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This is a post for virgins as well as gentleman feeling some trepidation about booking their first escort. I thought compiling a brief lists of do's and don'ts then opening the thread to questions might be helpful. I have not been in the business for very long so take it with a grain of salt. This advice is based on my own experience as well as other providers.
Don'ts
*Don't worry about popping. This is probably the number one way to ruin a booking for yourself. I know it is always discussed in reviews and many gentleman measure the quality of their encounter based on # of pops but it's overrated. If all you cared about was busting your load you would use your hand or get a happy ending. I have seen many virgins worry that they will only last a second and then psych themselves out for the entire booking. Sometimes they can't pop at all because they're so up in their heads. Some can't even get hard.
Relax and enjoy the moment. Focus on how it feels and don't obsess over a finish line.
*Don't expect it to be like an adult video
This is directed at virgins/those with little experience. Videos and media hype sex up and make it seem like a world shaking, life changing experience. It's fun but it's not that big of a deal. The more expectations you have the more disappointed you will be when the buzzer rings. So many inexperienced people go into a booking with a laundry list of positions and techniques they want to try out. But unfortunately if you are a virgin chances are you don't know much about how your body functions within the sexual domain and you may not be able to maintain many of those positions for more than a few minutes before they become incredibly uncomfortable.
TLDR; leave your fantasies at the door and have fun
Additionally, I have had many virgins complain that we talked longer than expected (they were hoping to spend the entire booking banging). But as fate may have it, sometimes after the first pop they can't keep it up so there isn't much left to do beyond cuddling kissing and talking. Believe it or not, escorts are excellent conversationalists and some clients pay for ONLY that.
*Don't go overtime
You've just spent the last 90 minutes in carnal bliss. This girl has made you feel things you've never felt before and you can't get enough. But the ring of a phone alarm jolts you out of pleasure paradise, dragging you back down to reality. You check the clock; 10 minutes left.
This is NOT the time to keep pumping for one last pop. Many clients seem to misunderstand that the alarm is simply a heads up. It's not. The alarm means that it's time to rinse off together and get dressed. Sure maybe you can get away with a quick rinse; who needs 10 minutes to get ready after all? We do.
After a booking we need to pack up all of our belongings, shower (potentially wash hair if there was a facial), re-do our make up completely, blow dry hair and get dressed. If you really want to keep going then ask for an extension.
Do's
*Do review the provider's website before meeting. Everyone has different policies and preferences; make sure you are up to speed with hard limits and etiquette.
*Do communicate! Now is not the time to be shy. If there's something you want to do, tell her. If there's something that hurts a bit, tell her! If you're not sure if she's enjoying what you're, doing ask!!! Although we are quite powerful we are not psychic.
*Do preen! One of the first things that I notice about a client is hygiene. Brush your teeth if you've eaten recently (flossing also never hurt), make sure your nails are neatly trimmed and clean. In regards to body hair I do not have a preference. In fact sometimes it is more pleasant if it's left as is (freshly shaved hair will often result in sharp little hairs that poke and chafe). Even if you are showering together make sure to give your delicates a cursory wash (wash away that smegma)
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The above was just a list of the most pressing things; I could probably go on and on about tips to make your encounters more enjoyable. But what I want to emphasize is to just relax! Treat it like a date, have fun and don't put too much pressure on yourself.
Don'ts
*Don't worry about popping. This is probably the number one way to ruin a booking for yourself. I know it is always discussed in reviews and many gentleman measure the quality of their encounter based on # of pops but it's overrated. If all you cared about was busting your load you would use your hand or get a happy ending. I have seen many virgins worry that they will only last a second and then psych themselves out for the entire booking. Sometimes they can't pop at all because they're so up in their heads. Some can't even get hard.
Relax and enjoy the moment. Focus on how it feels and don't obsess over a finish line.
*Don't expect it to be like an adult video
This is directed at virgins/those with little experience. Videos and media hype sex up and make it seem like a world shaking, life changing experience. It's fun but it's not that big of a deal. The more expectations you have the more disappointed you will be when the buzzer rings. So many inexperienced people go into a booking with a laundry list of positions and techniques they want to try out. But unfortunately if you are a virgin chances are you don't know much about how your body functions within the sexual domain and you may not be able to maintain many of those positions for more than a few minutes before they become incredibly uncomfortable.
TLDR; leave your fantasies at the door and have fun
Additionally, I have had many virgins complain that we talked longer than expected (they were hoping to spend the entire booking banging). But as fate may have it, sometimes after the first pop they can't keep it up so there isn't much left to do beyond cuddling kissing and talking. Believe it or not, escorts are excellent conversationalists and some clients pay for ONLY that.
*Don't go overtime
You've just spent the last 90 minutes in carnal bliss. This girl has made you feel things you've never felt before and you can't get enough. But the ring of a phone alarm jolts you out of pleasure paradise, dragging you back down to reality. You check the clock; 10 minutes left.
This is NOT the time to keep pumping for one last pop. Many clients seem to misunderstand that the alarm is simply a heads up. It's not. The alarm means that it's time to rinse off together and get dressed. Sure maybe you can get away with a quick rinse; who needs 10 minutes to get ready after all? We do.
After a booking we need to pack up all of our belongings, shower (potentially wash hair if there was a facial), re-do our make up completely, blow dry hair and get dressed. If you really want to keep going then ask for an extension.
Do's
*Do review the provider's website before meeting. Everyone has different policies and preferences; make sure you are up to speed with hard limits and etiquette.
*Do communicate! Now is not the time to be shy. If there's something you want to do, tell her. If there's something that hurts a bit, tell her! If you're not sure if she's enjoying what you're, doing ask!!! Although we are quite powerful we are not psychic.
*Do preen! One of the first things that I notice about a client is hygiene. Brush your teeth if you've eaten recently (flossing also never hurt), make sure your nails are neatly trimmed and clean. In regards to body hair I do not have a preference. In fact sometimes it is more pleasant if it's left as is (freshly shaved hair will often result in sharp little hairs that poke and chafe). Even if you are showering together make sure to give your delicates a cursory wash (wash away that smegma)
***
The above was just a list of the most pressing things; I could probably go on and on about tips to make your encounters more enjoyable. But what I want to emphasize is to just relax! Treat it like a date, have fun and don't put too much pressure on yourself.
