To any GFE providers: Client Hygiene

[RIDER 00]

Of course, as clients of GFE providers, we have to be decent and show up to the meet with a standard level of cleanliness. I, myself, shower at least twice before meeting the girl and then once with her. Never had a complaint about my hygiene (at least, not any that were said to my face). When I was forced to show up to a meet without shaving first, I explained to the girl about the reason and apologized to her, to which she was very understanding.

However, I have heard horror stories from one escort about clients demanding that they get things started without showering first. By "started," I don't mean kissing/making-out, but actual direct physical contact in the sensitive areas with the most frequent request being BBBJ without showering first, and also to do DATY on the provider without her showering either. Of course, clients do ask for BBFS from time to time, but that's a separate topic.

Note: Some providers might be willing to do this, I understand that. I just used the word "horror" because this escort in particular hated getting these kind of requests.

I'd just like to ask to any providers out there if they have had similar experiences to the thing I described, and if yes, how frequent? (I can't imagine that it's common, though)

Please share and hopefully this'll help remind all clients to be kind and wash up first! (A breath mint would also be a great show of manners)

 

[veryniceguy]

Anyone seeing a provider who does not shower first, and prepare correctly........ is totally disrespectful......

 

[RIDER 00]

I have noted in my escort ads that showering and mouth wash routine are mandatory.
So far my clients never had problems with showering, and I try not to spend too much time there anyway unless they prefer shower play.
I guess some people don't care if the escort they are seeing has oozing herpes sores or not? Showering also gives us a chance to do a small physical check up as well as its a therapeutic way to connect with our clients.

Some guys have a fetish for doing it raw. I have also heard that it "proves" a couple is in love with each other when they can just go at it without showering.

The escort I talked to has had past trauma where boyfriends have also demanded this of her when she prefers to shower first.

 

[Yuriko]

I usually start with shower, or clients after showered. So, I don't have any issues.

I also ask clients, who goes to toilette and Pee, I ask him to wash his dick, in order to do my work, afterwards! It's an etiquette! lol.

I'd rather feel uncomfortable, when kissing bad breathed guys...professionally, I accept it, or politely ask to brush teeth, but... most likely, ended up yikes...but to put up with.

 

[Anna Summer]

I think it’s important to wash thoroughly, especially if a guy is not circumcised. There can be a lot of nasty stuff accumulating during the day. Just water doesn’t do the trick.

 

[RIDER 00]

I think it’s important to wash thoroughly, especially if a guy is not circumcised. There can be a lot of nasty stuff accumulating during the day. Just water doesn’t do the trick.

Yup, I won't go into the details of the scientific term for what builds up there, but it isn't pleasant. (Although, a disturbing amount of Japanese graphic games and novels have a hang-up over the girl loving this about uncircumcised Japanese guys)

Lots of scrubbing with soap and water is what will take care of that.

 

[User#8628]

I don't mean kissing/making-out, but actual direct physical contact in the sensitive areas with the most frequent request being BBBJ without showering first, and also to do DATY on the provider without her showering either

Daty thing is pretty common, its like they cant wait. I don’t care because its not directly unpleasant for me but it makes me nervous about possibly tissue paper being stuck there. Bidet washing at the toilet can help.

I actually don’t mind skipping the shower if its clear that the client has showered right before but good hygiene is definitely a must. Not so uncommon for guys who have their own hotel room to request to skip the shower if they just took one though. I think in some places like the US, showering together is considered “dangerous”, so the guys are used to shower beforehand.

 

[User#8628]

Lots of scrubbing with soap and water is what will take care of that.

Careful. Too rough scrubbing can also cause cuts and infections

 

[User#8628]

I usually start with shower, or clients after showered. So, I don't have any issues.

I also ask clients, who goes to toilette and Pee, I ask him to wash his dick, in order to do my work, afterwards! It's an etiquette! lol.

I'd rather feel uncomfortable, when kissing bad breathed guys...professionally, I accept it, or politely ask to brush teeth, but... most likely, ended up yikes...but to put up with.

I agree. There is no point of shower if they pee afterwards. They have to wash again.
And bad breath is so disturbing

 

[RIDER 00]

Daty thing is pretty common, its like they cant wait. I don’t care because its not directly unpleasant for me but it makes me nervous about possibly tissue paper being stuck there. Bidet washing at the toilet can help.

I actually don’t mind skipping the shower if its clear that the client has showered right before but good hygiene is definitely a must. Not so uncommon for guys who have their own hotel room to request to skip the shower if they just took one though. I think in some places like the US, showering together is considered “dangerous”, so the guys are used to shower beforehand.

Just be careful. As a guy, I can tell you that not all of us are honest or thorough when it comes to hygiene.

 

[RIDER 00]

Careful. Too rough scrubbing can also cause cuts and infections

lolol Well noted.

Of course, I have yet to see a guy who scrubbed his own dick too hard in that way.

 

[User#8628]

Just be careful. As a guy, I can tell you that not all of us are honest or thorough when it comes to hygiene.

Oh, if i can notice that someone’s hygiene is not up to standards when the clothes are off, i’ll request a shower anyway.

 

[MikeH]

I have also heard that it "proves" a couple is in love with each other when they can just go at it without showering.

Real love is making sure everything is clean and nice for her. And of course vice versa.

One shop girl was once complaining to me some Japanese guys want to have a blowjob immediately before the shower. Well, she was working for a place that offered it as a payable option though.

 

[RIDER 00]

Real love is making sure everything is clean and nice for her. And of course vice versa.

One shop girl was once complaining to me some Japanese guys want to have a blowjob immediately before the shower. Well, she was working for a place that offered it as a payable option though.

Yeah, I agree. Some people still think that way though, apparently.
Spontaneity in sex is important and hot, but it shouldn't come to the point where you have to constantly resist the urge to vomit throughout the entire session.

 

[just4fun]

Don't use a wire brush........

 

[Majestyk]

Some guys may enjoy giving girls a hard time or take pleasure from pushing them into certain things they don't enjoy. Or they time travelled from the year 1678 and their hygiene rules are a little different. Girls should be firm and tell them no.

In this day and age, I can’t really fathom why some guys don’t care about their hygiene, especially when they are going to be intimate with a lady. It’s bad form. Stinky isn’t sexy. It’s also downright despicable to force their unwashed selves on their dates.
Anyway, I’ve heard from a couple of providers complain about foreign clients who wanted to skip shower and head straight to play. But these ladies insisted, so their clients duly complied without any drama.

 

[Wwanderer]

Or they time travelled from the year 1678 ...

You make it sound like that was a long time ago??!



-Ww

 

[Wwanderer]

Personally the relatively high levels of hygiene associated with sex (p4p and np4p) in Japanese culture is a wonderful thing, but in case anyone isn't aware of it, the same is not true everywhere. In the crude and savage world of p4p in the US, showering while with a p4p partner (or other partner you don't know well) is considered risky by many. It makes you vulnerable and separates you from your money and valuables. Etc.

So, visitors from abroad, especially from the US perhaps, may be concerned about showering before play for reasons other than disrespect or lack of concern for hygiene.

-Ww

 

[Yuriko]

Just be careful. As a guy, I can tell you that not all of us are honest or thorough when it comes to hygiene.

I know that Americans care alot. Take shower 4-5 times a day?? American clients do ask me often, when they send an inquiry.

But,.on the other hand, no sure French guys or Brits, Europeans.I find when I smell swet, it's not just "swet", nice manly smell turns me on at the office...I noticed it from my boss...lol. I was aware of my pheromon smell,
when I was swet in the office recently, lol. Had to go to my boss's room...I do get female smel sometimes, that I better go to washroom often...

 

[Yuriko]

Real love is making sure everything is clean and nice for her. And of course vice versa.

One shop girl was once complaining to me some Japanese guys want to have a blowjob immediately before the shower. Well, she was working for a place that offered it as a payable option though.

Japanese guys they are pretty much fucked up, and sounds like such a great way to power harrass girls like that. Shops have it as an option?lol. good business scheme!

I would not put that in my menu, as I got to protect myself, on my own.

 

[User#8628]

In this day and age, I can’t really fathom why some guys don’t care about their hygiene, especially when they are going to be intimate with a lady. It’s bad form. Stinky isn’t sexy. It’s also downright despicable to force their unwashed selves on their dates.
Anyway, I’ve heard from a couple of providers complain about foreign clients who wanted to skip shower and head straight to play. But these ladies insisted, so their clients duly complied without any drama.

I agree. This has nothing to do with escorts per se, i just wonder why some guys seem hesitant to put money and effort into their personal hygiene, yet expect other people to get close to them without trouble...

 

[Troilist]

I'd rather feel uncomfortable, when kissing bad breathed guys...professionally, I accept it, or politely ask to brush teeth, but... most likely, ended up yikes...but to put up with.

For me good oral hygiene is extremely important. Many people do not know how vital it is to get an annual cleaning to prevent plaque buildup which can lead to bad breath and other gum diseases. Unfortunately, most people believe that daily brushing and flossing(something many people don’t even do) and regular use of antiseptic mouthwash is a good enough method of taking care of their oral hygiene.

 

[User#8628]

For me good oral hygiene is extremely important. Many people do not know how vital it is to get an annual cleaning to prevent plaque buildup which can lead to bad breath and other gum diseases. Unfortunately, most people believe that daily brushing and flossing(something many people don’t even do) and regular use of antiseptic mouthwash is a good enough method of taking care of their oral hygiene.

Even yearly is not enough in my believe. I used to go every half year since childhood, but a good dentist told me to go checkup and cleaning every 3 months.

 

[Majestyk]

I go every 3 months because I drink too much coffee

For check ups even six months is a small time frame.

I go see my dentist every quarter, too. I drink too much tea. Coffee is only in the morning.
Yes, doctor’s check up is twice a year for me. Same as blood work.
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

 

[emiliapoesy]

Definitely dental cleaning is imperative every 4 months! Flossing doesn't do enough. Also a electric tooth brush over a manual one.