I have missed out on traveling to Tokyo to meet the escorts based there.
Ok, seriously, traveling is the one I missed out on the most.
Scams aside, like those of hostess bars overcharging drunk guys, I agree that it is the P4P customer’s responsibility to manage his finances.
Unlike hostess, the way escorts are paid is not very prone to accidentally expending more than intended, in most cases escorts are paid in cash before the session. If you want to extend the session you need to consult with her and pay on the moment or when the sessions ends, which limits you to how much money are you carrying at the time. Maybe you could go to an ATM after the session ends, but I doubt many escorts (indie or working for a shop) would let a customer do that, even a recurrent one. In practice, if you don’t have the money on you then you would need to book the escort another time.
If a customer pays for P4P with a credit card, which some shops allow but I doubt many indies do, or any other system that allows you to put charges on a tab, then the risk of expending more than intended is considerable. Or if you have special savings (the kids’ college or whatever) in which you start to tap into, is better that you rethink your expenses.
Most people doing P4P tend to have a few regular escorts they see and keep trying different ones. Unless it is very clear that the customer has fallen in love with a provider and is only expending money on her, an escort can assume that whatever money she would prevent a customer from expending on her, he would just expend it with a different escort if his intention is to spend that money on P4P.
I know that even without overcharging, people can spend too much on a hostess club, enough to be a serious financial problem, not only you might not have the money on you at the time, you might not have it all on your bank account! But, how bad can it get for strip clubs? I haven’t gone to many strip clubs, so I wonder how much could you spend if you were to be reckless one night? I know they offer a lot of extras, but even the most expensive ones tend to be cheaper than a pinsaro. Or maybe is the drinks? If so, it’s unfair to blame it on the strippers.