The reasons you couldn't cum when p4p
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PIED - Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction - Didn't even know it was a thing.
But was utterly puzzled when the pornstar sucking on my flaccid penis was the same one I had been edging to with a rock-hard cock all week.
Then I found https://www.yourbrainonporn.com, began No-Fap, got to 29 days, re-booked her, and did her twice in 2 hours.
Made her my Rewiring Therapist- no orgasms unless she gives them to me personally. Also, she is only available once, maybe twice a month.
So, there's that bit of discipline. (Not that I haven't had some trouble getting into this new routine.)
Nightly and morning wood have started up again, too. Which is nice. When those aren't present, you KNOW you're in PIED-Land!
But The Flatlining can be weird. But then I get into a room with her, and it's operational again.
That YourBrain Website is NOT anti-porn. It's a complicated, fascinating issue.
Anyway, I used to think porn was better than whoring; but now I know that the exact opposite is true.
Whores are people, and people are way better than screens and devices and infinite internet novelty.
But was utterly puzzled when the pornstar sucking on my flaccid penis was the same one I had been edging to with a rock-hard cock all week.
Then I found https://www.yourbrainonporn.com, began No-Fap, got to 29 days, re-booked her, and did her twice in 2 hours.
Made her my Rewiring Therapist- no orgasms unless she gives them to me personally. Also, she is only available once, maybe twice a month.
So, there's that bit of discipline. (Not that I haven't had some trouble getting into this new routine.)
Nightly and morning wood have started up again, too. Which is nice. When those aren't present, you KNOW you're in PIED-Land!
But The Flatlining can be weird. But then I get into a room with her, and it's operational again.
That YourBrain Website is NOT anti-porn. It's a complicated, fascinating issue.
Anyway, I used to think porn was better than whoring; but now I know that the exact opposite is true.
Whores are people, and people are way better than screens and devices and infinite internet novelty.
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Sorry to resurrect this thread, but I’ve just found it fascinating. It’s always taken me a long time to cum, but I’m not seeing anything here that I personally relate to. I never go to a place with alcohol in me, and I’ve been lucky with all my providers so far in terms of personality/connection.
Over the past few months, I’ve been to half a dozen providers, and only two were able to make me come—and both of those were surprises (one was Ai in Shimbashi, who deserves every bit of praise she gets on this site).
Knowing my “problem” (I never thought of it like that), I don’t actually go to a provider to have an orgasm. For me, it’s more for the relaxation and novelty. The play. It all feels good to me, and if I can make a positive physical and mental connection with the provider, I’ve gotten my money’s worth. Coming is a welcome bonus, but I try to let the provider know ASAP that my body is wired to take a while, and that I’m not expecting an orgasm with the service.
Over the past few months, I’ve been to half a dozen providers, and only two were able to make me come—and both of those were surprises (one was Ai in Shimbashi, who deserves every bit of praise she gets on this site).
Knowing my “problem” (I never thought of it like that), I don’t actually go to a provider to have an orgasm. For me, it’s more for the relaxation and novelty. The play. It all feels good to me, and if I can make a positive physical and mental connection with the provider, I’ve gotten my money’s worth. Coming is a welcome bonus, but I try to let the provider know ASAP that my body is wired to take a while, and that I’m not expecting an orgasm with the service.
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Interesting. Sometimes that’s what I try to convince myself too , but I still feel dissatisfied (with myself and/or the provider) if I didnt go to the finish line. But come to think of it its easier and quicker (and often better) with Lady Left Hand so yes, clearly I don’t just pay for that.
This Ai massage place in Shimbashi really starts to intrigue me !
For me when i do p4p and didn't cum it was because I didn't feel comfortable at all. It's sucks when you're trying to meet a new girl and you're kinda there but not really. It feels more business than pleasure.
The best p4p girls make you feel like seeing them was like seeing a friend. There's one p4p girl in the states (bbw type) who made me feel so comfortable with here i would get "there" twice times. Once with her and another on the way there because she established a healthy emotional connection. Hell she was so cool we went out to a bar and had drinks(not on me)
The best p4p girls make you feel like seeing them was like seeing a friend. There's one p4p girl in the states (bbw type) who made me feel so comfortable with here i would get "there" twice times. Once with her and another on the way there because she established a healthy emotional connection. Hell she was so cool we went out to a bar and had drinks(not on me)