Unpopular Opinion By Some: I don't feel comfortable referring to human beings as objects, that includes the slang, slurs or whatever the local dialect dictates. The fact that you can't just refer to women (or men) respectfully, makes me ill. I'm fine with referring to them by their job title: Escort, Sex Worker, Dominatrix, Sugar Baby/Momma/Daddy, etc. Except in cases of role play, where the titles are agreed upon and chosen by those players... then you see things like master/slave/animal/toilet, whatever. These workers are not 'wares' that you browse in your local Nitori or Home Center. Feel free to use whatever terms you want on other sites and social media, but I would ask that you don't on this site.
Thanks & Locked.
EDIT: The OP of this thread pointed out that we should stop the use of "Shemale" --- While I'm not generally happy with the term, some of the workers in this field have elected to use this term as point for advertising because it draws out a certain of personality. We do not use 'Shemale' to address those normal Transgender persons who are not sex workers, that would be offensive. (This decision on our end has come as result of previous discussions with workers that call themselves: Ladyboys, Shemales, Traps/Crossdressers & even this new slang, Femboy.
EDIT 2: I have yet to see a provider refer to him/herself as a 'ware'.