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My latest session with Rikako got me thinking how much better would the experience be if we left the specifics out before the deed and just go with the flow, searching together for that sexual chemistry.
Do you feel that outlining your preferences, likes and dislikes, beforehand increases the chances of a more satisfying experience?
I speculate that for the ladies, it probably makes their work easier if they know what turns on and satisfies their client best.
For guys (like me) who also take pleasure in giving pleasure to the lady, knowing what the lady likes certainly is a plus.
At the same time, the excitement of trying something new and kinky is quite a rush. Which is why I would probably try to minimize the specifics for my first time with someone, and maybe go to more specifics for subsequent sessions.
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At the same time, I also understand some guys are only in town for a short time or on a tight P4P budget or only interested in variety and one-time encounters. Thus, want to make the most of the one time with a lady. Thus, may opt to be more specific.
Another situation we find are the virgins or inexperienced, those with none to little P4P or even sex experience. Some only know the sex they see on porn/JAV, skewing their expectations. Maybe helpful to let the lady know, so that she can take more initiative?
Do you feel that outlining your preferences, likes and dislikes, beforehand increases the chances of a more satisfying experience?
I speculate that for the ladies, it probably makes their work easier if they know what turns on and satisfies their client best.
For guys (like me) who also take pleasure in giving pleasure to the lady, knowing what the lady likes certainly is a plus.
At the same time, the excitement of trying something new and kinky is quite a rush. Which is why I would probably try to minimize the specifics for my first time with someone, and maybe go to more specifics for subsequent sessions.
Edit:
At the same time, I also understand some guys are only in town for a short time or on a tight P4P budget or only interested in variety and one-time encounters. Thus, want to make the most of the one time with a lady. Thus, may opt to be more specific.
Another situation we find are the virgins or inexperienced, those with none to little P4P or even sex experience. Some only know the sex they see on porn/JAV, skewing their expectations. Maybe helpful to let the lady know, so that she can take more initiative?
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