Should I follow through with this foreign escort or bail out?

[evlist]

Was scrolling through a dating app, and someone had their LINE username on their profile. Decided to hit it up just to see what would happen, and long story short they were an escort.

Earlier this week I had a kind of meh experience using a service so I was going to try and stay away from these kinds of things. I just haven't had overall great experiences with adult services. So when the time came when she told me how much and for what, I told her I couldn't afford what she was asking for, so she asked how much I had. I told her the amount I'd be willing to spend, and she was okay with it.

The only thing is that I've never dealt directly with an escort. I've only ever done it through a service or a soapland. She wanted me to go directly to her hotel room. Just go there and knock on the door. It kinda sketched me out. I said I'd pay for a Love Hotel, but she didn't want to do that. Just how everything came together felt sketchy to me. I said I'd feel more comfortable tomorrow during the day, and she said that was okay.

I found her page for her home city service so I'm pretty confident she's real, but still.

She said she leaves Tuesday so tomorrow is pretty much the only chance, but I'm still a little iffy about it. I don't want to get robbed or shaken down. Or worse case die. But it is a good price. Maybe just too good to be true though? I really don't know if I should go through with it or cancel.

 

[TAG Manager]

I don't want to get robbed or shaken down. Or worse case die.

You more likely to get shaken down or scammed by a tout on a street.
I can't remember this kind of thing happening with a touring escort in a hotel.

The most common thing that happens with touring escorts or these girls that offer in-call service is that their pics don't match or they look significantly different.
They also can be highly mechanical because they want you in and out the shortest amount of time possible.

There's a hundred ways to take this... but dying or getting robbed, not likely, at least not in this country.

The average price range for an in-call, visiting escort is around 20-40k/1 hour. If she's a bigger name on the tour circuit, she probably would command more.

My only piece of advice - take as little as you need into the room. Use a coin locker if need be to store extra stuff you don't need.
Take the right amount of cash and minimize the rest that you need. If you take your phone, make sure it's locked, etc.

 

[Simonka]

Why don’t you meet her in the lobby? That way you can make sure it’s the person advertised on the photos and she’s not under the influence of anything. Cancelling the meeting in case she doesn’t match her photos will also be much less dramatic when you’re surrounded by other people.

Offering different prices to different clients is not very professional tho. People can find out eventually and our other clients won’t be happy upon finding out.

 

[jhingy567]

Earlier this week I had a kind of meh experience using a service so I was going to try and stay away from these kinds of things. I just haven't had overall great experiences with adult services.

...and what makes you think this one will be any better?

Personally I'd save my money for something more reputable.
If you go through with it and find that the person answering the door does not resemble the one in the pictures, don't feel bad to leave without paying a dime.

 

[evlist]

You more likely to get shaken down or scammed by a tout on a street.
My only piece of advice - take as little as you need into the room. Use a coin locker if need be to store extra stuff you don't need.
Take the right amount of cash and minimize the rest that you need. If you take your phone, make sure it's locked, etc.

Thanks for reassuring me. I think I'm just naturally paranoid haha. And her original price was a little under the 40k an hour so it seems to add up. For this kind of thing I always try to take as little as possible. If I do go through I'll be sure to minimize down to the essentials.

Why don’t you meet her in the lobby? That way you can make sure it’s the person advertised on the photos and she’s not under the influence of anything.

Offering different prices to different clients is not very professional tho. People can find out eventually and our other clients won’t be happy upon finding out.

That's a good idea. I tried to get her to meet me somewhere else and then walk to the hotel, but she just kept saying to just come to the hotel. Lobby might work though. And that's true. I did think it was a little weird for her to immediately agree to my limit.

...and what makes you think this one will be any better?

Personally I'd save my money for something more reputable.
If you go through with it and find that the person answering the door does not resemble the one in the pictures, don't feel bad to leave without paying a dime.

You're right, I probably should. I think maybe I just keep thinking maybe it'll be better the next time. The first time was at a Soapland, and it was good, but the woman didn't match the pictures well, and was disappointing on that front. The service a few days ago matched the pictures which was great, but it wasn't FS, and I didn't even end up releasing so I felt like I paid for nothing. And then this seemed like a good deal so I was considering it.

With the comments I've been getting though I'm kind of leaning towards not going, and maybe just saving up and trying something better. Or maybe just giving up on this kind of service entirely.

 

[Exnocomment]

I’m honestly curious which one it is and whether there’s a website or twitter account. The more “presence” you can find online the better you’ll likely feel I’m guessing?

 

[evlist]

I’m honestly curious which one it is and whether there’s a website or twitter account. The more “presence” you can find online the better you’ll likely feel I’m guessing?

I honestly could only find her on one website, but she had one for each of the 3 main areas/countries she escorts in I guess. I don't know if I'm allowed to message it to you or not.

 

[Simonka]

Did she screen you? It’s also very risky for her to invite a complete stranger to her room. I would at least meet the client in the lobby and ask for an ID check before I invite him to the room I will be sleeping in at night..

 

[Hope44]

If you don't mind the trip, remember that it's alright to walk away anytime before you pay. If there is anything that doesn't seem right, just leave.

 

[Exnocomment]

Everyone is giving you good advice. If she’s advertising and you aren’t shilling for her I’m not sure why you couldn’t post a link to her right here. Anyways - best of luck to you!

 

[evlist]

Did she screen you? It’s also very risky for her to invite a complete stranger to her room. I would at least meet the client in the lobby and ask for an ID check before I invite him to the room I will be sleeping in at night..

Kind of I guess. I sent her a picture of me, and gave her my age. That was about it though. Honestly you've pretty much convinced me it's a bad idea haha.

If you don't mind the trip, remember that it's alright to walk away anytime before you pay. If there is anything that doesn't seem right, just leave.

It's not too far from where I'm staying so it's tempting to scope it out. From the replies I've gotten though I honestly think I'm gonna pass. Don't want to risk anything.

Everyone is giving you good advice. If she’s advertising and you aren’t shilling for her I’m not sure why you couldn’t post a link to her right here. Anyways - best of luck to you!

Absolutely! Honestly everyone's advice got me thinking about issues I hadn't thought of before, and I kind of made my decision because of them I think. Only reason I wouldn't post the link in here is because I don't want it getting tracked back to me if she finds it, not that I think she could really do anything, but better safe than sorry imo. And if she is a scammer or just not a very trustworthy escort I'd rather not give her the free advertisement.

 

[jhingy567]

Not sure what your budget is, but if you're still itching to get your rocks off for a cheap price, try Gotanda (do a search here). ~10k FS, im not sure if you get to see the girl beforehand, but some people here have reported getting decent girls.

 

[evlist]

Not sure what your budget is, but if you're still itching to get your rocks off for a cheap price, try Gotanda (do a search here). ~10k FS, im not sure if you get to see the girl beforehand, but some people here have reported getting decent girls.

Thanks! I'll definitely keep this in mind.

 

[User#8628]

Nothing to be paranoid about, seems like another Philippine touring girl who lost her main place of advertisement when backpage got shut down i guess. Its expectable that anyone who still thinks its profitable to tour will probably try to look for clients on any possible app or site where guys are looking for some fun.

I also really don’t see how you can think going to her hotel room is more dangerous than a love hotel and you could get murdered. Its a business hotel, which means they have her personal information, likely a copy of her ID, maybe also her credit card information. And they have cameras. She’d hang. Plus even though you’re also a foreigner, she is just a visitor in this country. If the police would get involved she would likely have more trouble than you.

 

[MikeH]

Sounds like the normal operating procedure for any SE Asian escorts visiting Tokyo. I don't think there is anything murky there, they are just trying to get as much customers fit into the two weeks they stay here as possible.

 

[Frenchy]

Offering different prices to different clients is not very professional tho. People can find out eventually and our other clients won’t be happy upon finding out.

Totally agreed! And happy that an escort says it!

 

[MikeH]

Totally agreed! And happy that an escort says it!

Though I don't think she "offered" different prices in the meaning she advertised same service with different prices in different websites or anything.

She just what did what most SE Asians are used to do; negotiated with a customer.

You guys are just so used to Japan where asking price is the selling price.

 

[Frenchy]

Though I don't think she "offered" different prices in the meaning she advertised same service with different prices in different websites or anything.

She just what did what most SE Asians are used to do; negotiated with a customer.

You guys are just so used to Japan where asking price is the selling price.

Not always, but yeah I see what you mean. In a way good old-fashioned negotiating is more honest imo (than having different ask prices on different venues)

 

[Desktop]

Wear sneakers without carrying a bag in case they open the door & it’s a completely different person.

 

[jhingy567]

Wear sneakers without carrying a bag in case they open the door & it’s a completely different person.

Also bring a big stick. Just in case.

 

[Durg50]

Not sure what your budget is, but if you're still itching to get your rocks off for a cheap price, try Gotanda (do a search here). ~10k FS, im not sure if you get to see the girl beforehand, but some people here have reported getting decent girls.

Agree 100%, and the service / looks etc will be about the same, just way cheaper in gotanda. Both will want you out yhe door within a minute of ‘finishing’.

 

[Yuriko]

There are more than 450 escorts in Tokyo. You better go with good reviews. I think by reading your inquiry with her, it sounds like not so winning future, tbh. My clients are really excited up to last moment when we meet, but you being skeptical, not sure this is going to be good indication...

Your inner voice knows what you might expect.

If I were you, I'd pass, the early, the better for her sake (I'm a woman,.but by reading what you wrote. ) It's your choice.

Hope you make a good decision, yourself.

You're the one that going to spend money.

 

[okayspot]

Oh, wow these are actual women?
For the Japanese ones that say they are looking for a sex friend, I always thought that it was the modern day equivalent of writing your exs phone number on the bathroom stall of a bar.

It must be switch and bait then because these girls are too attractive to be selling themselves on tinder...

 

[Durg50]

Oh, wow these are actual women?
For the Japanese ones that say they are looking for a sex friend, I always thought that it was the modern day equivalent of writing your exs phone number on the bathroom stall of a bar.

It must be switch and bait then because these girls are too attractive to be selling themselves on tinder...

correct

 

[Durg50]

There are more than 450 escorts in Tokyo. You better go with good reviews. I think by reading your inquiry with her, it sounds like not so winning future, tbh. My clients are really excited up to last moment when we meet, but you being skeptical, not sure this is going to be good indication...

Your inner voice knows what you might expect.

If I were you, I'd pass, the early, the better for her sake (I'm a woman,.but by reading what you wrote. ) It's your choice.

Hope you make a good decision, yourself.

You're the one that going to spend money.

articulate, reasonable and Im in 100% agreement.

Just waiting for the other 3 horsemen now....