How old is too old?

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My husband and I have been partaking in p4p for the last four years. My question is for the ladies on TAG but guys please feel free to participate. Is there a different outlook on how old is too old when it comes to seeing a woman as a client? How about couples?
 
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Well, how old is old? For males I have seen escorts state they don't serve anyone over fifty. And then I've seen an escort who looked like 18 to emerge from a love hotel with a guy who was somewhere between eighty and dead.

Though some of the shops will be out of reach if you get too fragile. Like the one in Shibuya with the three stairs of steep steps to just to get to their door. Too old to walk at all? I'm sure there are escorts willing to come to your house for the session.

If you are going to have a stroke and die during the session then I'd think that would be considered too old. Other than that it would come as the escort's personal preference.
 
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Troilist said:
My husband and I have been partaking in p4p for the last four years. My question is for the ladies on TAG but guys please feel free to participate. Is there a different outlook on how old is too old when it comes to seeing a woman as a client? How about couples?
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It's varied... you just have to ask but there is no definite, hard set limit for this. There is always something for everyone... especially in Japan.
 
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MikeH said:
If you are going to have a stroke and die during the session then I'd think that would be considered too old. Other than that it would come as the escort's personal preference.
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I agree with that. I'm personally okay with all ages as long as they're over 18.. but I would not feel comfortable seeing someone who is severely ill. One, it wouldn't feel right. Two, I'd be too afraid of physically harming them.

I think most escorts would care more about the MINIMUM age of their clients. I know a lady who will only see men above 30 years old and one who highly prefers men between 40 and 70.
 
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It is a good question. Imagine the future where a provider gets sued for age discrimination.

Personally, because of the intimate nature of the service, I think a provider should be free to discriminate on the basis of age or any other grounds. If the provider is professional, open minded, into his or her job and service minded, then age shouldn't be a deal breaker.

This post reminded me of a story from a few weeks ago - I was shopping in Shibuya, and happened to pass a couple that looked like a salarymen and a young JPN provider just as they were doing their introductory bows. At that moment, the girl could not control her instinctive body language and facial expression. He was obviously not someone she wanted to spend an hour with on Love Hotel Hill. She trudged up the Dog two yards behind him. Tough gig.
 
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I don't have a personal age limit, i just always see how it will go.

I dont think agencies ask for age on the phone either?

Some escorts set an age limit and thats usually written on their website.
 
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In my late 60s I'm too old for many and have other more profound defects, but it doesn't stop me nor even slow me down all that much (though that is gradually becoming an issue). My advice to the OP - go on until something stops you.

-Ww
 
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I get amazed, lots of over 60 guys are still sexually active, you meet by this forum. I get lil shocked at first, to see if he appears very rinkly, if they can have good conversation, then should be fine. But they are still full of beans! Halleluja to actually a human's healthy well-being result!!

I don't give sex service, so for me, it's for bj session, but I'm suprised, when a client, who mentioned me had a stroke years ago, he confessed that before session, made me so careful, even giving massage...I made him cum by my regular bj technique, eventually asked me, "You don't give FS?" meant as can't I get sex service?". I had to take a thought, as are you serious? What if you get stroke again, in a provider's pussy??? That would be so much trouble!!! He was a married guy...

Recently, 19〜65 is my client age range. I accept when they are in good health, mentally, physically.
 
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I think having a client die in bed with you is a nightmare scenario/worry for lots of SWs. I wonder how common it really is.

Obviously there is more danger for older guys, but sudden death is the first symptom of heart disease in many cases and can strike even young guys in their 30s or 40s or even younger...sometimes even atheletes in top condition. So, there is no perfect protection.

Valar morghulis.

-Ww
 
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Wwanderer said:
I think having a client die in bed with you is a nightmare scenario/worry for lots of SWs. I wonder how common it really is.

Obviously there is more danger for older guys, but sudden death is the first symptom of heart disease in many cases and can strike even young guys in their 30s or 40s or even younger...sometimes even atheletes in top condition. So, there is no perfect protection.

Valar morghulis.

-Ww
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I remember from my favourite old film of young Collin Firth, Ruppert Everett cast in the English film "Another country". Guy explained why he's not into a woman, was that he saw his mother, having his father in her pussy had a heart attack and died in there...He had to see them love make scene...

I couldn't understand this part, when I was very young school girl watched it in the UK, my English level was not as much as now, but later on I figured out what was about.(￣∇￣)
Pretty wild scenario used in a classic English film!!!

But, in the reality, indeed we don't hear these news...

Also, it is true that young guys die by sudden stroke, mostly for overworked stressed reason, imo. So, for young ones too, that better not do it, under such condition, perhaps...
 
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I see all clients in any age range.
However, my preferred age for men is 40 to 65. They are usually mature enough to know how to treat women right yet are sexually active. 30's is still young for me; I am always attracted by older guys in general.
20's are baby. 18 and 19? They are egg.
I had one really young client at Japanese shop. He literally squeezed me tight and shouted "奥さん！" (Okusan, the term when you call somebody's wife) as soon as I opened the door, even before look at his face. He emphasized he was 20, I first thought he did that to impress me how young he was ( which doesn't work on me anyway) but now I think he was not even 20. He was probably afraid of getting rejected because of his age.
On the other hand, I have been with almost a 90 year old client also. He called me to the regular hotel room. When I arrived at the hotel, pushed the door bell, nobody answered. I thought he made a false appointment. I called up the agency, they called back to his room. After 5-6 ring, he finally picked up and I heard amazingly loud voice. "what? Oh, she is at the door?" He simply had hearing problem... I enjoyed both experience.
 
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Troilist said:
Is there a different outlook on how old is too old when it comes to seeing a woman as a client?
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I think that we all looked over this part of the question.

To me, older women are more attractive than older men because they usually take better care of their body and hygiene.

I already said i personally see people of all ages, and i wouldn't set an age limit for women where i don't set it for men. There may be providers who do that, although i wouldn't know why, but i have never heard of it.
 
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TheScientist said:
I'm not sure death can be counted as a symptom... Generally more a result.
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I know, right. It sounds weird. But I believe that clinicians (a category of MD) actually describe it that way (have heard them do so) because death and the manner of death is a clue/indication of the underlying medical issue, which is what they mean by "symptom". So, sneezing could mean that the patient has a cold, and suddenly dropping over dead, especially during vigorous exercise, could mean that he/she had heart disease...both symptoms in that sense.

-Ww
 
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Taylorjp said:
Stop right there. You are living my fantasy.
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Wife speaking here:

I think most women are bicurious or bisexual. But unfortunately, most are not open to explore this part of themselves due to fear, society, culture or circumstances. When I am with a woman, I experience a different kind of connection compared to being with a man. One is not better than the other, it is simply different. The level of sensuality is higher and I think there is a level of an unspoken understanding/connection of one another physically, and with the right person, emotionally and spiritually. But of course, not every woman is open to venture down this path and not every relationship/marriage can tolerate this kind of exploration. The relationship definitely requires a lot of trust and communication from both partners. The other big component for this to work is both parties in the relationship/marriage must be/feel comfortable in their own skin and have self confidence in who they are for themselves and their partner. I also feel that most men end up self sabotaging this possibility of play with their partner because they are so eager to have a threesome from a sexual physicality standpoint that they overlook the need to address their partner's emotional state of being. For me, p4p is the perfect venue for any woman who are looking to explore and live out their curiosity or fantasies either on their own or with their partner. And men, if you play your cards right, the experience can definitely enhance your marriage!! ;)
 
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each provider have their own limit.
If you ask me there are some 50yo women who look better than some 25yo women, so if I was a male escort my choice will be based on the look not on the age.
 
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Wwanderer said:
In my late 60s I'm too old for many and have other more profound defects, but it doesn't stop me nor even slow me down all that much (though that is gradually becoming an issue). My advice to the OP - go on until something stops you.

-Ww
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I have had a great time reading a lot of the old posts. I have found your posts to be very helpful, and I like the way you think. Just out of pure curiosity, have you by chance participated in est or the Landmark forum?
 
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