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Hey guys ! (second message on here but I'd def like to have your expertise on this)
So I have been on 2 dates with this POT and well...let's say that he is pretty ruthless in some of his comments. I gotta admit that I got a bit chubby this year and he seems to like to point it out as often as he can. To quote him he said I was too fat and needed to lose weight, that it was a great waste to be fat with such a beautiful face and that I should lose weight rapidly because I am getting old (to top things off).
He seems to be an overall fun and nice gentleman but his comments are really bugging me. I mean, I know I should lose weight for many reasons (mostly professional) and I want to, but bashing me all the time won't make me get back in shape any faster.
Do you think he's just trying to "help" with his comments or is he just using his power as a SD to be mean to someone? I really can't tell.
So I have been on 2 dates with this POT and well...let's say that he is pretty ruthless in some of his comments. I gotta admit that I got a bit chubby this year and he seems to like to point it out as often as he can. To quote him he said I was too fat and needed to lose weight, that it was a great waste to be fat with such a beautiful face and that I should lose weight rapidly because I am getting old (to top things off).
He seems to be an overall fun and nice gentleman but his comments are really bugging me. I mean, I know I should lose weight for many reasons (mostly professional) and I want to, but bashing me all the time won't make me get back in shape any faster.
Do you think he's just trying to "help" with his comments or is he just using his power as a SD to be mean to someone? I really can't tell.