Why Japanese Women Are So Jealous ?

[rednose72]

Maybe it is just my experience. But of all the women I have dated exactly none agreed to do MFF. Most say they could not stand another seeing another woman touch me. On the other hand about 1/3rd agreed sooner or later to do MMF. Does anybody know why ?

 

[User#6517]

Umm.. I think a lot of women in general, not just Japanese women, are the "jealous type".

I think your problem is that you keep dating fully straight girls. No matter how much you want to see one of your partners with another girl.. even if you do convince her to join an MFF threesome, she's not going to be into it because she's just not interested in the same sex.

If you would like a partner that could be open to the idea of MFF threesomes, find a fun girl that's openly bisexual or at least bi-curious.

 

[roots reggae]

Hey, one third sounds like a good percentage to me-good enough for major league batting.

Let's put the shoe on the other foot. How would you react if most of the women you dated wanted a MMF?

Perhaps you'd go for it. I wouldn't, but would fantasize about a MFF endlessly.

All theory for me-my wife is rather conservative. Can't complain, though, she satisfies me and takes care of me in sickness and health. Lately, that's major.

Life is full of trade-offs, regrets, and contentments.

Edit so sorry, misread, my bad, never mind. I am going to blame all on those frogs-hey I thought I typed drugs. By the way, before you jump to too many conclusions, I am in the house of pain and the drugs are all legal.

Anyway, how did you respond to the MMF?

 

[Wwanderer]

about 1/3rd agreed sooner or later to do MMF.

This sounds like you did a considerable amount of persuadingUrging/pressuring/pleading or some such to get them into a 3p at all.

As a general rule getting a partner to engage in any sexual activity that doesn't appeal to them, which is different from supporting and encouraging them to overcome their inhibitions and try something that does intrigue them, is almost always a bad idea and often leads to major relationship problems.

A major advantage of having open relationships and having multiple partners is that you are more likely to find ones who share an enthusiasm for your personal kinks.

-Ww

 

[Kegger]

Interesting post.
I'm not sure if I agree with the thread title.

From my limited experience, I'd say anywhere you went in the world, women prepared to do MFF or FMM would be in the overwhelming minority.

For me that jealousy is quite normal. If it was someone I really cared about I couldn't stand to see another M engaged in activity with them.
This is just my personal preference here, I'm not being judgemental here.

Current SB has suggested a MFF, but will not do a MMF (which I'm stoked about).

 

[vondoom]

i dont think its overly jealous when people are not okay with their partners getting fucked by someone... thats just normal...

i guess the reason for them agreeing on mmf ober mff is somewhere between men preferring mff over mmf and many men feeling uncomfortable (to say the least) with gay people, but are absolutely fine with lesbian porn...

 

[roots reggae]

i dont think its overly jealous when people are not okay with their partners getting fucked by someone... thats just normal...

i guess the reason for them agreeing on mmf ober mff is somewhere between men preferring mff over mmf and many men feeling uncomfortable (to say the least) with gay people, but are absolutely fine with lesbian porn...

I agree! Of course, what is normal? Especially in regards to most of us on TAG!

 

[roots reggae]

Interesting post.
I'm not sure if I agree with the thread title.

From my limited experience, I'd say anywhere you went in the world, women prepared to do MFF or FMM would be in the overwhelming minority.

For me that jealousy is quite normal. If it was someone I really cared about I couldn't stand to see another M engaged in activity with them.
This is just my personal preference here, I'm not being judgemental here.

Current SB has suggested a MFF, but will not do a MMF (which I'm stoked about).

Right on Kegger! (Warning, 60's alert) Jealousy is probably not the main factor.

Talk about jealousy in the real sense, I am so jealous of you!

 

[JpLove66]

Might be the type of women your choosing. One of my girls use to always say no to 3p's when I chose Japanese women, but she's ok with any other race. Not sure why because she's Japanese herself but it doesn't even matter to me. Her job's to Select, while mines is to erect and everything's fine.

 

[vondoom]

there are lots of japanese women who dont care about other "races"... the question "did you ever have a gf?" often refers to japanese gf... but on the other side, i think there are more dudes who have to be the first foreigner, for whatever reason, than there are women who care about things like that...

 

[e-smile]

Maybe it is just my experience. But of all the women I have dated exactly none agreed to do MFF. Most say they could not stand another seeing another woman touch me. On the other hand about 1/3rd agreed sooner or later to do MMF. Does anybody know why ?

most of women would refuse that, not only japanese

 

[User#8628]

Umm.. I think a lot of women in general, not just Japanese women, are the "jealous type".

I think your problem is that you keep dating fully straight girls. No matter how much you want to see one of your partners with another girl.. even if you do convince her to join an MFF threesome, she's not going to be into it because she's just not interested in the same sex.

If you would like a partner that could be open to the idea of MFF threesomes, find a fun girl that's openly bisexual or at least bi-curious.

I totally agree.

 

[rednose72]

Thanks everybody for your replies. For the record i prefer MMF over MFF.

 

[roots reggae]

Great!

Whatever makes you, and your partner happy.

 

[Manami TMK]

I prefer FFM to MMF a lot more personally after trying both( many times)
Funny I tried really hard once to encourage my ex to go to couple kissa with me but he was too shy to do. I thought it would be fun but it actually scared him away from me!

 

[Jbagz]

In regards to the thread title and OP, I don't think there is necessarily a correlation between not being interested in threesomes and jealousy.

I have had a Japanese girl I was dating share me with a friend. It wasn't a threesome, but she gave her girlfriend permission to "try me" one night.

We were watching TV and she suddenly announces that she is going to sleep, then she looks at me and with a smile says, "You stay here and watch TV with Chihiro."

Two seconds later Chihiro is snuggled up next to me and I'm nervous as hell and unenthusiasticly try to push her away.

To which she replies, "It's okay, she said I can try you."

I never had that happen with American girls before.

Of course, this could have been more driven by curiosity about gaijins than extreme open mindedness.

 

[daytimefun]

@Jbagz, I've had Japanese girlfriends loan me out to their girlfriends for a test drive before too. Interesting querk!

 

[Wwanderer]

I was once loaned to a Japanese gf's younger (18yo) sister, but only to give her and receive oral (because she was a virgin)!

-Ww

 

[Manami TMK]

You enjoyed appetizer, soup, salad, but no main dish?
How about desert=treat? Did she return you a favor?

 

[Wwanderer]

You enjoyed appetizer, soup, salad, but no main dish?
How about desert=treat? Did she return you a favor?

Yes, she (the younger sister) did...but not with any skill, which is understandable given her lack of experience. I was thinking that I/we should ask her big sister (my gf at the time) to come back and give her a lesson, but I decided that that would be pushing things a bit too far. She did seem to enjoy the receiving though...once she stopped giggling continuously. It was an odd day, but I have lots of those I'm very happy to say.

And right, no "main dish", no intercourse.

-Ww

 

[majimekun]

This thread has nothing to do with jealousy.

I'm not a jealous guy but I just don't want to have a dick in my visual range.

As for real jealousy, the only jealous girl I had was Korean.
Not a single Japanese one.

 

[Manami TMK]

Dating Korean girl sounds tough to me. They are more passionate and straight forward, like to have anniversary all the time like first met, 22 days, 49 days, 100 days, 200 days, 300 days on top of the other regular anniversaries like birthday, valentine's day and white day!
If their BF forget the anniversaries and don't do anything special on the days such as a gift or fancy dinner, they would be upset!
They even have the reminder application. I have heard lots of Korean guy download the application to not forget the anniversaries!
It may be good for those who like to have a tight relationship though....

 

[Jbagz]

Dating Korean girl sounds tough to me. They are more passionate and straight forward, like to have anniversary all the time like first met, 22 days, 49 days, 100 days, 200 days, 300 days on top of the other regular anniversaries like birthday, valentine's day and white day!
If their BF forget the anniversaries and don't do anything special on the days such as a gift or fancy dinner, they would be upset!
They even have the reminder application. I have heard lots of Korean guy download the application to not forget the anniversaries!
It may good for those who like to have a tight relationship though....

I've dated both and I tend to agree to a certain extent. I do think Korean girls are more suspicious and quick to anger than Japanese girls. However, making generalizations isn't always wise.

Japanese girls who grew up near American military bases often think the worst of gaijins, but then again there are plenty who don't judge all gaijins on the behavior of drunken American GIs.

I will say this about Korean girls, I have never met one who couldn't cook great meals.

 

[Jbagz]

@Jbagz, I've had Japanese girlfriends loan me out to their girlfriends for a test drive before too. Interesting querk!

How did they spring it on you? Did they tell you upfront, or catch you by surprise with it?

I was afraid it was some kind of loyalty test until she got my girlfriend to yell out from the next room that it was ok.

Afterwards I took a shower and went to bed with my girl, who was laughing and asking me what I did with her.

I just said, "I'll show you." She definately seem turned on by it. I did ask why they did that and all my girl would say was, "she hasn't been fucked in a while."

It is an experience and a memory that I'm glad I have, but it doomed the relationship. Not that I think it had much chance of lasting anyway.

 

[Black Mage]

It is an experience and a memory that I'm glad I have, but it doomed the relationship.

Nevertheless, an interesting experience.

If you don't mind me asking, do you think that if you were to say "no" and go back to your partner at the time, the turn of events would be different? I wonder if this was some sort of a test of your loyalty?