MikeH
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I was only trying to equate the two only in the case where lying is involved, i.e. engaging in p4p in while in a monogamous relationship and lying that you're not.
So basically your question in a nutshell is if lying is more wrong than lying? I think most people agree they do not agree with moral questions so your question comes out as you are just trying to start a fire.
This is a really interesting answer. The girls you are with just happen to be quite open I suppose. I don't expect that most women would take kindly to this though. I think your telling the truth would probably eliminate most girls from your pool of possible women that you could date, but perhaps you have a lot of abundance due to inherent advantages that you have to the point where you don't care that your potential pool is smaller. I do admire that you stick to your principles, but I don't think that this is something a lot of guys would be willing to compromise on, especially if their pool of possible women is already small due to not being the most attractive or wealthy.
Yeah, my pool is huge because I am the most attractive and wealthy guy in here. Wait, after checking the mirror and my wallet I am starting to wonder maybe that is not the reason?
The thing is I am a man of modesty and I do not try to date most of the women. Therefore the girls also do not "just happen" to be more open than your average girl, but the ones who are not get filtered out by natural selection. Which is a nicer way to say they do not want to date me.
As I am always looking for a long term relationship it is important to have your own selection criteria. If you are not willing to "slimming the pool" but are happy to just get anyone then why don't you just spin the roulette and go to the nearest p4p shop? Way easier that way.
Though on a positive side there is about 22 million girls in Japan between the ages 20 and 49. And I am basically looking for 3 at the time. So the numbers are on my side even if I try to select tightly.