Okay, so slowly come to the realization that I hate being upsold by a provider during play or at night clubs. Before the play or by the staff doesn't bother, but during the play, it throws me out of the illusion. I would rather pay upfront a good amount for quality than be upsold.
Me asking if it is possible if I pay more money is one thing, but them suddenly saying hey we can do more if you pay me more is where it starts to feel out of the illusion.
In Kyabas if a Girl instantly wants me to buy her a drink as soon as she sits down (Happens very rarely), I instantly decline her and hope for the best in the next girl.
All the girls that I"ve spent the most amount of money on are the ones that when I offer to buy them a drink or extend a session, tell me please you don't have to do that, it is too much.
It is the feeling of a used cars salesman trying to get as much money as possible as quickly as possible vs an elite pro for the slow burn.
Any thoughts/experiences?
Me asking if it is possible if I pay more money is one thing, but them suddenly saying hey we can do more if you pay me more is where it starts to feel out of the illusion.
In Kyabas if a Girl instantly wants me to buy her a drink as soon as she sits down (Happens very rarely), I instantly decline her and hope for the best in the next girl.
All the girls that I"ve spent the most amount of money on are the ones that when I offer to buy them a drink or extend a session, tell me please you don't have to do that, it is too much.
It is the feeling of a used cars salesman trying to get as much money as possible as quickly as possible vs an elite pro for the slow burn.
Any thoughts/experiences?