Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm curious about something.
Ever since I have moved here to Japan months ago I have been wanting to date women. Some encounters I have been successful in, others I have not. Many I have been led on, seemingly. For the encounters that I have been seemingly led on in, it has resulted in those women not texting back or me always contacting them.
For one particular situation, there is a girl I know in my Martial Arts class that I take, Muay Thai. She used to come frequently but hasn't as of late most likely because she is in the Japanese Navy. Understandable. One day, after training, she walked up to me and started a conversation with little English she knows. After that we exchanged FB info and started talking from there. I succeed in getting her into a deeper conversation and eventually asked her out on a date, didn't go as planned.
The date felt kind of rushed considering the fact that she was getting ready to go on a trip to America for holiday soon and she had to buy a gift for one of her friends there. But we still had a good time, so not so bad.
Ever since then, which was recent, she has stopped getting into contact with me. However, she has added me on Instagram and liked my postings of photography on there, also on FB.
So am I wasting my time? Or should I go for it?
Ever since I have moved here to Japan months ago I have been wanting to date women. Some encounters I have been successful in, others I have not. Many I have been led on, seemingly. For the encounters that I have been seemingly led on in, it has resulted in those women not texting back or me always contacting them.
For one particular situation, there is a girl I know in my Martial Arts class that I take, Muay Thai. She used to come frequently but hasn't as of late most likely because she is in the Japanese Navy. Understandable. One day, after training, she walked up to me and started a conversation with little English she knows. After that we exchanged FB info and started talking from there. I succeed in getting her into a deeper conversation and eventually asked her out on a date, didn't go as planned.
The date felt kind of rushed considering the fact that she was getting ready to go on a trip to America for holiday soon and she had to buy a gift for one of her friends there. But we still had a good time, so not so bad.
Ever since then, which was recent, she has stopped getting into contact with me. However, she has added me on Instagram and liked my postings of photography on there, also on FB.
So am I wasting my time? Or should I go for it?