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it’s something that often puzzled me... I must be old school but usually when someone writes me I answer relatively quickly. Even If I’m sick or busy I say so, takes just a few seconds to text it, no big deal.
But I noticed that in this wonderful land of Sugar it seems totally ok to cancel dates at the last moment, ghost someone for days or even weeks , then suddenly re-appear out of the blue with lame / vague excuses which sound like BS (“I was sick”, “my mum came” etc) and continue the dialog as if nothing had happened inbetween. I find that rude and frankly very unappealing.
Just texted “Odaijini” to a pot-SB who seems constantly sick and had already cancelled our first date. Too bad, she seemed really nice at the M&G meeting.
But I noticed that in this wonderful land of Sugar it seems totally ok to cancel dates at the last moment, ghost someone for days or even weeks , then suddenly re-appear out of the blue with lame / vague excuses which sound like BS (“I was sick”, “my mum came” etc) and continue the dialog as if nothing had happened inbetween. I find that rude and frankly very unappealing.
Just texted “Odaijini” to a pot-SB who seems constantly sick and had already cancelled our first date. Too bad, she seemed really nice at the M&G meeting.
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