Babaram
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My advice: Don't.
It could be a nice fling. It could also lose you the job and the marriage. Being married and in the same company, you are in a huge disadvantage when the relationship goes sour. I have seen this happen a few times before: All goes well until she gets so attached to you that she wants you to divorce. All goes well until you are sick of it. Then, the trouble starts. Blackmail. Wife sues coworker for homewrecking. Coworker sues.
My advice: pay. If the wife is Japanese, she most likely will assume that you do it anyway. It's not cheating when money changes hands. No trouble at the office.
It could be a nice fling. It could also lose you the job and the marriage. Being married and in the same company, you are in a huge disadvantage when the relationship goes sour. I have seen this happen a few times before: All goes well until she gets so attached to you that she wants you to divorce. All goes well until you are sick of it. Then, the trouble starts. Blackmail. Wife sues coworker for homewrecking. Coworker sues.
My advice: pay. If the wife is Japanese, she most likely will assume that you do it anyway. It's not cheating when money changes hands. No trouble at the office.