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  1. IronGiant

    Game/nanpa for older gentlemen - one man's transformation

    I am Senpai. Thanks very much!! If anyone has any questions about the podcast, fire away!
  2. IronGiant

    Review for Sinapse / Attraction Japan / "The Fine Art of Nanpa"

    Sure! Points (b) and (c) related to the way that Sinapse and Dorian Gray show genuine respect for, and interest in, women as human beings and not mere objects. So to illustrate this, here are some quotations from the book that Sinapse and Dorian Gray have just published (in no particular...
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    Review for Sinapse / Attraction Japan / "The Fine Art of Nanpa"

    I'm a career guy in his 50s living in Japan. I first came to TAG for advice about using Ashley Madison on a trip to Tokyo. It worked out great (see my old posts from a few years back), but now that I've moved here, I've actually given away my AM account (which had some $300 worth of credits in...
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    Ageha - Noir Masquerade by ASHLEY MADISON - April 8, 2017

    AM is indeed still a thing, and I highly recommend it. Real women, real dates, real affairs.
  5. IronGiant

    "Chotto M"

    This is very helpful, thanks. If she were truly "M" then it might be awkward - she'd have to supply her own handcuffs, and there aren't many Japanese-language BDSM contracts on LegalZoom…
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    "Chotto M"

    But what does that really mean to a Japanese woman, in your experience? When she says that, how serious is she? And what does she really like (as opposed to imagining that she might like).
  7. IronGiant

    "Chotto M"

    In your experience, just what does a Japanese woman mean when she says "ちょっとMなので" ("chotto M na no de") ("I am a little bit M")? Specific details are appreciated, if available.
  8. IronGiant

    Meeting Japanese girls

    Any thoughts on particular Hub bars that are consistently fertile territory? (There are so many of them, some must be better than others…)
  9. IronGiant

    How to Pick Up Japanese Girls Effectively - Epic Video

    I love this. It's really more about an attitude toward life in general, than an attitude toward picking up women. Quite inspiring and thought-provoking. I will have to watch it several times.
  10. IronGiant

    Sinapse Unmasked - Nampa / Pickup in Japan finally revealed on camera

    So what would you say are the three or four most general-purpose non-foreign topics with which a foreigner (perhaps with some study) could become conversant in order to have at least a modicum of common conversational ground with the majority of girls approached? Assume that the foreigner is...
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    Sinapse Unmasked - Nampa / Pickup in Japan finally revealed on camera

    That's fascinating. Could you elaborate on how a girl's knowledge of English affects the way you relate to her even though you don't speak to her in English?
  12. IronGiant

    How to start a conversation, to whom you meet everyday when commuting.

    The key is to create the "significant reason." Find something about the other person and take a genuine interest in it, and ask about it. For example, I get a lot of mileage from technology. If I see a woman with an immense smartphone, I may say, "Wow, that phone is huge! What model is it?"...
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    Almost there.. How do I go one step further

    I'm glad that the OP has gone the love hotel route, since it seems the most obvious solution, but I thought I'd just say that in the situation he described before - no excuse to get away, strange smells, no place to change - why not just join a gym? It provides a great reason to get out of the...
  14. IronGiant

    Social Gym in Tokyo

    Thinking about changing gyms and whether I could meet new people at the same time. Any recommendations for a gym in Tokyo that (a) has a good social vibe, (b) is really more of a social club, or (c) is really more of a meat market? Location is not so important -- if it's good enough then I'm...
  15. IronGiant

    Helloo Fun Loving Folks

    You call someone "Casanova" when his Japanese name is 新家.
  16. IronGiant

    Learning To Read Japanese

    Online game is great practice too. I read dozens of profiles when writing my own, over which I struggled mightily, and since then messaging back and forth with women has been a real challenge. I've developed quite a vocabulary list from those exchanges, as well as from profiles that I've read...
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    Things You Would Change About Japan

    So true. They let all these parents get away with failing to buckle in their kids, but if you rip, smear, or write graffiti on a political campaign sign, you'll be arrested so fast it'll make your head spin.
  18. IronGiant

    Things You Would Change About Japan

    I agree. Otherwise the rural districts will get all the Reese's Peanut Butter Cups.
  19. IronGiant

    Things You Would Change About Japan

    Greater availability of Reese's Peanut Butter Cups. Otherwise, nothing.
  20. IronGiant

    Being Alpha In Japan

    Ah, but if you'd been there and seen her, then you wouldn't have been able to keep your hands off of her either, trust me.