Tips for first AF/BDSM

pikachupikapika

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Hi. I'd like to know how I should go about it. I have booked Hiyori from robodeli and chose AF and deepthroat as options.

All suggestions are welcome as I am a little nervous about it.

PS- is it safe to indulge in analingus with an escort. If yes, any precautions I should take?
 
PS- is it safe to indulge in analingus with an escort. If yes, any precautions I should take?
Ask yourself, would you do it to yourself? How to you feel about it?
Would you go ass to mouth?
And, do you take monthly tests for STD's, etc?


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I would never do it to my hairy asshole🙈. And no, I don't take monthly tests but I asked the girl and she said she got tested recently.

If I clean her asshole with soap first, is it not safe? Just asking..
 
I would never do it to my hairy asshole🙈. And no, I don't take monthly tests but I asked the girl and she said she got tested recently.

If I clean her asshole with soap first, is it not safe? Just asking..
See, you're not taking care of your own health but relying on someone else to get tested. Just like the women that work in the business, you'd be doing yourself a favor by establishing a baseline of your own health.

I wouldn't be doing that with someone I don't know, who's not a regular partner where I would know more about her health situation.
(no offense to her, it's just a common viewpoint on riskier activities)

You can clean it as much as you'd like, but there's always a chance something COULD happen.

Just a short list of things that can come for any unprotected contact:
  • Genital Warts
  • Gonorrhea
  • Syphilis
  • Hepatitis A/B
  • Herpes
Plus a chance at:
  • Salmonella
  • E. Coli
Cleaning & soap will help remove the bacteria but not the STD's.

In the end, we aren't health experts... so you have to judge for yourself.
 
Dude you just scared the shit out of me. Now I'm wondering if even AF with a condom, raw bj and kissing is safe or not....
 
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See, you're not taking care of your own health but relying on someone else to get tested. Just like the women that work in the business, you'd be doing yourself a favor by establishing a baseline of your own health.

I wouldn't be doing that with someone I don't know, who's not a regular partner where I would know more about her health situation.
(no offense to her, it's just a common viewpoint on riskier activities)

You can clean it as much as you'd like, but there's always a chance something COULD happen.

Just a short list of things that can come for any unprotected contact:
  • Genital Warts
  • Gonorrhea
  • Syphilis
  • Hepatitis A/B
  • Herpes
Plus a chance at:
  • Salmonella
  • E. Coli
Cleaning & soap will help remove the bacteria but not the STD's.

In the end, we're aren't health experts... so you have to judge for yourself.
I don't take monthly tests because I've only been with one partner my whole life, my ex, who recently broke up with me
 
Dude you just scared the shit out of me. Now I'm wondering if even AF with a condom, raw bj and kissing is safe or not....
You asked! lol.
The risks are all lower for oral activity vs. raw vaginal or anal sex, so there's that.
It's lower but not a 0% chance.

HIV chances are much lower due to how it actually could be contracted.
People do take PreP to protect against HIV these days.
 
I can understand wanting to get rimmed, but paying to lick someone's poo-hole ??
 
Thanks buddy, I'm gonna skip on the ass-eating. Kissing and AF with condom should be okay though, right?
 
AF with condom
certainly the safer route outside of not doing it at all.
I still say if you're going to meet various providers regularly, you should test yourself at least once in awhile.
If you're just a part-timer, probably not so much worry then...
 
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certainly the safer route outside of not doing it at all.
I still say if you're going to meet various providers regularly, you should test yourself at least once in awhile.
If you're just a part-timer, probably not so much worry then...
This is my first time with an escort and will probably not do it for another few years, I just needed some different kind of sex (kinky) to get over my ex
 
if you want it to go smoothly use the slimy lube the girl should bring for AF. Use a condom if you're worried about STDs. No need to worry excessively
 
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