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    Gifts .. When, how and why ?

    My advice is to stop over thinking it! If you want to give because it’s coming from a genuine place and it makes you feel good, then do so. If you are doing it out of guilt, obligations, expectations, in hope of a favorable rapport or outcome or any other meaning you are placing behind the...
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    What music do you like to listen to?

    I’ve been journaling to this lately.
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    Make Up Preferences?

    It usually takes me one hour to get myself ready for an appointment (shower, hair, makeup, etc). Since I wear light makeup, I spend around 5-10mins on my face. My go to routine is a light layer of foundation, powder, blush and eyeliners. I am naturally more tanned during the summer so I don’t...
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    Addiction to adult services. / oversexed

    I wouldn’t be too hard on yourself in terms of having the desires to explore other sexual experiences and with other partners. My husband and I are still very much in love with one another after being married for 19 years. We are both attracted to each other and have a healthy sex life. But we...
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    How would you define a keeper?

    All the ladies we tend to repeat with all have their own unique qualities which are not necessary the same across the board. But the qualities they all have in common would be kindness, genuineness, professionalism, and most importantly they all choose to be in this profession because they enjoy it.
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    Mandatory showers

    My husband and I always shower 15 minutes before each appointment. I don’t know if the standards or expectations are different for couples but I’ve never taken a shower with a provider. I personally don’t care for water play and I always inform the provider that I just showered before her...
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    What's your favourite pillow talk topics, when P4P?

    There is no difference on what I choose to share or discuss regardless of whether it’s with a provider or a stranger. Imo, all conversations are like a dance, and for me, it’s based on the energies I feel from the person I am interacting with. I don’t have a script or any “off limit” topics. I...
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    P4P diary/journal

    I enjoy writing down my thoughts, feelings and emotions about various topics in my personal life. I’ve thought about writing down my p4p experiences throughout the years but for some reason it just doesn’t feel right. I guess somehow it feels more special to me if I keep it to myself and in my...
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    Providers personality preference, sugar sweet VS Intelligent

    Ideally a mixture of both would be perfect. I would say it’s definitely a turn on when a woman possesses intelligence, confidence and wit. But for longer dates, I would probably prefer someone who is genuinely sweet while being able to carry a mature conversation.
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    A question to those men who have no reason to use P4P...

    I also don’t qualify either but I am pretty confident that if my husband and I hit up the swinging scene we would probably get plenty of free action. The reason why we exclusively choose to p4p is mainly due to the need for privacy, cleanliness, ease and convenience (especially in Japan). P4p...
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    Request for Dirty Talk

    I don’t mind when a guy talks dirty to me but it doesn’t turn me on and I find it to be quite comical. I am cool with it though and can play along if it’s a bedroom fantasy but I obviously would not tolerate being spoken to in that manner outside of the play. As far as me doing the dirty...
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    Need some Recommendations

    What Mr 3 didn’t mention was that we actually have spent time with Sayuri and had a great experience. She is very professional and friendly. She is sweet with a bubbly personality. You can’t go wrong with her. Enjoy your trip!
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    Deriheru for women

    We have had our fair share of weird and awkward surprise encounters and if I wasn’t doing p4p with my husband, I don’t think I would be partaking in it either. It definitely eases our nerves knowing that we are doing this as a team. I very much agree with this!
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    Deriheru for women

    If I was to hire a male escort, it would be with someone between 30-50 years old. I would prefer a man with dark hair, medium built, no facial hair, and a traditional masculine look (meaning no one that looks extremely young or too feminine/metrosexual). He would have to be a gentleman, genuine...
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    This is what you get when you help people... fuck that dick !

    Thank you, Manami! You are too kind and very sweet!:)
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    What men do behind women's backs

    I like the aggression of a woman who goes after what she likes! The two of you can corner me anytime!:p
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    This is what you get when you help people... fuck that dick !

    @Manami TMK @Frenchy That is quite unfortunate that you both had such a bad experience while trying to be kind and helpful. It is sad how some people will take very little responsibility for their own actions or even have any thought as to how their actions or lack of courtesy will make an...
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    What men do behind women's backs

    I like and appreciate men who wear cologne. Sometimes when I greet a man and he is wearing a scent that I am drawn to, I have the tendency to hug them just a little bit longer than normal. Lol
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    Never climaxed from BJ

    I don’t label myself as being on any particular type of diet because I simply listen to my body when it comes to what I choose to put into it. I haven’t eaten any red meat in months and surprisingly, I feel like my body is operating at a much more optimal level. I still eat seafood though but I...
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    Never climaxed from BJ

    I’m not sure if it’s any different for women when it comes to being able to reach climax. I know when I have a hard time climaxing it is very much a mental thing. Ime, many girls will advertise themselves to be “bisexual” but from my personal experiences, most are simply “bi-curious” or...