For me, just the opposite:it's a no-brainer, if I have found someone good enough to spend my life with, I want to keep contact, (dsca;mer: it depends of course of the condition of the break up...).The reason I have lost contact wtih my exes, is because my wife did not like them.. I could not't blame her...Just discussed this yesterday with someone. For me this is a no-brainer; if it is someone I was planning to spend the rest of my life together and then we broke up I would not want to hear anything from her ever again.
For me, just the opposite:it's a no-brainer, if I have found someone good enough to spend my life with, I want to keep contact, (dsca;mer: it depends of course of the condition of the break up...).
most of my exes are currently friends of mine. the others we mainly just lost contact.Or would you rather cut all contact?