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I'm worried about what will happen to my wife after we divorce. Her mother hates me and even tells us to get divorced so that is a good sign, but I worry that maybe her mom might disown her daughter since her daughter loves me and she hates me?
I also worry about her mother moving into a retirement home (her husband passed away recently) and then my wife would have nowhere to go?
If her mother is still living in this apartment, then of course she would be able to just come live with her again, but if here mom moves into some retirement home for the elderly widows...then my wife will indeed have nowhere to go.
I feel that she is kind of dependent, but she has expressed the desire to be more independent. I thought about moving into a place with her just so that she has some idea what living away from home is like...but then again I might end up in a situation where we are stuck with each other forever...
She doesn't work full time and doesn't earn much. She doesn't have a college degree as well...so I don't know how she could continue life in Japan without me or another man to marry down the road? Are there financial aid programs for women that end up in situations like this?
Even if the marriage isn't a happy one, I will feel terrible if she really doesn't have anywhere else to go?
Would it be possible if we were sharing a place, for me to move out and just have a new contract signed with the same place only in her name, provided she can afford the monthly rent/utilities?
I also worry about her mother moving into a retirement home (her husband passed away recently) and then my wife would have nowhere to go?
If her mother is still living in this apartment, then of course she would be able to just come live with her again, but if here mom moves into some retirement home for the elderly widows...then my wife will indeed have nowhere to go.
I feel that she is kind of dependent, but she has expressed the desire to be more independent. I thought about moving into a place with her just so that she has some idea what living away from home is like...but then again I might end up in a situation where we are stuck with each other forever...
She doesn't work full time and doesn't earn much. She doesn't have a college degree as well...so I don't know how she could continue life in Japan without me or another man to marry down the road? Are there financial aid programs for women that end up in situations like this?
Even if the marriage isn't a happy one, I will feel terrible if she really doesn't have anywhere else to go?
Would it be possible if we were sharing a place, for me to move out and just have a new contract signed with the same place only in her name, provided she can afford the monthly rent/utilities?