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Where can a crossdresser go to get picked up at clubs

they seem rather quiet.... lol.. i found some japanese local forums but no one speaks english..

Unfortunately, most folks here are more plugged in to the Tokyo scene... if you ever decide to travel here, we'll be a LOT more helpful.
 
I concur with the above poster. Doyamacho, which is near Umeda/Osaka station, has emerged as Osaka's most famous LGBTQ neighborhood and there are reportedly a number of clubs there frequented by the trans/gay crowd and those hoping to get lucky with one of them.

If you're familiar with Osaka Station, head toward Hep 5 and then past Don Quijote and keep walking straight. You'll know when you're there.