She Keeps Changing The Game Up On Me...

TokyoJoeblow

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I posted an ad looking for female talent and a few women replied. Two of them flaked, but this one seemed serious at first...then asked if her hubby can watch and record?

I realize that her husband there will make her feel safe and comfortable, but that doesn't make me feel safe and comfortable at all. What if midway through the shoot, he decides he doesn't like what he is seeing and attacks me? By the way, he is a huge dude and I'm a smaller white dude.

I explained that to her that husbands usually don't just get to stand there and jerk off while an AV is being filmed and that trust and her seriousness about getting into this business would help her along with building trust with me, yet she still insists in the husband being there to watch.

At first she asked if he could watch and film, which I told her is completely out of the question. The strange thing is she said she was serious about being in a video with me...so why the husband? I assume she just wants to make sure this isn't some rape date thing...but I would be having her sign a contract. Maybe she her marriage is on the rocks and she just wants to cheat on her husband or cause drama? I will come back to this point later.

So she says she has never been in an AV before so I told her we could record it and not put it on the internet or do anything with it until she gives the ok. I mentioned that her husband could come if I'm able to have a friend of mine that also shoots AV to come along. I mentioned that if my friends are busy and I have to go alone, I would prefer to record the video with her alone or at least have her husband just outside of the room.

So she replies saying that she is willing to meet with me and that she is serious, but then she asks me if it is alright if we just have sex without recording any videos at all??? So basically she went from "being serious" about getting into AV and now she just wants to hook up with me?

I replied saying that I have no problem meeting with her and having sex, but I want to make sure it is alright with her husband. She replied saying my husband is cool (all the evidence I need right? lol). She also said that she is on her period and to wait a week.

I told her that I don't mind having sex with a woman on her period and is that ok with her. I also told her that since the original plan was to have a business transaction of sorts and now she wants just sex, that I would prefer to hear from her husband directly or over the phone that he is cool with it.

I'm still waiting on her reply. To all the women on here, this woman doesn't sound serious at all right? I mean not serious about doing an AV, having sex or even meeting in general. She seems to be just playing around and wasting both of our time, which is pretty retarded. I could be wrong though and maybe she is serious, but flip flops her thoughts all the time.

I'm pretty much moving on now, but this strange little email correspondence was worth sharing.
 
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It depends what you mean by serious.
She is very likely bored, she is looking for something that would make her "sexual" life more spicy, but she has no clue if she is actually courageous enough to do it.

Otherwise.... Are you really posting ads to shout porn movies?
 
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hkAlone said:
It depends what you mean by serious.
She is very likely bored, she is looking for something that would make her "sexual" life more spicy, but she has no clue if she is actually courageous enough to do it.

Otherwise.... Are you really posting ads to shout porn movies?
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Well, I honestly can bet most of my money that she isn't serious, one of a handful of reasons being she doesn't have the courage to be on camera with me.

She proposed the idea of having sex without shooting any videos, which I'm cool with, but her not being serious about that would maybe be for other reasons.

The reason I think she is lying now is because this isn't not the first time a woman said she wanted to meet up for sex and when it was time to play ball, she suddenly said she was on her period and to wait a week.

Of course a week later, I never heard back from her. This woman literally said the exact same thing this other woman once told me and I'm thinking about calling her out on it later. I am giving her more time for a reply now though.

Well, the videos I'm shooting will not be illegally released into the public for money. They will just be for my personal collection, which all the women I have done personal videos with in the past said they were cool with. I know that Usagi Entertainment is still getting setting up and that it takes time. I have no problem providing any material I record with the company legally and with the full, signed consent of the women involved in the videos. I would also have them sign and date consent to do the video as well.

So far I have only been getting spam, flakey women and semi-flakey women responding.
 
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So far I have only been getting spam, flakey women and semi-flakey women responding.
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Curious.

You need not post a link, but what type of media are you using to advertise? What's the target audience of the media?
 
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:)Interesting correspondence indeed. But put yourself in her shoes: its the first time she does AV , she doesnt know you, having the husband with her (assuming he is cool with the whole thing indeed, why not) makes her safer. You having a friend too makes you safer. Nobody is more right or wrong about this than the other. And hey you could end up with an interesting 4P on screen if the vibes are good between you all ! ;)
 
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Some updates of our recent emails:

Me: Well, I can wait until your period is over and we can meet next week. I don't think you are serious though and I think you will forget about me next week.

I will just email you next week and we can talk more later. Have a good night.

Her: No I won't forget. But I don't like having sex on my period. I just don't feel comfortable. Anyway may I see your penis first before we do.

Me: Hello again how are you? Well, because I have not heard directly from your husband that he is ok with us having sex, I would prefer to hear it from him when we meet in Tokyo. Yes, I could show you a photo but could you send me a photo of you?

Her: Do you wanna text him??i can give you his LINE id or email. I'm shy lol I wanna see yours first since you're pro.

Me:
Well, I could email him and see what he says first. So he knows about the ad I posted looking for AV talent?

The best thing would be if I could call him to actually hear him say its cool is that ok?

As for your period, yes I understand having sex during a period isn't so fun and can be painful.

So what day next week would you like to meet up?

Her:
Yeah he knows it. His email is _______@gmail.com
Phone number is _________
You can call but he's busy at camp at the moment.
He is playing sports that's why

And do you have your videos anywhere in the Internet?? So I can see how it goes you know

Me:
Well, I actually haven't posted any of my videos on the internet yet. I have a lot of experience and have made a lot of home videos though. I could call him tomorrow on the phone later tonight or tomorrow.

My friend is setting up a company now and it will take some time, but things are going well and we will make videos and put them online in the near future.

The women I made videos with don't want me to post their videos or email them to people because they are new to AV just like you. I will be able to show you some blowjob videos I did with them at a love hotel if you want.

I wouldn't think too much because if you are serious, everything will be alright I promise. We don't have to record any AV if you don't want for the first time we meet ok?

Btw, your husband's name is Kyon and your name is Epeli? (she totally looks Japanese but her email is this random Russian looking name, which is a little shady lol)
 
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Some updates of our recent emails:

Me: Well, I can wait until your period is over and we can meet next week. I don't think you are serious though and I think you will forget about me next week.

I will just email you next week and we can talk more later. Have a good night.

Her: No I won't forget. But I don't like having sex on my period. I just don't feel comfortable. Anyway may I see your penis first before we do.

Me: Hello again how are you? Well, because I have not heard directly from your husband that he is ok with us having sex, I would prefer to hear it from him when we meet in Tokyo. Yes, I could show you a photo but could you send me a photo of you?

Her: Do you wanna text him??i can give you his LINE id or email. I'm shy lol I wanna see yours first since you're pro.

Me:
Well, I could email him and see what he says first. So he knows about the ad I posted looking for AV talent?

The best thing would be if I could call him to actually hear him say its cool is that ok?

As for your period, yes I understand having sex during a period isn't so fun and can be painful.

So what day next week would you like to meet up?

Her:
Yeah he knows it. His email is _______@gmail.com
Phone number is _________
You can call but he's busy at camp at the moment.
He is playing sports that's why

And do you have your videos anywhere in the Internet?? So I can see how it goes you know

Me:
Well, I actually haven't posted any of my videos on the internet yet. I have a lot of experience and have made a lot of home videos though. I could call him tomorrow on the phone later tonight or tomorrow.

My friend is setting up a company now and it will take some time, but things are going well and we will make videos and put them online in the near future.

The women I made videos with don't want me to post their videos or email them to people because they are new to AV just like you. I will be able to show you some blowjob videos I did with them at a love hotel if you want.

I wouldn't think too much because if you are serious, everything will be alright I promise. We don't have to record any AV if you don't want for the first time we meet ok?

Btw, your husband's name is Kyon and your name is Epeli? (she totally looks Japanese but her email is this random Russian looking name, which is a little shady lol)
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I find this unfolding story fascinating. Thanks for keeping us updated. If it doesnt work as AV you could still make an interesting short movie from the whole episode!
 
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Frenchy said:
I find this unfolding story fascinating. Thanks for keeping us updated. If it doesnt work as AV you could still make an interesting short movie from the whole episode!
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All these interesting and odd situations that keep happening in my life sure would make a great journey thread in quite a number of forums. I could always write a book, but I guess I am already slowly doing that lol.
 
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Has anyone been in a situation like this before (married women wanting to bang, says her husband is cool and provides possible proof)?

It is just that usually I meet married women that want to have sex or at least mess around with me a little, but they are always super careful not to let the husbands find out. This woman is just like yeah, everything is cool lol. Just a little strange to me and seems too good to be true.
 
TokyoJoeblow said:
Has anyone been in a situation like this before (married women wanting to bang, says her husband is cool and provides possible proof)?

It is just that usually I meet married women that want to have sex or at least mess around with me a little, but they are always super careful not to let the husbands find out. This woman is just like yeah, everything is cool lol. Just a little strange to me and seems too good to be true.
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Then it probably is, be careful. I would suggest a first meeting with the two in a coffee shop or something, if she really insists to have him onboard. I date a married woman whose husband knows and is (kinda) cool with it but never met him nor do I want to.
 
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You aren't clear on what you write in your classified ad. That might clear up what she's expecting. Asking you for a penis pix might mean you may be chatting with a dude.
 
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The penis pic is quite weird indeed.
You may need a specialist in female behaviour, but I doubt that such picture is required for her to make a decision.
 
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hkAlone said:
The penis pic is quite weird indeed.
You may need a specialist in female behaviour, but I doubt that such picture is required for her to make a decision.
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I beg to disagree on that. The OP proposes her to shoot an AV movie, after all :ROFLMAO:
(If it was for a shampoo commercial, granted, that would be rude)
 
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Ok im ready to finance (a little) the movie if you do the "get down girl go head get down" thing like Kanye (before a BJ scene).
I always found his gesture hilarious and regret there is no X-rated version of that clip (as far as I know at least).

 
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TokyoJoeblow said:
Has anyone been in a situation like this before (married women wanting to bang, says her husband is cool and provides possible proof)?

It is just that usually I meet married women that want to have sex or at least mess around with me a little, but they are always super careful not to let the husbands find out. This woman is just like yeah, everything is cool lol. Just a little strange to me and seems too good to be true.
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Short answer. Yes.
That's the whole idea of swinger clubs.
Actually some couple don't think it is cheating, if your partner can watch it.

I was disappointed that there was no update today.
To make sure you're not getting trolled, have a Skype. That would be the perfect opportunity to show her your penis.
I used to have such kind of video chats when browsing on adult friend finder.
 
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Actually some couple don't think it is cheating, if your partner can watch it.
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The whole idea of "cheating" is going behind your partner and backstabbing them so i don't think it's weird logic to not call it cheating if you have open relationship agreements that both people are aware off and you don't cross the borders.
 
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Short answer. Yes.
That's the whole idea of swinger clubs.
Actually some couple don't think it is cheating, if your partner can watch it.

I was disappointed that there was no update today.
To make sure you're not getting trolled, have a Skype. That would be the perfect opportunity to show her your penis.
I used to have such kind of video chats when browsing on adult friend finder.
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Sorry, the update is that this woman bascially thought that I would pay her money to only have sex, but not make a video the first time we meet lol. There was a bit of a misunderstanding, because she said that she is a little nervous to be on video (which she knows I would pay her for) and wanted to be off camera...yet somehow thought I would still pay her for just sex, no video wtf?

I think she is trolling to be honest. I will not contact her again, but if she emails me later this week when her "period is over" wanting to meet up for sex, I'm just going to set up a time and place to meet up with them and then just not show up lol.

To turn something so straight-forward into something so complicated...they must be either shady or mildly retarded people. I will most likely not hear from this woman again and I don't really want to hear from her again. If I post another ad in the future, I will make sure it is a lot more clear this time around.
 
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