Tipping?

[jamie1969]

Is tipping escort expected or regular practice in Tokyo? First time to visit and will tip if not considered offensive.

Thanks

 

[kirayamato]

not expected, not encouraged

 

[Kevt]

It's not expected, but it won't be seen as offensive.

 

[Icyblu]

Providers were always appreciative whenever I did. It's not required though.

 

[Cinnabums]

Don't bring Amerikan customs to Japan!

 

[rafaelx12]

Don't bring tipping culture here please. Generally "tipping" is for extra services

 

[Sudsy]

Is tipping escort expected or regular practice in Tokyo? First time to visit and will tip if not considered offensive.

Thanks

It's not required, not encouraged, and in many cases is indeed offensive.

If you can't leave that toxic custom at home, then stay home.

 

[qcryp]

Even in the US we don't tip escorts, I mean some do and some ladies are trying to say it is expected but in general... no. Don't bring that shitty culture over, not even at restaurants.

 

[plooped]

Do not tip, but if you want to absolutely show your appreciation -other than being on your best behavior and making sure that the provider is having a good time like you- you can bring a small gift (it's not expected but appreciated).

 

[teppan]

Thai ladies love tipping

 

[Barro27]

Two reasons not to tip :

• tipping is historically linked with societies with strong glass ceilings for their working class
• anything that is done regularly becomes expected eventually, and everything expected eventually becomes mandatory

 

[Kevt]

Tipping escorts wasn't a big thing in the US in my limited experience. So its not really bringing the culture over.

Girls work hard and put themselves at risk, so i do have a variety of ways of showing apprection without tipping. In reality, tipping would be cheaper and easier in the long run, but less personal.

Here are some other ideas that I'll do:

Bring snacks or gifts. Even small things are often appreciated.
Bring small cakes for birthdays.
Bring things that relate to nearby holidays.
I travel often, so I also buy omiyage supplies for providers.
Extend time if a providers schedule is light that day (and if she enjoys time with me).
Extend time and leave early if you want to give then a break.
Do something they like to do in extra time. Like sing karaoke in the LH for ones that enjoy singing.
I give a Lot of massages. professional training and experience..
I give advice within my rl expertise whenever it benefits them or if they ask.

And on occasions I do tip, but mostly in situations when providers go beyond the official available options. I'll go with what I believe are usual market rates that Japanese clients get which is still pretty low imho...

 

[requiemmorrow]

Is tipping escort expected or regular practice in Tokyo? First time to visit and will tip if not considered offensive.

Thanks

 

[homer69]

Tipping escorts wasn't a big thing in the US in my limited experience. So its not really bringing the culture over.

Girls work hard and put themselves at risk, so i do have a variety of ways of showing apprection without tipping. In reality, tipping would be cheaper and easier in the long run, but less personal.

Here are some other ideas that I'll do:

Bring snacks or gifts. Even small things are often appreciated.
Bring small cakes for birthdays.
Bring things that relate to nearby holidays.
I travel often, so I also buy omiyage supplies for providers.
Extend time if a providers schedule is light that day (and if she enjoys time with me).
Extend time and leave early if you want to give then a break.
Do something they like to do in extra time. Like sing karaoke in the LH for ones that enjoy singing.
I give a Lot of massages. professional training and experience..
I give advice within my rl expertise whenever it benefits them or if they ask.

And on occasions I do tip, but mostly in situations when providers go beyond the official available options. I'll go with what I believe are usual market rates that Japanese clients get which is still pretty low imho...

I occasionally extend time if she is not busy and the leftover is spent chatting about whatever. I don't do this with ones that "like me" and I have a long history with. I bring them snacks and regional things from antenna shops, (sometimes pulling the salaryman trick to convince his wife he was out of town when he was actually local) but that's a higher order method.

Regarding leaving early, I tend to be careful as this could reflect badly with tencho and management if they think the lady did something wrong. If I leave early I always tell tencho I got a call and need to deal with something or other.

 

[Alice]

Generally "tipping" is for extra services

Yes, in places with “options”, the girls will appreciate if you get extra paid options (if you don’t want to choose an option they may not like, ask them what they like. Also a lot of guys may order options and end up not using them and you generally don’t get the money back).
For all inclusive services, I think most girls appreciate a good tip, as long as it doesn’t seem like there is anything expected like BB or some other obligation. Always welcome to give it at the end. I have never met a girl who would rather not get some extra if given the choice.
Gifts are of course very nice and appreciated as well, but often hit or miss. If a girl has a wishlist or you can ask her beforehand, that may help.
I can understand it’s not encouraged by other customers though, lol.

 

[Alice]

Regarding leaving early, I tend to be careful as this could reflect badly with tencho and management if they think the lady did something wrong. If I leave early I always tell tencho I got a call and need to deal with something or other.

I think the staff are usually understanding with foreign customers if there is a language barrier. It could be awkward to sit around and use a translator app until the time is up, so it’s understandable foreigners would not use the whole time when play is finished and they may still be pretty satisfied. Also most shops don’t care as much about foreigners because they may not repeat.

Customers leaving early may seem like a bonus for a girl because they get some time for themselves to relax and that may be too, but if you are pleasant company I don’t think there is much of an advantage for the girl if you leave early. Maybe allow her to eat or sleep or clean during downtime with you if it seems she needs one of those things.
If you’re her last slot of the day, maybe nice for her to be able to get home a bit earlier though.

 

[Cinnabums]

If a girl has a wishlist or you can ask her beforehand, that may help.

This, my repeats have told me what they like and more than often a friendly gesture worth of gifts that they would purchase anyway.

With new girls my tip is normally only at the end of my dick though.

 

[Kevt]

Maybe allow her to eat or sleep or clean during downtime with you if it seems she needs one of those things.

I've let a lot of girls nap. I enjoy cuddling so its a win-win if she sleeps while cuddling.
Not every woman loves cuddling though, so I've also let some nap in peace.

 

[MikeH]

With new girls my tip is normally only at the end of my dick though.

All girls know it's never just the tip.

 

[Sudsy]

All girls know it's never just the tip.