all of that is true, i guess... just didnt work for me... whenever i met women through language exchange, or anything else related to foreign things, it never worked out and actually we stop talking after a while... and i dont think about nationalities at all...
There could be a number of reasons for this, and without knowing anything about your interactions while on the language exchange, I can't really editorialize. Some of the most common causes for girls going dark on you, or not reciprocating interest
1) You didn't (try) have sex with them soon enough
2) They want a purely business relationship
3) You're not their type/ no chemistry, etc
#1 is likely the most controversial, but just thinking about it from a guy perspective: If I'm on my 20th date with a girl, and she's consistently resisted every attempt at me having sex with her, I'm going to drop her no matter how awesome she is. Sex is a very importantly, natural step in developing a relationship. It's not just about the physical pleasure, it's about the emotional bond between man and woman (then of course the physical pleasure aspect is important too =P). If she's ready to go, she's not going to wait around forever for you to man up and make a move, she's got her time limit on how long she's willing to invest in the relationship before moving on to her next option. This is typically why PUA's push for sex, regardless of their long term goals. I got into game looking for my future wife, and always pushed for sex as quickly as possible (except when I was experimenting with withholding sex and seeing how it worked with my game).
My recommendation is after your allotted language exchange time, ask her if she wants to go grab a drink at a nearby bar or something and just talk to her more humanly. The language exchange places I've been on were too rigid and basically like just regular tutoring sessions. It didn't offer much opportunity to get to know the girl like I would over drinks in a casual environment. From there, see how things progress and feel if she's down for sex afterwards.
whenever i go to places i like, or to the places i usually go, i got no problem with finding someone to talk to until morning and whos looking forward to the next time im coming around... and there i am expanding my social circle without any problems... i dont even have to talk to someone, people talk to me, or i get introduced...
You're in a place that's in your element, that's normal. Without getting into a long drawn out lecture about it, you have to consider the power dynamics of the place you're in. I've never been picked up by a girl before, except at my work place by my students. When you go somewhere, there are dynamics of who's the most powerful, coolest, etc and said person is going to be the most attractive person in the room, and women are going to be trying to get that guy's attention. As a teacher, I am the most Alpha in the room, and thus the most attractive. When you go to a club, it's going to be the DJ or the bartender, etc. This isn't going to necessarily get you the lay, because you still need to be an interesting and attractive guy, but that initial attraction that comes from power dynamics helps (Social status).
When you're in a place that you're a usual, or specifically interested in, you're in your comfort zone and that will be attractive to girls.
sure there are enough who want to date foreigners, but i think they got some specific country on their minds, or got an image that some people (or maybe only i) just dont meet...
Sure there are, just like there are people attracted to Asians (probably most of us living here long term =P), red heads, burnettes, blondes, tall, short, skinny, fat, "more to love," sweet, ultra-sweet, bitchy, lesbianic feminazi, etc, etc.
Everyone has their tastes in the opposite sex, and it's really not worthwhile to even give it a second thought. You don't know what her tastes are, nor can you control it. Things you can't control that you worry about are ultimately a waste of brain power you could be focusing towards being a confident, attractive, in the moment guy. I've been the first foreigner for a lot of girls, I've been the nth; it's just a preference she may have, not an iron clad rule.
