When the initial meeting is a crash/burn

[MongerInAStrLnd]

OK, so you've had that initial interview date with a SB candidate and there's not that much chemistry. She still seems interested though. Better to be straight or an easy letdown?

 

[TAG Manager]

IMHO, be straight. No reason to lead someone on if it’s a definite no-go.

 

[sayu]

OK, so you've had that initial interview date with a SB candidate and there's not that much chemistry. She still seems interested though. Better to be straight or an easy letdown?

Like tagmanager, be honest. If both try be polite just takes longer.

 

[Frenchy]

OK, so you've had that initial interview date with a SB candidate and there's not that much chemistry. She still seems interested though. Better to be straight or an easy letdown?

Just say you found her really nice but not for you, sthg like that.

 

[Majestyk]

Just say you found her really nice but not for you, sthg like that.

It’s like from a classic Seinfeld bit — “It’s not you, it’s me”.

 

[just4fun]

Just try and be as nice as possible. Don't ghost'm......that's just so rude!

 

[User#8628]

Like tagmanager, be honest. If both try be polite just takes longer.

Are you really Japanese? Lol

 

[just4fun]

Are you really Japanese? Lol

Can I like this 100 times more?

 

[ShowaJidai]

fuck - life's too short. Ghost like caspar

 

[Frenchy]

fuck - life's too short. Ghost like caspar

It doesnt take much time to say sthg like Thanks but No Thanks

 

[chaztagster]

Not only is a quick, direct, polite rejection kinder to her, it will save you from agonizing too.

 

[MikeH]

Not only is a quick, direct, polite rejection kinder to her, it will save you from agonizing too.

You can always tell your family's water buffalo got sick and you need to rush back to the Old Country to care for her.

 

[Lukes]

Just point at something behind her and be like "what's that?!"

Then run when she turns around to look.

 

[MongerInAStrLnd]

OK, doing what needs to be done.

Incidentally have gotten contact from a couple real winners lately: one just got out of a psychiatric hospital (that was literally the opening line of her introduction) and the other's hobbies include drinking and driving. I didn't reply to either on the basis of not sticking my dick in crazy.

 

[just4fun]

Was sitting kichijoji one afternoon watching some kids perform some rock music and out of nowhere this not so young and slender japanese woman starts doing maybe the worst belly dance in front of me (blocking my view of what I was watching) and after 2 minutes she stops and says "TIP" really loud. The tip i gave her "you need more lessons" and got up and moved away.

 

[ShowaJidai]

after 2 minutes she stops and says "TIP" really loud. .

Lucky for her she wasn't in front of me. I would have told her -"Tip? OK. But every inch after that will cost you 1,000 Yen"

 

[MikeH]

Lucky for her she wasn't in front of me. I would have told her -"Tip? OK. But every inch after that will cost you 1,000 Yen"

Fuck, that's the easiest 300 yens I have ever heard.

 

[ShowaJidai]

Fuck, that's the easiest 300 yens I have ever heard.

Funny. I once dated a woman like that. Her mouth was so tiny that once she got the tip in her mouth it was so full we couldn't even get another half inch in.

 

[MongerInAStrLnd]

Karma seems to be coming around recently (guess I did the right thing):

* Picked up a new sex friend, almost 30 and married but looks 25, slim and with a great rack. First suggestion was go straight to a LH meeting.

* New potential SB, self-described as totally submissive. Have a meeting scheduled this weekend.

Still wish there were 'not crazy' filter boxes on search for deai sites.