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I'm sure when most people meet a provider for the first time, they tell her how pretty she is, your nihongo probably gets ojouzu'd, and she asks you how long you're going to stay in Japan/how long you've been in Japan. Maybe it's just me, but I'm realizing that with pretty much every encounter I have with a provider, I end up telling her that her BJ technique is good during the first 5 seconds of it. But then later on, I end up asking her to adjust, usually because of teeth. There are even times where it ends up being so bad that I end up finishing with sumata (usually from health providers).
And that got me thinking... me telling them that their BJ technique being good when I've barely experienced it is actually just another way of saying nihongo ojouzu desune. There are obviously some I've met where it's actually amazing and it's completely truthful, but they don't make up the majority, so it really feels like an empty compliment in retrospect. Surely I'm not the only one that does this, right? At the very least, I hope it helps set a good mood for the play
And that got me thinking... me telling them that their BJ technique being good when I've barely experienced it is actually just another way of saying nihongo ojouzu desune. There are obviously some I've met where it's actually amazing and it's completely truthful, but they don't make up the majority, so it really feels like an empty compliment in retrospect. Surely I'm not the only one that does this, right? At the very least, I hope it helps set a good mood for the play