I paid the 500 yen a month for tinder premium and I'm semi-attractive, Kinda socially awkward late 20's guy.
This leads me to get at least 4-5 matches on tinder a day. out of those maybe one will reply to me.
My conversations go like this(less generic, but this is the conversation flow. )
Me: So what do you do in life?
Them: profession or student goes here
Me: Oh! What do you enjoy to do
Them: Some type of hobby.
Me: some follow-up questions based on the hobby
And this is the end of the conversation, to be bluntly honest unless they are unattractive, they stop replying after this, 95% of the time.
I tried going off-ball questions/conversations immediately moving to let's go get a coffee and found those get me ignored even quicker.
This leads me to get at least 4-5 matches on tinder a day. out of those maybe one will reply to me.
My conversations go like this(less generic, but this is the conversation flow. )
Me: So what do you do in life?
Them: profession or student goes here
Me: Oh! What do you enjoy to do
Them: Some type of hobby.
Me: some follow-up questions based on the hobby
And this is the end of the conversation, to be bluntly honest unless they are unattractive, they stop replying after this, 95% of the time.
I tried going off-ball questions/conversations immediately moving to let's go get a coffee and found those get me ignored even quicker.