Japanese-Korean American starting college in Tokyo this Spring

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MikeH said:
Tell me you like dick pics without telling me you like dick pics. :ROFLMAO:
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To be honest with you, I am rather indifferent when it comes to dicks. Never touched one, tasted one, or smelled one.... though I am curious. I think they look awkward to run around with. They look kind of silly to me. Why are some people growers and some people showers?

(wait, do you spell it "showers" or "showwers" or "show-ers"? If you spell it like "showers", then doesn't that get confused with bathroom "showers"?)
 
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DragonSlayer said:
Shizuka, I think you will find that advertising here is a great first step if you really want to follow through with this. Good luck!
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Thanks, I will keep that in mind.

Actually, I have been reading some of the TAG forums, particularly the various reviews, and have found it very enlightening. It is giving me a better idea of what actually goes on during different type of encounters. And it is helping me figure out what I think I would be comfortable with.

Hand jobs and blow jobs seem simple enough and something I'd be comfortable with.
I was glad to see that anal is oftentimes off the table.
But what got me excited was learning about sumata. I did not realize that most guys are satisfied with just that. I was like, yay, I can work and not worry about getting pregnant or losing my virginity.

I still have a lot more to explore and read up on, but so far, I am really glad I came across TAG. I feel like it is helping me not go into anything blindly!
 
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SealedTears said:
I stayed in a net cafe during my two weeks stay in Japan. Availability of drinks/food, types of rooms (aka ones with a door and lock), and pricing are entirely dependent on the store and can also vary wildly even in the same chain. At least of Kaitatsu Club (快活クラブ), anywhere from 5680~7020 yen for the 24 hour pack. You need to remember to pay for an extension （継続） ~24 hours from your last visit or they'll put away your stuff, which happened to me the first time around. Not the best sleep on the mat and neighbors can be annoying with alarms/coughing
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I don't have a lot of stuff, so I plan on going to Japan with maybe a backpack or a duffle bag. Just some clothes, underwear, socks, my laptop.

I don't think I would need a 24 hour pack at a net cafe. I just need a place to sleep. When I am not sleeping, I imagine I would either be on campus or out working, and would take my bag with me wherever I go.
 
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Fukuoka Jones said:
I thought this was normal! Your school may be putting its students under undue pressure as part of the world's extremely unhealthy obsession with productivity. Don't let that bullshit get to you. Judging from your writing, you are a fine communicator. Better than most for your age. Gradually becoming bi- or tri-lingual is a great goal to have.

As regards teaching English, the vast majority of the one-on-one work here is simply about having a native-speaking conversation partner. And that makes sense because most of the progress in learning comes simply from practice in actual conversations, not analyzing grammar. That part is best done by the student alone. What you'd advertise is English conversation. Cute profile pictures will attract all kinds of perfectly harmless guys who are happy to pay premiums for English practice at local cafes.
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It is my understanding that most people can skim and sight-read without needing to say words out loud or in their heads. So, as far as I know, I am the oddball.
 
MikeH said:
You mean other than your own, right?
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May or may not be a joke... might be the latter.

Shizuka said:
I did hear that the clitoris is the same as a dick, just shrunk down so all the nerves are concentrated into a much smaller nub.

So yes!
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Yes. The clitoris and the head of the penis have the same origin. So a micro penis looks similar to a mega clit.

I'm having a hard time believing a virgin to any interaction with a dick is highly considering sex work.
 
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Shizuka said:
Thanks, I will keep that in mind.

Actually, I have been reading some of the TAG forums, particularly the various reviews, and have found it very enlightening. It is giving me a better idea of what actually goes on during different type of encounters. And it is helping me figure out what I think I would be comfortable with.

Hand jobs and blow jobs seem simple enough and something I'd be comfortable with.
I was glad to see that anal is oftentimes off the table.
But what got me excited was learning about sumata. I did not realize that most guys are satisfied with just that. I was like, yay, I can work and not worry about getting pregnant or losing my virginity.

I still have a lot more to explore and read up on, but so far, I am really glad I came across TAG. I feel like it is helping me not go into anything blindly!
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Assuming you are coming on a student VISA, you won't be able to get a job in an established shop if they are a legit business.
An escort that I am close friends with (somewhat like a sugar mommy) said that as a tourist, she got paid way too little compared to other developed countries. You'd be with an unlicensed business getting ripped off with some awful customers expecting FS. And you'd risk getting deported if caught working in SW.

Money might be good, but that's because the work sucks and is inherent with a lot of risks.

You could consider sugar baby type relationships and register with agencies. You'd have to be competitive/compatible in personality and looks to get a good sugar daddy though. From what I understand from Japanese blogs, it's difficult and the market is tough right now with so many sugar babies out there. Getting a good sugar daddy and keeping him is a dream goal for many.
 
LittleBoy said:
I'm having a hard time believing a virgin to any interaction with a dick is highly considering sex work.
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More like toying with the idea after finding out how bad normal work pay is like. "Highly considering" is a bit too much of an exaggeration at this point in time, though that may change in the future. Right now I am just weighing options. Desperate times call for desperate measures, but I am still trying to figure things out.
 
Kevt said:
You could consider sugar baby type relationships and register with agencies. You'd have to be competitive/compatible in personality and looks to get a good sugar daddy though. From what I understand from Japanese blogs, it's difficult and the market is tough right now with so many sugar babies out there. Getting a good sugar daddy and keeping him is a dream goal for many.
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I had not gotten around to reading up on sugar babies and sugar daddies yet.
Thanks for bringing it to my attention. I am definitely curious to learn more.
 
Shizuka said:
More like toying with the idea after finding out how bad normal work pay is like. "Highly considering" is a bit too much of an exaggeration at this point in time, though that may change in the future. Right now I am just weighing options. Desperate times call for desperate measures, but I am still trying to figure things out.
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I don't know your situation. Whatever it may be, I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors.
 
LittleBoy said:
I don't know your situation. Whatever it may be, I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors.
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My situation is not great. As soon as I turned 18, I left home... though my parents would argue that they kicked me out.

Anyways.... thanks for the well wishes! I do appreciate it.
 
Fukuoka Jones said:
Congratulations for being true to yourself👍
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My parents are so far down the cult rabbit hole that they wanted their leader to "help" me. (translation: fuck me straight, since I don't know the touch of a man.).

I was like, nope, I am out of here.
 
So glad you could make the break with a clear head and conscience. Yeah, Japan is a great place to get your new bearings.
 
maybe not helpful, but curious with how you got accepted in college? I thought they have strict requirement that you can finance yourself in the duration of study.

based on your introduction seems you dont have japanese citizenship.

anyway 28 hours never designed to be able to finance student life, many my friends work 40 hours or more (illegally of course).

maybe you can consider also fantia, onlyfans the like.(been seeing so many accounts that wear mask or sell no face content).

well being independent provider here might be one approach. non FS service is common in japan. not sure if fuzoku store has strict checking on ID.

whatever you do, just dont fall into host club trap.

best of luck.

being away from parents is liberating.
 
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kirayamato said:
maybe not helpful, but curious with how you got accepted in college? I thought they have strict requirement that you can finance yourself in the duration of study.
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Since running away, I have been staying with one of my friend's and her family. They have basically been helping me with everything.... food, a place to stay, pocket money, and dealing with college. I am going to be owing them a lot when all of this is said and done. I want to be independent as soon as possible, as I feel like a major burden on them.

kirayamato said:
based on your introduction seems you dont have japanese citizenship.
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US born.

kirayamato said:
maybe you can consider also fantia, onlyfans the like.(been seeing so many accounts that wear mask or sell no face content).
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I need to check what fantia is. As for OnlyFans, maybe... but not until I am in Japan. I don't want to be posing for the camera while in my friend's home.

kirayamato said:
well being independent provider here might be one approach. non FS service is common in japan. not sure if fuzoku store has strict checking on ID.

whatever you do, just dont fall into host club trap.
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One step ahead of you. I've already heard about how bad host clubs are from watching YouTube.

kirayamato said:
best of luck.

being away from parents is liberating.
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Thanks! I appreciate all the feedback you provided me!
 
Shizuka said:
I had not gotten around to reading up on sugar babies and sugar daddies yet.
Thanks for bringing it to my attention. I am definitely curious to learn more.
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Sugar babies can have their own preferences in their matches also. If smoking is a deal breaker, then don't shack up with a smoker. You can make your own preferences regarding looks, body, personality, wealth, age ...etc. Just a lot of competition and a lot doing only pay per meet, so some concessions and compromises are likely. there are sugar daddies that prefer long term, but it also means they are more likely to already have long term contracts.
 
Shizuka said:
I need to check what fantia is. As for OnlyFans, maybe... but not until I am in Japan. I don't want to be posing for the camera while in my friend's home.
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Just a legal note, you cannot work only OnlyFans (or similiar thing) in Japan without a related visa or status. There are also tax implications that you will run into since the NTA will come knocking.
 
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