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Marriage visa is really relaxed compared to the very restricted study and work visas.I think depending on someone else for the ability to stay in a country is a very risky situation to be in, especially when you can take a job or be a student instead. It's a legal contract, and unless you have an iron-clad prenup, you risk losing half of everything you own and taking half of someone else's debts if you separate.
Totally agree with the last Ww sentence. Sometimes you pay for it, though.
This is a lot like me. I moved abroad when I was 18 after finishing highschool. I went back to Scotland for university and took loans to cover living costs (no tuition fees). I am now completely debt free. I don't want to have to
I heard these tails from my so called peers growing up and then I hear how they died alone.......I'll pass on that.......I'll take my chances sharing me with whoever really wants me.......Don't think I'd ever want to settle down and get married either..
I prefer to do almost everything by myself.. mainly because my parents raised me to be independent. They also feel uncomfortable and sometimes angry if I bring up anything marriage/dating-related..
I started working at factories after turning 15, started paying for my own food and rent after my first paycheck, left my parents' home a few months after getting my high school diploma, and now saving up to get that bachelor's degree by doing this cool, yet sometimes weird, thing called escorting.. haha
Sometimes I do daydream about getting married.. but at the end of the day, I think it's best for me to be single. I don't want to commit to someone, or have someone else control the money I earn. I want to be able to travel frequently and I want to make my own decisions without someone possibly disagreeing with them.
For kids though, married or not, I'd love to adopt a kid when I'm older and even better financially! I actually want to be a single mom..
I heard these tails from my so called peers growing up and then I hear how they died alone.......I'll pass on that.......I'll take my chances sharing me with whoever really wants me.......
My plan is to have a sugar toy boy. I'm actually quite looking forward to it.
This is a lot like me. I moved abroad when I was 18 after finishing highschool. I went back to Scotland for university and took loans to cover living costs (no tuition fees). I am now completely debt free. I don't want to have to sacrifice all the savings and items I have worked hard for, sometimes with pretty awful jobs (for the most part, I would not consider escorting to be included in this).
Asset in what way? The example you give is not really exclusive to a spouse.
Which is?
I feel like you seem to think that those who are unmarried have no idea what the life of a husband and wife is like. Most of us grew up in households with married parents, many have siblings who have married, have been in co-habiting relationships ourselves and also have access to the accounts of others.
Don't think I'd ever want to settle down and get married either..
I prefer to do almost everything by myself.. mainly because my parents raised me to be independent. They also feel uncomfortable and sometimes angry if I bring up anything marriage/dating-related..
I started working at factories after turning 15, started paying for my own food and rent after my first paycheck, left my parents' home a few months after getting my high school diploma, and now saving up to get that bachelor's degree by doing this cool, yet sometimes weird, thing called escorting.. haha
Sometimes I do daydream about getting married.. but at the end of the day, I think it's best for me to be single. I don't want to commit to someone, or have someone else control the money I earn. I want to be able to travel frequently and I want to make my own decisions without someone possibly disagreeing with them.
For kids though, married or not, I'd love to adopt a kid when I'm older and even better financially! I actually want to be a single mom..