To masturbate, or to not masturbate, that is the question?

[Sudsy]

My main point is it’s best not too very often cause it lessens the sensation of real sex acts.

For YOU. It appears that you possess a tendency towards a pervasive cognitive distortion wherein the presumption is held that the efficacy or inefficacy of a particular approach, as perceived by yourself, universally applies to others. It does not. Every person is wired differently.

 

[DragonSlayer]

Me being as virgy as it gets I thought I did have some sort of death grip syndrome after my first time (I think I put that down in the review) but I'd find out later that it was just the condom lessening the sensations. But even then, I found myself using porn less and less to get off lately and I try not to go too hard on my poor pp doing it; nofap seems quite cultish and unverifiable, but I think overstimulation beyond what you can get with real sex might not be a good idea anyway.

 

[qcryp]

I once stumbled upon the reddit nofap community and all I can say those guys seem like nutjobs so I will distance myself from anything related to that.

I normally enjoy my sessions more if I don't jerk off for at least a day before, so that's what I do. I also just naturally lost an interest in porn for the most part ever since having sex regularly.

I think the longest I have ever gone without was a week during a cruise with my family when I was like 20. Then we got to Vancouver and every single women I saw looked like a model to me.

 

[Doggyfong]

It isn’t easy but guys go for 30 day “no nut” months

I do it sometimes in preparation for my long trips, but god damn its awful
1st week was fine, after that all I could think of was blasting it on someones face

Now I just cut it down to 2 weeks at most, no point prolonging for 30 days...

 

[kirayamato]

but I'd find out later that it was just the condom lessening the sensations

pro tips, masturbate with condom.

I once stumbled upon the reddit nofap community and all I can say those guys seem like nutjobs so I will distance myself from anything related to that.

many of them actually doing it for religious reason. pornfree sub is a bit more reasonable.

I do it sometimes in preparation for my long trips, but god damn its awful
1st week was fine, after that all I could think of was blasting it on someones face

Now I just cut it down to 2 weeks at most, no point prolonging for 30 days...

yeah, I mean those people doing physical type of job might be able to do it easier, but for me with sedentary lifestyle, temptation is too great.

I read from a tweet, a provider asking customer to save 1 week load anyway, I figure it should be plenty if you are planning to do 2 hours session. for 1 hour / 1 shot session, 3 days are plenty.

 

[Doggyfong]

yeah, I mean those people doing physical type of job might be able to do it easier, but for me with sedentary lifestyle, temptation is too great.

Backend IT, minimal contact with anyone... 4 walls everyday
When everything is going right, I am practically doing nothing... Like literally now...
Probably going to play some games before I start falling asleep again

 

[j7358]

That's asking for a prostate cancer. And probably a permanent place in a mental hospital.

So nut often and do it in the hands of true professionals for safety and security.

Well I'm fucked aren't I hahahaha looks like I'll be getting prostate cancer tomorrow by the sounds of it I haven't masturbated in like 3 years and the only times I ever cum are from wet dreams which aren't very often

 

[BIPSY]

this can be intimidating for some people
https://www.yourtango.com/experts/moushumi-ghose/shes-hot-hes-not

in P4P unfortunately hotter girl translate to more expensive rate which is less affordable than a blue pill.

I get the logic behind this (most ED is definitely related to performance anxiety) but never have I ever ran into this situation myself - its almost always a 1/1 ratio of hotness of girl to hardness of PP.
Definitely had the opposite experience, though - I know some guys will write reviews like "she looked like a granny but was a total mouth GOAT" but for me I know it just wouldn't happen.

 

[Durg50]

many of them actually doing it for religious reason. pornfree sub is a bit more reasonable.

I can understand no porn, but no-fap just seems silly.

 

[jhingy567]

In my early 20s it didn't matter if i masturbated or not before a session. All it meant was my first pop would come later. Nowadays when I do it, it means my upcoming p4p plans are getting cancelled.
I think taking certain psychiatric medications have amplified the 'post nut clarity' for me, it's now more of a 'post nut depression/ feeling shit'.

 

[david1227]

I always do it 3 days before i
Meet my favorite provider… this seems to be the perfect time so I don’t blow too early but I can still enjoy it to the fullest

 

[StFyle]

For YOU. It appears that you possess a tendency towards a pervasive cognitive distortion wherein the presumption is held that the efficacy or inefficacy of a particular approach, as perceived by yourself, universally applies to others. It does not. Every person is wired differently.

Well.

It's less of an opinion like vanilla tastes good to me or I like rock music and some people don't. Sure. It can effect everyone different.

But even without thinking of NoFap on a super long time line. I think its pretty much common sense the longer you hold out and save up, the more horny you get. As Clover posted in his OP here.

If YOU don't, then I think you are the exception.

 

[Sudsy]

Well.

It's less of an opinion like vanilla tastes good to me or I like rock music and some people don't. Sure. It can effect everyone different.

But even without thinking of NoFap on a super long time line. I think its pretty much common sense the longer you hold out and save up, the more horny you get. As Clover posted in his OP here.

If YOU don't, then I think you are the exception.

And there you go again....

I understand that you strongly believe in the idea that restraining from sexual activity increases your performance and/or libido, but you continue to refuse to acknowledge that this either doesn't have a particularly pronounced effect on many people, or that it's not necessary for the majority of people. For some of us, the more active we are, the more we enjoy the activity we have. The point is how diverse our experiences can be. What works for one person may not work the same way for another.

 

[MikeH]

For some of us, the more active we are, the more we enjoy the activity we have.

That's definitely me. The more I have sex the more I want to have sex.

Then if I am without for a long time (*) I kind of get used to not having it and not be so horny anymore.

(*) I mean really long time, like six hours or something similar.

 

[DragonSlayer]

I kind of remembered this thread today. I had an AWESOME time with a chick that's just my type (and finally GFE out of Japan was attained), but my horny ass wasn't expecting a night of mongering in a weekday so I had jerked off hours prior AND twice the day before. I was full mast and enjoying our session a lot but the girl really had to go to work with a HJ for me to pop, I don't know what was up because she was REALLY putting in the GFE work to the point where at the end she'd slide on top of me and FK me every other minute. I blame a mix of both, lack of sensitivity (couldn't feel much of her bbbj tongue action in my glans) and masturbation.

Naturally after a good 10 minutes or so of begging my dick to cum already I shot so hard she had to ask if there was some in her hair, I joked a bit about being a tough client to work with and the way she replied kind of implied she wasn't used to uh... late comers. It was a bit disappointing but this chick was super cool with it. I'm definitely cutting down on masturbation as much as humanly possible to see what happens, not to nofap levels though because everything around that still feels like a pile of bullshit to me.

 

[plooped]

I'm definitely cutting down on masturbation as much as humanly possible to see what happens, not to nofap levels though because everything around that still feels like a pile of bullshit to me.

Me being as virgy as it gets I thought I did have some sort of death grip syndrome after my first time (I think I put that down in the review) but I'd find out later that it was just the condom lessening the sensations. But even then, I found myself using porn less and less to get off lately and I try not to go too hard on my poor pp doing it; nofap seems quite cultish and unverifiable, but I think overstimulation beyond what you can get with real sex might not be a good idea anyway.

I am in the same boat, having cut down a lot on masturbation since I lost my virginity : it's healthy from time to time to rub one out when you absolutely feel the need after a long while, but it's just not as great as the real thing so I lost a fair bit of interest.

 

[Kawakicho]

Since puberty I also masturbated 1-2 times every day. That's what being single with high libido does to you.
I only refrain from it on 2 occasions.

• Never before my gym or sports session. I need the energy.
• Refrain from masturbating some days to a week before playtime. Somehow it feels better and consuming zinc during that time makes me cum buckets. It's always fun to hear the reaction how much I came.

Only cons I have had with it makes me cum a bit earlier than expected, although it never made me go out of action.

Masturbating has also helped me to not make a reservation on cityheaven. ''Eh... maybe next time''