Would You Date A Stripper, Escort, Or Hostess?

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I'm not straight.. so with that being said, I wouldn't mind dating a female stripper, female escort, hostess, etc.

However, for some reason, I wouldn't date men who work in this industry (male escorts, male strippers, hosts, etc.).
 
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I have dated strippers and escorts in the past, and would again.

I draw the line at hostesses.

Strippers and escorts are generally involved in a fair exchange of payment for services, while hostesses tend to learn to be deceitful and manipulative because of the environment they work in.
 
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Sudsy said:
I have dated strippers and escorts in the past, and would again.

I draw the line at hostesses.

Strippers and escorts are generally involved in a fair exchange of payment for services, while hostesses tend to learn to be deceitful and manipulative because of the environment they work in.
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Interesting thought line. Never thought of it that way. I've never dated any of them but I don't think I would really care if they were or not. As for hostesses I guess it would depend on the person maybe it's because of the environment they have to act that way to survive. But then again who knows.

I've had friends who were strippers and they are awesome people, and from interactions on here escorts are similar. They are people they are intelligent and they carry good conversations. What their chosen occupation is has no bearing on me as to how like them as a person or as a fiends/lover/significant other/etc. if they are forced into the line of work that's another story, but hats a different discussion and argument.
 
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I'm not straight either but i don't seriously date girls. However, my best friends and most of the girls i 3p with are in the business so hypothetically i don't think i would mind.

I mainly date boys in the industry.
Scouts, hosts, even a sexy street tout.. Hell yes! They are the best at nampa so it's easy to meet them and they are generally open minded about sex.
I like stuff like open relationships and a bit of kink in the bedroom (roleplays, a bit of porn style action.. My escort way is GFE but in a trustful relationship i can act like a PS funny enough). So yea, i would only date a very open minded guy and i'm equally open minded about their jobs and lifestyle. Diseases are a point of attention however. If your partner plays with others, make sure they do it protected and that they get tested regulary!

Male strippers are rare in Japan (i met a guy once who claimed to be a stripper. He showed me some pics of a kind of performance act. Interesting but not exactly Magic Mike way of male stripper i think) i'd love to date one though. Killerbody and good moves... Sign me right up!
 
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MissInsomnia said:
I'm not straight.. so with that being said, I wouldn't mind dating a female stripper, female escort, hostess, etc.

However, for some reason, I wouldn't date men who work in this industry (male escorts, male strippers, hosts, etc.).
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I don't think they are all in the same category. Many men can think differently about each group. And there is plenty to debate about hostess vs sex-worker, as sometimes a hostess is crossing over, but other times not.

I've dated strippers and hostesses, but never have knowingly dated a sex-worker.
 
Sudsy said:
I have dated strippers and escorts in the past, and would again.

I draw the line at hostesses.

Strippers and escorts are generally involved in a fair exchange of payment for services, while hostesses tend to learn to be deceitful and manipulative because of the environment they work in.
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Their is an old saying that I have learned from older Japanese guys. If a woman is a hostess for more than 2 years, she becomes supposedly worthless as a wife, because she is too scheming and conniving.
 
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Providing that escort was Alice:p, then that's a big 10 - 4. Unfortunately I don't think she'd go in for a pudgy, middle aged, slightly run down guy with a receding hair line that is quickly turning grey:( LMAO
 
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LOL You're welcome. On a serious note though that is a great question. Many, many moons ago I did date a girl who, to pay for school, worked for a massage parlor that gave Happy Endings. I was cool with it, but she told me the guy she had been dating before broke up with her because she wouldn't quit. She had told him "Fine you want me to quit pay for my schooling." Well that didn't happen so she did what she had to do and he couldn't handle it.
 
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Scouts, hosts, even a sexy street tout.. Hell yes! They are the best at nampa so it's easy to meet them and they are generally open minded about sex.
I like stuff like open relationships and a bit of kink in the bedroom (roleplays, a bit of porn style action.. My escort way is GFE but in a trustful relationship i can act like a PS funny enough). So yea, i would only date a very open minded guy and i'm equally open minded about their jobs and lifestyle.
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For precisely these reasons (open minded about sex/lifestyle, a bit of kink in the bedroom) if my wife ever carries through on her semi-regular threats to divorce me, I would probably do my best to find someone who works in the industry to start dating.
 
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hardharry said:
Providing that escort was Alice:p, then that's a big 10 - 4. Unfortunately I don't think she'd go in for a pudgy, middle aged, slightly run down guy with a receding hair line that is quickly turning grey:( LMAO
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Grow a thick gray beard. Wear brown shoes. Both help a lot! :D

-Ww
 
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I have and would date all three, although I've never had a very significant relationship with a hostess. Well, that isn't exactly accurate; I have had significant relationships with women that worked as hostesses at some point in their lives.

-Ww
 
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I have no clear answer on that and would decide that on a case by case base. For friends with benefits I wouldn't mind any of those.
My serious relationships so far have been exclusive and that continues to be my preference. I don't currently don't think that I can or want to separate between sex in the relationship and sex for work, so escorts probably wouldn't work out. I'm not sure where exactly I would draw the line, but I could probably adjust to anything with a no touch policy... Hostess, strippers, maybe even some happy ending massage.
A different problem however is that most of this jobs are night work, so basically while I'm off work, she works. Not an ideal situation for a relationship.
But I'm also in the age group, where you slowly warm up with settling down.
 
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I have a serious relationship back at home with a girl my age, and i'd hate it if she was moonlighting, whether in secret or publicly. Having a fling with "working girl" is fine by me. Call me double standard, but man have needs too, especially when he's living far apart from his girlfriend/wife.

I think whatever status of dating tou have, what is important is respecting each other, regardless of what they do for a living. We can have a tendency to think of women only as a commodity when looking for sexual release, but we should still remember that when you are in that room alone with each other, you are with another living human being who has a life and needs to attend to. So if anyone is planning to date one for the long run, i think you should be looking at the human side of the person.

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Just sort of started dating one. No sex. Just friends. Her call. So I guess that is a 'yes'.
 
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Falling in love with one of the escort soon. We are still friends. Didn't ask her to stop escorting as it might ruin everything. Just feel jealous everyday when she told me she is doing outcall with different clients per day.
 
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Hmm. I agree with all of these answers.
This might be wrong post but here is my opinions from one of newest provider's side.

Do I want to fall in love with someone while I am escorting?
-Maybe Yes. I am also normal girl who has feelings. To feel loved by someone is one of the most beautiful things and it makes me much stronger and happier naturally.

Will I be able to keep loving him/Doesn't he care about what I'm doing?
-Most likely No. I basically feel guilty if I ever see someone who I like getting hurts... It'll hurts my feelings too.

Running business by my own without having someone's support can be tough But-Having someone who makes me emotional/feel complicated because of this will be way more tough and effects for my business...

So I'll just be patient until I reach to the "Goal".
 
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Yuma said:
Running business by my own without having someone's support can be tough But-Having someone who makes me emotional/feel complicated because of this will be way more tough and effects for my business...
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I guess this is a good point for me to interject my comments.

I'm in constant contact with a number of working girls but only a couple that I really sit down and talk to. It really feels to me that they need an outlet to talk about their work and have some sort of emotional support or release since they may not have many friends in the business or simply can't talk about her work with her normal friends or family.

Some ladies have really a really good support system through friends or their significant other. Others, just simply don't have anything except maybe LINE. ;)

From a personal standpoint, since I've already dated someone in the business, I suppose that I could date or be involved with a working girl. However, I imagine that in the back of my mind, I'd have to reassure myself that she was doing her job in a safe manner. (i.e. testing for STDs and using protection and not doing risky things...) Some may argue that my point about the 'safe manner' can be debated, but if I'm intimate with her, then it's two lives at stake should either one of us become infected with something bad or something that doesn't go away with meds.

Lastly, I've been told by a number of girls that what they do for their job in bed is completely different from what they do with a regular partner. I don't have enough experience to judge on this point, lol... but those comments seem genuine. :)

I was recently rejected from going out with someone because I don't really drink alcohol. Not because of any other reason, just simply because they couldn't go out with someone that didn't drink. wtf? :rolleyes:
 
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@TAG Manager: i've seen men and women rejected for something more superficial than that. I've even been rejected by a girl who disagrees with what constitutes as cartoons or anime.
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Oh good grief. Not worth my time if it gets to be that silly. Bigger issues at play with that girl.
 
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@TAG Manager: i've seen men and women rejected for something more superficial than that. I've even been rejected by a girl who disagrees with what constitutes as cartoons or anime.

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Don't forget people who don't want to date someone who likes another soccer team ;) I've heard crazy stories from couples where one part liked bayern münchen and the other not. Couples braking up because of that issue. Never really understood.

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I guess this is a good point for me to interject my comments.

I'm in constant contact with a number of working girls but only a couple that I really sit down and talk to. It really feels to me that they need an outlet to talk about their work and have some sort of emotional support or release since they may not have many friends in the business or simply can't talk about her work with her normal friends or family.

Some ladies have really a really good support system through friends or their significant other. Others, just simply don't have anything except maybe LINE. ;)

From a personal standpoint, since I've already dated someone in the business, I suppose that I could date or be involved with a working girl. However, I imagine that in the back of my mind, I'd have to reassure myself that she was doing her job in a safe manner. (i.e. testing for STDs and using protection and not doing risky things...) Some may argue that my point about the 'safe manner' can be debated, but if I'm intimate with her, then it's two lives at stake should either one of us become infected with something bad or something that doesn't go away with meds.

Lastly, I've been told by a number of girls that what they do for their job in bed is completely different from what they do with a regular partner. I don't have enough experience to judge on this point, lol... but those comments seem genuine. :)

I was recently rejected from going out with someone because I don't really drink alcohol. Not because of any other reason, just simply because they couldn't go out with someone that didn't drink. wtf? :rolleyes:
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I can somewhat see myself with that a bit. I think it's very important to have someone you can talk about your work. People do the same with 'normal' jobs but it's seems more difficult with sex work.

And I'd also say that bed play with work is different than wth someone you really love. It's a different feeling on a complete other level of intimacy.
 
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