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Ok, so this is something I experience a lot, but not always. I have been more actively doing nampa/trying to talk women into doing AV with me.
Just last night, I asked this one really cute Japanese woman standing alone outside where a particular restaurant was, but when I realized how cute she was up close, I just started hitting on her. I told her she looks really beautiful, kissed her hand, flirted. I tried to get her to go to a love hotel with me last night, but she was already busy meeting her girlfriends, but when I told her to give me a goodnight kiss, we made out on the street for like 2 minutes. I got her Line after that and told her I live in the area and she said she did too. She later messaged me saying she was really happy to meet me and said goodnight. Then tonight after work, I told her to come meet me outside the train station and she was "busy" but later admitted she was just really shy and nervous still. We chatted and I was patient and was friendly to her. She agreed to meet me tomorrow night, but not without about an hour of breaking down the "I'm too shy/nervous" wall. It is sometimes a tough wall to knock down!
Also tonight there were these two cute Japanese women both dressed like Christmas bunnies or something and they seemed to be looking for someone to take a photo for them. Since I was doing nothing/trying to get the shy woman to come meet me, I took a photo of them. They were so happy and we started chatting. One spoke English well and told me that her friend really liked my style and I said "oh really" and kissed her hand. Her friend suddenly said for us to deep kiss and she will take a photo? I was surprised because she seemed so open. Her friend blushed and got super nervous and agreed to only a kiss on the cheek lol. I got their Line ID's but I don't think I will be hearing from them again, which is alright. I have just noticed that Japanese women seem to have moments of extreme bravery, followed by second-guessing, self-doubt, flip-flopping, whatever you want to call it. I know all people experience this not just Japanese women.
I just thought I would share my recent nampa stories and see if anyone on here can relate? It seems that even when you make out and there is some heavy petting going on, that doesn't always mean you will take things all the way. There is still a chance she might flake out or give me LMR on the walk to the love hotel tomorrow night, but I'm not worried about it either way.
Aside from being confident, funny and talking about things the shy women are interested in...what are some other methods for breaking down the "I'm too shy/nervous" wall in person, on the phone or via text?
Just last night, I asked this one really cute Japanese woman standing alone outside where a particular restaurant was, but when I realized how cute she was up close, I just started hitting on her. I told her she looks really beautiful, kissed her hand, flirted. I tried to get her to go to a love hotel with me last night, but she was already busy meeting her girlfriends, but when I told her to give me a goodnight kiss, we made out on the street for like 2 minutes. I got her Line after that and told her I live in the area and she said she did too. She later messaged me saying she was really happy to meet me and said goodnight. Then tonight after work, I told her to come meet me outside the train station and she was "busy" but later admitted she was just really shy and nervous still. We chatted and I was patient and was friendly to her. She agreed to meet me tomorrow night, but not without about an hour of breaking down the "I'm too shy/nervous" wall. It is sometimes a tough wall to knock down!
Also tonight there were these two cute Japanese women both dressed like Christmas bunnies or something and they seemed to be looking for someone to take a photo for them. Since I was doing nothing/trying to get the shy woman to come meet me, I took a photo of them. They were so happy and we started chatting. One spoke English well and told me that her friend really liked my style and I said "oh really" and kissed her hand. Her friend suddenly said for us to deep kiss and she will take a photo? I was surprised because she seemed so open. Her friend blushed and got super nervous and agreed to only a kiss on the cheek lol. I got their Line ID's but I don't think I will be hearing from them again, which is alright. I have just noticed that Japanese women seem to have moments of extreme bravery, followed by second-guessing, self-doubt, flip-flopping, whatever you want to call it. I know all people experience this not just Japanese women.
I just thought I would share my recent nampa stories and see if anyone on here can relate? It seems that even when you make out and there is some heavy petting going on, that doesn't always mean you will take things all the way. There is still a chance she might flake out or give me LMR on the walk to the love hotel tomorrow night, but I'm not worried about it either way.
Aside from being confident, funny and talking about things the shy women are interested in...what are some other methods for breaking down the "I'm too shy/nervous" wall in person, on the phone or via text?