OMG, please help an old man out. Most of you who have read my posts can tell that I am pretty open-minded and rather liberal in my outlook.
I value people as people and have counted gay men and lesbian women as dear friends.
However, I love women when it comes to intimacy and shudder at the thought of being intimate with someone who was not born a woman.
So many posters on TAG have raved about experiences with people they described as women and were later informed that the person was actually a lady boy.
So, please forgive my ignorance. Please tell me. How can a person be sure it's really a natural-born woman?
I'm also curious to know the answers to roots raggea post. How do we know a she was a he by looking at the pictures
Thanks
Since high school I have worked as a model and when I entered university I did beauty pageants for five years, hoping from states to states with lots of my different gay glam team. When you happen to be around the circle and company of gay people, you kinda pick up on the vibe. I've been with them for too long that I have established a gaydar, I think.
For starters, it is about movements. There are certain angles and movements that gay people do, like the flick of the hand and the hair.
Second, when you suspect the pretty girl is gay, but not sure, observe her. Pretty trans tend to be obssessed with themselves and when they sit, they keep on looking around for people who are possibly checking them out. When the suspected trans cannot keep still, and head keep on moving looking around, gaydar alert.
Third, this is very obvious. Adam's apple and voice. A gay's voice will always "forced pitched" like a deep voice desperately turning into high pitched woman's squeal.
Fourth, look at the hand and feet. Men will generally have bigger hands and feet compared to women. Trans cannot have an operation to reduce the size of hands and feet.
Fifth, post op trans generally has lots and lots of cosmetic surgeries, most common are, hip implant, boob implant, rhinoplasty (to make the nose looking more girly or not manly), I also heard about chin implants. Generally if the suspected trans has sooo many obvious operations, then that's a red flag.
Sixth, make up. Trans looooove make up, probably more than girls. If the suspected trans came in a really really thick make up with perfect contour, then it could be a sign. But then again, remember that some girls love make up too, like myself, so it doesn't automatically equate that if the girl has tons of make up then she is trans, it is just one of the signs. I have a trans friend who put make up on her entire body. She uses cake foundation to make her legs smooth and flawless. I only noticed it coz we were swimming lol, and while at pool, she was retouching her leg foundation.
Seventh, mind the wetness. Gay people cannot produce their own lubrication as far as I know. They probably use personal lubricants. Hence, if the wetness is wearing off in second round during intercourse, it could be either, you are not getting the girl aroused enough to produce lubrication (which is generally rare in my opinion, coz it naturally come with intercourse or she really just can't produce her own). She may excuse herself to the bathroom before the next round to use lube sticks. The kind of lube inserted inside.
Eight, most trans will allow backdoor entrance aka AF, coz that was their hole pre op. Again, this just doesnt apply to trans, some women enjoy AF too, but generally trans will be more open to this.
Lastly, avoid scummy places like BP, just go with well reviewed girl or well reviewed agency, if you don't wanna worry about this.
I am by no means expert on this field, but I have just stipulated my observations based on the gay people I've been around with.
