Thoughts on sex workers

[Hellotokyo69]

So I’ve read many reviews, opinions and comments regarding SW’s but I’m curious as to what you really think about it as a profession. I would love to hear how you feel and also how much you feel comfortable defending to your peers.

 

[BB0523]

Search the forum . .This topic has been covered already in several viewpointviewpoints. .

 

[vargas]

Haha you're not going to get a lot of honesty since many female SWs contribute here and most of the male members wont want to risk insulting them Also it's a complicated topic. Most female SWs who enjoy their work and haven't had bad experiences probably still wouldn't want their daughters doing it for a variety of reasons that have been discussed to death.

 

[Desktop]

I’ve been around women in the business for a long time knowing some before during & after they were in the business.
I think of their work as entertainment.
I also have know a lot of artist. Fans of an artist can fall in love but the artist just wants to stay in character & give the best performance.

 

[Yuriko]

I love doing my part, as a bbbj+ cim speciajist.!! It's such a great balance for me, interesting meeting lots of different men! Fulfill my desire to serve men! In English! That is a very important part, too. It's my reality escape, knowing what I'm good at to please men clients. Such a gift God has given me...

I don't have much skills for FS. lol. That's why I don't provide what I'm not super good at, but my clients go, they want to fuck me. I take it as a compliment.

 

[warubuta]

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I love doing my part, as a bbbj+ cim speciajist.!! It's such a great balance for me, interesting meeting lots of different men! Fulfill my desire to serve men! In English! That is a very important part, too. It's my reality escape, knowing what I'm good at to please men clients. Such a gift God has given me...

I don't have much skills for FS. lol. That's why I don't provide what I'm not super good at, but my clients go, they want to fuck me. I take it as a compliment.

My clients sometimes want to fuck me too.

 

[MikeH]

My clients sometimes want to fuck me too.

But do you take it as a compliment too?

 

[warubuta]

But do you take it as a compliment too?

Well, I guess it’s a fuck or be fucked world. I don’t take it personally one way or another.

 

[just4fun]

It's the worlds oldest profession. I personally don't look down on anyones work.

 

[MikeH]

Well, I guess it’s a fuck or be fucked world. I don’t take it personally one way or another.

Well, @Yuriko-san has proven the first part of your post is not true and the second part shows why she is much more positive and happy person than you.

 

[Manami TMK]

still wouldn't want their daughters doing it for a variety of reasons that have been discussed to death.

Oh maybe they don’t want to have a daughter at all?

I know a lot of girls; especially agent girls in their website, say “I decided to join this club because I love sex. I want to fulfill my sexual curiosity.” Sure, I would not say that they are telling a lie. However, if so, why don’t they look for fwb online? You can choose who you meet and it is no string attached.

Let me be honest. I love sex and sex work that brings me money to live comfortably.

To stay a comfortable, happy escort, the key is you only focus on yourself. It may be sometimes difficult, especially when you work at agency where you often see other successful girls at work, have more chance to talk to them, you even can see a monthly ranking sheet on a wall in a waiting room.
But I have seen many competitive SWs in past and they slowly destroyed their mind and life eventually. It is not worth it.

One of the reason why I like this job is my beloved clients often smile and tell me “thank you” after a date.
When you do something to somebody and they thank you for what you have done, it makes you feel happy, doesn’t it?
If I have to work to survive anyway, i would like to have a more worthwhile job than A job that I have zero interest in.

 

[just4fun]

Thank you ;

 

[Hellotokyo69]

Search the forum . .This topic has been covered already in several viewpointviewpoints. .

I’ve tried and I can’t find anything. Sorry I’m not as well versed in this site as you perhaps.

 

[warubuta]

Well, @Yuriko-san has proven the first part of your post is not true and the second part shows why she is much more positive and happy person than you.

I'm pretty positive on Mondays. By Thursday, I am usually a bit pissed off and dark. Tomorrow at around 6PM I will be the cheery, jolly pink pig that loves the world and is loved back in spades!

 

[Hellotokyo69]

Haha you're not going to get a lot of honesty since many female SWs contribute here and most of the male members wont want to risk insulting them Also it's a complicated topic. Most female SWs who enjoy their work and haven't had bad experiences probably still wouldn't want their daughters doing it for a variety of reasons that have been discussed to death.

Yeah that’s probably true. I’m a sex worker too and don’t get me wrong 90% of the time I really enjoy what I do and it allows me to live a very comfortable life that I probably couldn’t afford otherwise, my only hang up is the social stigma attached. I wish I lived in a world where people openly accepted it as a valid profession. I suspect that even many guys who post here and avail of these services may not feel comfortable standing up for SW’s if a conversation was to come up with acquaintances that’s why I wanted to ask how people truly felt but I guess your right that maybe I’m not going to get some straight answers here haha.

 

[just4fun]

I’ve tried and I can’t find anything. Sorry I’m not as well versed in this site as you perhaps.

Just scroll down to the bottom of this page that we're on now and there's a few right there.

BTW, every culture has a different outlook on Sw'rs. What exactly are you looking for? Both positive and negative outlooks?

 

[vargas]

Let me be honest. I love sex and sex work that brings me money to live comfortably.

Sure, and while I've never met you, I've read a lot of reviews and I'd say yours are a whole 'nother level It's obvious you're an extremely warm and sensual person and take excellent care of your clients. I don't think that's the usual case for the majority of SWs though

 

[Hellotokyo69]

Just scroll down to the bottom of this page that we're on now and there's a few right there.

BTW, every culture has a different outlook on Sw'rs. What exactly are you looking for? Both positive and negative outlooks?

Thank you! Sadly I don’t think they are as connected to my question as I’d hoped.
I just wanted to know how people who are quite open about availing of such services feel, say their sister/daughter/mother were to disclose that they are a SW. I’m prepared to hear negative comments and quite frankly I expect it, although due to the nature of this site that should not necessarily be the case. I have zero problem with what I do so I’m open for a frank discussion if anyone would feel comfortable to share their view.

 

[Hellotokyo69]

Sorry if this has been covered before, I just don’t want to turn to reddit haha

 

[Lars Lust]

I really enjoy what I do and it allows me to live a very comfortable life that I probably couldn’t afford otherwise, my only hang up is the social stigma attached.

Misunderstanding. If the work didn’t have the stigma attached, you would never be able to charge today’s fees. For one thing, there would be much much more competition. Escorting, with a very low market entry threshold, would rapidly become a commodity. And your life would not be as comfortable as it is today. Be careful what you wish for.

 

[Hellotokyo69]

Misunderstanding. If the work didn’t have the stigma attached, you would never be able to charge today’s fees. For one thing, there would be much much more competition. Escorting, with a very low market entry threshold, would rapidly become a commodity. And your life would not be as comfortable as it is today. Be careful what you wish for.

That’s a great point, thank you.

 

[Frenchy]

Misunderstanding. If the work didn’t have the stigma attached, you would never be able to charge today’s fees. For one thing, there would be much much more competition. Escorting, with a very low market entry threshold, would rapidly become a commodity. And your life would not be as comfortable as it is today. Be careful what you wish for.

Agreed. Most insightful post so far.

 

[vargas]

Yeah that’s probably true. I’m a sex worker too and don’t get me wrong 90% of the time I really enjoy what I do and it allows me to live a very comfortable life that I probably couldn’t afford otherwise, my only hang up is the social stigma attached. I wish I lived in a world where people openly accepted it as a valid profession. I suspect that even many guys who post here and avail of these services may not feel comfortable standing up for SW’s if a conversation was to come up with acquaintances that’s why I wanted to ask how people truly felt but I guess your right that maybe I’m not going to get some straight answers here haha.

Well you're probably not going to find many people on TAG who think SWs are awful, disgusting, human beings I certainly don't. I'd like to think it's a job that wouldn't exist in a scarcity-free world where no one needs to work to live comfortably though. But I could be wrong about that, it's certainly a very interesting topic! I think the industry exists in large part due to the massive difference (on average) between male and female levels of sexual desire plus the risk of diseases, pregnancy, violence, etc. And of course the near universal support of monogamy which has many social benefits but is probably contrary to human nature.

 

[just4fun]

Misunderstanding. If the work didn’t have the stigma attached, you would never be able to charge today’s fees. For one thing, there would be much much more competition. Escorting, with a very low market entry threshold, would rapidly become a commodity. And your life would not be as comfortable as it is today. Be careful what you wish for.

Yes, as long as there's a sidewalk every girl would have a job

 

[Simonka]

What I’ve realized after getting into SW is almost everybody gets involved in SW at some point in their life, either as a client or provider. They’re our friends, daughters, fathers, boyfriends and husbands. From a client’s standpoint, it would be a wholesome thing to respect the providers who service them. My personal experience has been generally positive so far, I feel safe and respected as a SW who works in Tokyo and advertises on TAG. This is my side job, and I’m not sure how long I’ll be in the business but my positive experiences have shed a green light on sex industry for me.