is no need to provide too much for it in the first place. A real first name is ok except if you don't like yours or like aliases etc. I know some providers are surprised that I use my real first name though.
Sometimes providers ask for personal info for screening purposes. Some clients are ok with that, some are not and should just fine another provider instead, or simply establish a communication by email to show that you can be trusted as a client
2) yes it's possible : mononucleosis for instance, flu etc. You cant know really, except when it shows

 

[scorpioni6ths]

1) the independents will probably ask a valid ID. I've been asked 2x. Other escorts ([Redacted], JFF, BP) will probably not ask for it.

You can use any name you want. I use my real first name always. It depends on your comfort level and risks that you are willing to take.

2) watch out for blisters and cold sores. It greatly raises your chances of contracting infections. Don't brush too hard that your gums start bleeding!

 

[User#8628]

1. Its common that guys use their real names in email and such. An independend or agency with a good reputation would be confidental with that.
Its not neccessary for a lot of providers though, even many independends. A phone number or fast replies on emails are more important.

2. Not high risk and not too serious stuff. A cold or flu is not really an std and can be over in a few weeks. As long as there is no ebola or something in the country i wouldn't worry about that. Things like cold sores are annoying to catch but you can often see or feel visible sympthoms so just let it depend on that. You also don't have to (deep) kiss if you dont want.