Intercourse is not the only way that STDs can be transmitted. Kissing, oral sex, cuts, etc.
Indeed so, and kissing, especially DFK, can also transmit many serious infectious diseases which are not STDs.
Refraining from kissing entirely or limiting it to very light kissing (lips closed with minimal saliva transfer) with sex partners in escort encounters (or other promiscuous contexts such as swinging) would probably reduce the health risks more than occasional lapses in using condoms increases it. This is one of the reasons many escorts try to minimize kissing of their customers, although most do it quite freely.
What's more, I have seen many people incorrectly put on condoms (without squeezing the tip to prevent air bubbles) and seen Western condoms be too loose for Japanese men (I carry multiple sizes and will discard a first try if need be). The small failure rate only applies to perfect use.
Your practice is wise and common among escorts. Any escort who wishes to minimize the health risks of vaginal or anal intercourse should be at pains to make sure that her customers are wearing a proper fitting condom which is put on correctly as well as being sure that all penetrations begin and stay very well lubricated, whether naturally or artificially. Many escorts insist on putting the condoms on their customers and adding lube, if and when needed, themselves.
Taking this sort of approach is the only practical one for protecting yourself; there is no way that any escort can control what other escorts do in private with their customers...or even know (in most cases) which other escorts their customers have seen in any complete sense. For example, even if no "TAG-active" escort ever had unprotected intercourse with their clients or anyone else, many/most of the customers they see will have been with escorts from BP or agencies or in other countries or ... who have no TAG presence at all, don't even know that it exists. Very fortunately and as mentioned before, insisting that you have properly and carefully protected sex with your own customers is *extremely* effective in reducing the risks of relevant STDs (those that are stopped by condoms), so there isn't much need to do what cannot be done (i.e., control the practices of other escorts).
While it is true that using a condom would greatly decrease this risk, I must ask if you yourself would happily have protected sex with someone high risk?
It depends on what is meant by "high risk". For example, if the it meant someone hooked on intravenous drugs and showing symptoms of active AIDS, I wouldn't be.
However, if "high risk" means an escort who occasionally offers BB services to some of her customers (according to her own sense of what is acceptable risk etc), then my answer is definitely "yes". I have done so in the past. Moreover, I have had *unprotected* intercourse on a regular basis over a period of many years with an escort who was "high risk" in the latter sense; neither of us ever caught anything. I also have had unprotected oral sex (giving and receiving) and practiced DFK with hundreds of partners in both p4p and np4p contexts, many of whom I'd just met and who themselves had quite promiscuous sex lives, over a period of decades. Again, I never caught anything.
Now to be clear, I realize that I am far more risk tolerant than most people and that my practices are not reasonable/comfortable for everyone, but imo they do show that unprotected sex of various sorts is not nearly as dangerous as many people appear to think. Some seem to feel that it is virtually suicidal. From my perspective, conventional wisdom about the use of condoms is a testimony to the effectiveness of public health and anti-sexual propaganda in scaring people and to most people's susceptibility to allowing fear to control their behavior.
-Ww