IND Yuriko - Rude & Unprofessional (My Story)

[Wwanderer]

If you booked an escort, confirmed the date, left your dinner party early to meet her at the hotel and then she didn’t turn up and ignored all communication with you, would you think “it’s ok, I didn’t actually meet her, so no harm done”.

OK, fair point, but personally I would not put unpleasant emails in quite the same category as a no-show. I am such a tough guy that I can handle even the most extreme emails without taking major damage.

-Ww

 

[Yuriko]

Yuriko,
Be glad that someone took the time to give you feedback. Obviously a lot of people are interested in you and your service or they would not take the time to comment.

Don’t be negative. Consider this an opportunity to improve.

Thank you so much for your support! Such a shiney carat of comment out of spitting comments.
I feel so much better. Thank you!!

 

[BlackBlade]

OK, fair point, but personally I would not put unpleasant emails in quite the same category as a no-show. I am such a tough guy that I can handle even the most extreme emails without taking major damage.

-Ww

Having met or not is almost beside the point. My greatest concern is how easily Yuriko was triggered resulting in a sudden personality change. I think anyone should be wary that there is the potential of this happening in person. Two incidents of Yuriko having the same reaction under similar circumstances should constitute a pattern of behavior.

 

[Yuriko]

Why would it seem strange? If the initial correspondence is enough to raise red flags then is it not a good idea to let others know of the pitfalls to avoid (exactly as he did in this review). This wasn’t a “I tried to book her but she was fully booked” this is a “I asked a question and she lost it” situation.

If you booked an escort, confirmed the date, left your dinner party early to meet her at the hotel and then she didn’t turn up and ignored all communication with you, would you think “it’s ok, I didn’t actually meet her, so no harm done”.

He lost the opportunity to meet me, but didn't sacrefice a peny. I get tons of potential go, "oh, maybe not,.then" and loose opportunites and transaction. I wonder how much I lost with "never met, rude" reviews,, my previous one in Feb, had such a loss, my revenue was half of what I make each month. It is a quite a damage.

You plant seed that will eventually come back to you, some point of "same energy back in return" by someone else, maybe. Your work, your life...

There's always cause and effect for life. I always like to think that way.

 

[Yuriko]

No girls want that. Potentials can say anything.
But escorts are met, who respect their today's pricing. Noone is happy abt you try to make it bargain, or take it for granted, for providers "generousity". I'm glad no other girls get that kind of offesive reviews.

I am some what "S" , controlling in my service, and I control my offer. In other words,
I suck cocks I don't need oral in return. I say that in my ad. lol. If you didn't like my offer, then it may get off track.It makes me VERY uncomfortable, as I'm loosing my control to handle those inquirers. So please respect our price and boundaries. I got recalled, I was a victim, and got very uncomfortable by emails between this person.I didn't report anywhere. Just kept on my own with a damage, but moved on. You got to move on, when something negative happened, but next time you want "Win/ Win" just like other clgents get "happy win/win ending". It's not hard at all.

 

[BlackBlade]

Again I think you have missed the point. Never once did I not agree to your price. I even said in my review you can set whatever price you like, it’s your business. I even stated in the review that I believed your discount was generous. My only feedback was that your normal pricing was quickly apriching other establishments.

That’s all. You are still triggered by this point.

 

[Viggagadye]

It seems like you're feeling victimised, but I really don't think BlackBlade meant that at all. He was just writing about how he felt about how you communicate and react to things, and to be honest, if that was his experience, then it's fair enough for him to write what he did. It's not a personal attack. Thanks for letting us know how you felt too. It does seem to boil down a lot to miscommunication.
I think if you just work on the stuff he pointed out, you'll be fine. I hope your business goes well Yuriko, don't be too disappointed.

 

[Yuriko]

Because, I deserve. I work hard.

It also reminded me you said, my price went high that doesn't make much difference with others.

So what?

I deliver BBBJ+ CIM, for 2 rounds in an hour for most clients, 3 in two hours for some clients.

By my very low pricing, I started with more humble feeling, as I wanted to support men with low budget.

But I often only get 6,000 yen, even that person works full time in Japan. I get request like,

"Can I get 2 pops?"

At my start ups, I even didn't know what "pop"
meant.lol.

BBBJ is quite a work.

I work in the office during day time, and in the evening, if I get little money with such requests, I get fade out easilily. I got fucked up by some guyz wanted to spend very little.

I felt like a street walker, of poor Asian country.

I heard many voice of I should raise my fee.

And I did.

But I guess I'm still the cheapest range amongst TAG escort.

I even have my bj express, close to my start ups, with my close on, Jan Jan style of bj not as cheap as them, but less than Yukichi note.

You don't have right to judge me about my pricing.

If you don't like it, don't take it.

My clients respect and kindly pay.

I still get double of my office income. And I notice, the more raise, clients types get different.

When I drop, again different "class" of clients comes.

So, rating is what escort decides.

If you're not happy, she's not your choice.

That's all.

 

[Yuriko]

BTW, I of course know the meaning of "pops" now. No need to be explained. Thanks in advance.

 

[Yuriko]

At my end, I never get to "harmonize" with this person. I clearly remember and it still seems like it.
So, please don't bother me. Move on!

 

[Tkoadventure]

This thread has become a complete time waster:-(

 

[MikeH]

This thread has become a complete time waster:-(

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[Yuriko]

There are good news! You can claim all your monies back from TAG Manager!

And that's not all! You can ignore a thread that is not interesting to you!

All this now in a great package deal, just for 12.999 yens, including taxes and shipping. All monies go towards the Uncle Mike's Church of Spinners.

I want cancellations on a planned date money to be
back, like from a re insurer. I think that's all girls want. Anybody interested in a niche business? lol.

 

[Yuriko]

Rude comments also should be loved. That's TAG community. You can say anything, maybe some get hurt, but you don't care. We should love ya all. Even you hate deep down behind！

 

[Frenchy]

Rude comments also should be loved. That's TAG community. You can say anything, maybe some get hurt, but you don't care. We should love ya all. Even you hate deep down behind！

In a way , I agree. Because at the end of the day the « hurt » is not for people’s (escorts or clients) true selves. It’s either for a service they failed to provide adequately, or appointment they failed to honor, or communication they are not very good at, or an online personality which may be very different from the real one etc etc
It’s never about who we are, deep down.
So it does not matter much...

 

[Yuriko]

In a way , I agree. Because at the end of the day the « hurt » is not for people’s (escorts or clients) true selves. It’s either for a service they failed to provide adequately, or appointment they failed to honor, or communication they are not very good at, or an online personality which may be very different from the real one etc etc
It’s never about who we are, deep down.
So it does not matter much...

Maybe I should hire you to do all of my inquiry to be handled. Maybe I'd better have someone who can handle like a "tencho". lol. Just a joke...

 

[John japan]

I feel like I just read a Jerry Springer transcript.

 

[faboo2001]

OK, fair point, but personally I would not put unpleasant emails in quite the same category as a no-show. I am such a tough guy that I can handle even the most extreme emails without taking major damage.

-Ww

I too am pretty thick-skinned against rude or negative comments sent my way, but one's threshold over such things shouldn't really be the focus here. The main point of a review is to share a customer's satisfaction, of the lack of in this case, and there are many things to consider: the provider's looks, attitude, sexual skills/talents, or in this case communication. Obviously people will value different things over others, and that's why I think it's important that different people share their experiences to get different perspectives of providers or shops.

 

[Yuriko]

I too am pretty thick-skinned against rude or negative comments sent my way, but one's threshold over such things shouldn't really be the focus here. The main point of a review is to share a customer's satisfaction, of the lack of in this case, and there are many things to consider: the provider's looks, attitude, sexual skills/talents, or in this case communication. Obviously people will value different things over others, and that's why I think it's important that different people share their experiences to get different perspectives of providers or shops.

I think reviews become "fair" when certain service fee spent. Because he has right to spk out for his thoughts over consuming certain amount.

But when not spent like this case, maybe he gets satisfied by having myself making embarrassment,plus I will loose so much opportunity, by potential passing me by this. So, that means it's not fair as he didn't consume a penny, and blocking my business opportunities, is sending something bad to the universe, I'm afraid.

I always thought you write about you consumed but not happy understandable, you didn't spend but not happy, is not uderstandable in escort scenes.

Anyway, I'm glad there are good, generous people out there, that send me inquiry for booking.

I learned from this experience, should keep things simple, and this was such an old story. I met more than 500, 600 men and I know the practice.

I hope I would not make potential clients angry for a long time like this, from now on.

Thank you.

 

[Yuriko]

Thank you so much for your comment, advice, thoughts you shared here, sorry that I made certain people angry.

I want to focus on positive factor, as I'm a positive person, and I feel uncomfortable writing negative things here, that perhaps I shouldn't return to this review for negative feed.

Thank you very much.

 

[Joe2017]

Yuriko-san, I have had the pleasure of meeting you and I know your willingness to adapt and please the other person. but it is not always possible to achieve it.
We are human, and we are not perfect. When there is a misunderstanding between two people, the easiest thing is to take sides with one of them. and what we usually cause is to create even more tension.
I'm not going to do it, because if someone has been keeping those bitter feelings for a long time, it's certainly that he has been upset. When a client complains, we have to take it as a gift and a great opportunity to improve, it does not matter if he/she is right or not.
During this long time we have all changed a lot. This discussion has become a loop and does not lead anywhere where everyone can feel satisfied. Leave it now and reset the past.

 

[Yuriko]

Yuriko-san, I have had the pleasure of meeting you and I know your willingness to adapt and please the other person. but it is not always possible to achieve it.
We are human, and we are not perfect. When there is a misunderstanding between two people, the easiest thing is to take sides with one of them. and what we usually cause is to create even more tension.
I'm not going to do it, because if someone has been keeping those bitter feelings for a long time, it's certainly that he has been upset. When a client complains, we have to take it as a gift and a great opportunity to improve, it does not matter if he/she is right or not.
During this long time we have all changed a lot. This discussion has become a loop and does not lead anywhere where everyone can feel satisfied. Leave it now and reset the past.

Thank you so much for your genuin support. You made me feel much better.

I respect your advice. （╹◡╹）Thank you!

 

[faboo2001]

I think reviews become "fair" when certain service fee spent. Because he has right to spk out for his thoughts over cons

I would have to disagree in this case.

I would agree if he was reviewing a sexual encounter with you when it wasn't a paid session, but this review is only focused on the communication when trying to setup a meeting. Unless you're suggesting that we should only expect providers to talk nice to us only after we pay?....although some actually pay to have providers treat them like trash, but that's a different topic!

 

[TheScientist]

I was a victim

Because, I deserve. I work hard.

I think reviews become "fair" when certain service fee spent.

Yuriko, for those of us who work freelance in any way, life isnt ever fair. We dont deserve and when things dont go our way we arent victims. in the 30 odd years I've been a freelancer I've had much worse said about me than in this thread, its just something that has to be dealt with. Job offers gone wrong, public criticism and so on are just a normal part of business. If I may offer some free advise its that you arent helping your brand reputation with comments like those.

 

[chinshiko]

Amen to that! Freelance life is not for everyone.