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Hello I'm just recently come to japan few days ago and I'm alone and had really specific plan to during my stay in Japan... Is there people who good at nampa at Tokyo right now ...who want to hang out......I'm really inexperienced at all about woman I've never have girlfriend. I really want to change myself...
 
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What was your really specific plan?

Why would a nampa pro want to hang out? What are you bringing to the table?

Why don't you focus on developing your people skills back home? In the meantime, enjoy Japan!
 
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As far as plans go, I admire its elegant simplicity but it's rather unspecific. As Doc pointed out, you will need to ask yourself what is in it for the "nampa pro"? Are you offering to compensate him for the time he spends coaching you?

If you search TAG, you'll find some discussions about PUA game and links to videos and seminars by experts. Depending on how long you're spending in japan, that might be an option for you. If you're just here for a short time, why not spend a few hours at a pub like The Hub and just try to chat with the people you meet.
 
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Is it me or I have the impression Tokyo (for some reasons I can't figure out) has become the "School of Sex" for first-timers from all over the world?
Like , you know, the obvious answer to the question "where can I get a first girlfriend? A first escort? Etc.." has become Tokyo (so easy , so multilingual , so close, so cheap...:D)
 
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Tokyo is like the sex Mecca of the world and every year thousands upon thousands of horny dudes make the pilgrimage, cocked and ready to splooge on anything that moves. For the young and inexperienced it's probably more attractive to lose their virginity to a cute, shy Japanese girl than to some random crack whore in a dumpy flat back home. So they flock there in droves.

For the OP - if your time in Japan is short, there's honestly not much you can do to gain the finely tuned skills of a PUA that are developed over years in the game. But what you can do is change your mentality. You can get out of your comfort zone, pay for some fun times, meet people at bars and try to enjoy the many things the city has to offer. That's step one in my opinion.
 
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whocares said:
Weeeell I think Bangkok or Hong Kong would argue with you on that one...
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MikeH said:
Not to mention Phuket, Pattaya, Macau, Manila or Angeles City.
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True. Hard to argue against places with names like Phuket, lol. But at least in Japan you usually don't have to worry about avoiding trouble while having a good time and almost anything, weird stuff included, is readily available.

As for Bankok, I find it to be a little too...

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...dangerous...

AHH YEAAAHHHHHH!!!!
 
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Lukes said:
True. Hard to argue against places with names like Phuket, lol. But at least in Japan you usually don't have to worry about avoiding trouble while having a good time and almost anything, weird stuff included, is readily available.

As for Bankok, I find it to be a little too...

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...dangerous...

AHH YEAAAHHHHHH!!!!
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Well, at least Bangkok is safer than Manila or Jakarta.
 
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SugoiBoy said:
Well, at least Bangkok is safer than Manila or Jakarta.
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I spent some time in both Manila and Jakarta a number of years ago. That was before my hobbying days though so unfortunately I don't have anything interesting to report there. I never felt that I was in immediate danger but I'd never visit again by choice.

Bangkok I'd be willing to try at least once for the experience. I just couldn't resist the chance to make a Bangkok Dangerous/ CSI Miami joke.
 
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[QUOTE="Lukes, post: 123098, member: 19987"I'd never visit again by choice.[/QUOTE]

Does that apply to Jakarta too? I have never been there but have heard it should be good for p4p. My latest trip to Manila I felt the locals were in their toes all the time and worrying something would happen to their foreign guest so I didn't feel very comfortable either. And I heard now it's even way worse. Would like to visit, if for nothing else than to go to the Angeles City for a week or so.
 
MikeH said:
[QUOTE="Lukes, post: 123098, member: 19987"I'd never visit again by choice.
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Does that apply to Jakarta too? I have never been there but have heard it should be good for p4p. My latest trip to Manila I felt the locals were in their toes all the time and worrying something would happen to their foreign guest so I didn't feel very comfortable either. And I heard now it's even way worse. Would like to visit, if for nothing else than to go to the Angeles City for a week or so.[/QUOTE]

I heard from some dudes I was swapping stories with at a club once that Jakarta was a good place to score relatively inexpensive P4P with hot women. There are loads of bars, clubs and spas filled with prostitutes and also non pros that are down to party, sometimes for free (cost of drinks, etc.). They said it was safe enough if you keep to popular areas and don't draw undue attention to yourself. They were backpackers by day but dressed up a bit to party at night. Obviously common sense should be employed because things do happen there from time to time to travelers.

So if it's on your bucket list, I say by all means. Just keep your wits about you. The main reason I wouldn't go back (at least not anytime soon) is because I have other places that are higher up on my list. My old man used to tell me stories about beautiful women that he... encountered... there so I guess it must be true.
 
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If any of you go to Jakarta, then check out the "Blok M" area. It's actually several blocks. Anyway, Blok M is where much of the P4P action for expat hobbyists can be found.

These links should help if you're planning a trip:

http://www.expat.or.id/info/blokmbars.html

http://www.jakarta100bars.com/search?q=Blok+M

BTW, when they say "ayam bars," keep in mind that "ayam" literally means "chicken" in both Malay and Indonesian:chicken: Hence, those bars are places to look for chicks:LOL:

Hey, Ramadan is over. So, things should be back to normal now(y)
 
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Just returned for a long stay in Saigon...add that to the list :D
 
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This thread took a sharp left turn..
 
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OK, back to the original topic. Hope the OP enjoys his stay in Japan.

Honestly, I'm not much of a PUA. Certainly, I wouldn't call myself a nampa pro, but just try to meet people in general (Japanese and fellow foreigners; women and men). Besides pubs, there are other options like social gatherings in Tokyo conducted in English. Some online research should reveal organizations that host events that might interest you.

Good luck!
 
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hey，guy，tokyo is easy to find girlfriend，only you have money。，good luck
 
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Maybe he'll come back and tell us how his trip was. :D
 
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