Hello~ I'm hoping to get some advice regarding sugar dating. I'm very new to it and haven't seem to quite grasp how to best go about it. So far, it's been a bit of trial and error and learning as I go.
Mainly I'm wondering what potential SDs are looking or hoping for right at the beginning from a pot. SB. Do you want the SB to initiate conversations often? Are you able to tell whether someone is a right fit for you off the bat? Anything I should avoid? Or do?
I had set up a meeting with someone on SA but they cancelled suddenly, saying that they weren't excited about the meeting because we had no chemistry (even though we only talked to set up the meeting) and blocked me immediately after. We had set a meeting for I think 5 days later due to schedules and didn't speak for the past few days. I'm a little shy, on top of being new to this, so I didn't initiate conversation anytime during this... figuring we would get to know each other more over dinner. I was a bit surprised by the blocking, but I get it... however, I'm wondering if it's something that I did , or didn't do here.
For another situation, I exchanged LINE with someone and we talked a bit the first night. They live in Kyoto whereas I live in Tokyo so an immediate meetup is not possible. After a few days, I sent another message just to see how they are doing and got left on read.
Mainly I'm wondering what potential SDs are looking or hoping for right at the beginning from a pot. SB. Do you want the SB to initiate conversations often? Are you able to tell whether someone is a right fit for you off the bat? Anything I should avoid? Or do?
I had set up a meeting with someone on SA but they cancelled suddenly, saying that they weren't excited about the meeting because we had no chemistry (even though we only talked to set up the meeting) and blocked me immediately after. We had set a meeting for I think 5 days later due to schedules and didn't speak for the past few days. I'm a little shy, on top of being new to this, so I didn't initiate conversation anytime during this... figuring we would get to know each other more over dinner. I was a bit surprised by the blocking, but I get it... however, I'm wondering if it's something that I did , or didn't do here.
For another situation, I exchanged LINE with someone and we talked a bit the first night. They live in Kyoto whereas I live in Tokyo so an immediate meetup is not possible. After a few days, I sent another message just to see how they are doing and got left on read.