Shy Couple Interested To Explore Seedy Tokyo And Revisit Bliss Out

[TreadCuriously]

Hey guys! Nice to meet everyone .I've been a lurker for a while now, and finally have decided to bite the bullet and register. Please be gentle as I ask a few noobish questions ^^.

My wife and I are a shy non-Japanese speaking Asian couple. Through lurking and reading up all the great info provided by the nice members here, we managed to visit Bliss Out last year as we are curious to see people having sex live. Call it curiosity or voyeurism maybe. It was our first ever visit to anything of that sorts so naturally the whole process was both interesting and nerve-wrecking. Sadly during our visit, there wasn't anyone in the establishment (as we went there around late noon/early evening), and after the kind bartender have brought us for a tour around we just ended up playing with ourselves before settling down for a nice chat with the bartender (who can speak a little English).

This time round we're back in Tokyo, and we're considering to visit Bliss Out again. We're also considering other places but since we're now registered members our cover charge is lesser, as well as BO being foreigner/non-Japanese speaker friendly, that still seems to be the top choice. We plan to go on a weekend where hopefully there will be more action.

However our main purpose of going there, same as before, is to just observe the scene and enjoy the views, and at most just playing with ourselves with no intention to swap. I understand that we are not obliged to swap, but will it be awkward for us not to or will it bring unwanted tension by doing so? Besides that, is it a requirement to be naked downstairs or we can be clothed?

Lastly, considering our voyeuristic tendencies, what other activities or places can be recommended? Strip shows? Considering that we're shy and not prone to swapping, I guess couple Kissas are out of the question? Or we can visit CKs and not swap? Hiring an escort (esp one of the really nice ones in this forum) show us around and maybe 'tutor' us in things of the bedroom would be interesting but for this trip our budget might not allow for that so maybe that'll have to wait the next time. We do however will be visiting sex shops to get some vibs or toys, fulfilling my promise to get one for the missus after our marriage .

Cheers all!

 

[RightOn6975]

I said this in another thread already, but read Bliss Out for a Single female thread. The OP seemed to have gone at the right time not to mention the gentleman who accompanied her seemed to know what time of the night to go and also what day of the week to go. I couldn't tell you about anything else as far as your voyeur tendencies are concerned nor can I tell you about a good strip club to go to, if you want to know some good bars and clubs I can help with that but nothing on what you are looking for.

As far as an escort is concerned there are a few here that you might want to take some time and read up on. Every single review I have read on any of them is almost always like having an experience to die for and are left with heads swimming in pleasure.

 

[TreadCuriously]

I said this in another thread already, but read Bliss Out for a Single female thread. The OP seemed to have gone at the right time not to mention the gentleman who accompanied her seemed to know what time of the night to go and also what day of the week to go. I couldn't tell you about anything else as far as your voyeur tendencies are concerned nor can I tell you about a good strip club to go to, if you want to know some good bars and clubs I can help with that but nothing on what you are looking for.

As far as an escort is concerned there are a few here that you might want to take some time and read up on. Every single review I have read on any of them is almost always like having an experience to die for and are left with heads swimming in pleasure.

Hey mate, thanks for your reply and inputs! I've read that thread prior to messaging and it was a thread full of nice info, kudos to Maria for sharing. Unfortunately for us, it doesn't really help us as in terms of what we are to expect as a couple that will not be swapping/joining the play. Will it be awkward for us to just come in, see, maybe play among ourselves in the viewing booth and leave? Our last experience totally didn't help us prepare our nerves again for another round .

I've also read many good things bout the active escorts here, don't think we'll be able to do that this time round, but definitely something to look forward to in the future .

Anyone else with experience of good strip show or the likes for us? Cheers!

 

[User#8628]

Guys in happening bars can try to touch you unwanted. Its definitely not abnormal in any environment with swingers around that people will touch you in a nonsexual way to see if you would be into swapping with them.
There is definitelt a risk of getting your arm touched or something. The best thing you can do is letting you master communicate (because it suits his role better) to the other guys that they should not touch you. Just let him rehearse it in Japanese and let him repeat it whenever guys come too close.

As for wearing costumes, thats totally normal in a happening bar, and people are tolerant, i'm sure it wont be a problem to crawl around in a sexy costume in the bar area.

And as for the play: i'm sure a lot of people will love to come watch when you guys go to the play room and they can not get in without permission so no worries.
Enjoy.

 

[User#8628]

I recomment the strip clubs in Shinjuku over the ones in Roppongi because they are a lot cheaper.
There is another thread full of stripclubs.