Jan 2023
My usual SB date seems to have stopped responding to me lately. I'm suspecting she must have found a boyfriend over the holidays. I started looking for another companion, and went on a date in Ikebukuro. However, the date was short and perhaps she wasn't interested in me. So there I was lonely in Ikebukuro on an early afternoon..
I like longer term relationships and am tired of the impersonal nature of DH and SL (i enjoy dating and not just sex), so I figured I'd see what a deai club was like for the first time. I've been intrigued with the concept of a deai cafe, but have seen many negative reactions and have avoided trying for a long time. I don't know the differences between the well known Kiriri and Momo chain, but I thought the web commercial for Momo was a bit more odd, so I went there.
The location was easy to find and was in a convenient location next to restaurants and hotels on East side of Ikebukuro. The entrance led directly to a desk staffed with two male attendants. Almost no English was spoken by the first attendant, and the second knew some basic English. My Japanese is mediocre and is worse in unfamiliar situations (such as a first visit to a deai club). No materials were available in English. The staff needed to be sure that I understood and were patient with trying to rephrase what they were saying when I didn't understand new words. They gave me a slip of paper to write basic info about myself and led me to the observation room. It was around 4pm and there were maybe 5-6 women available and over 10 men standing around. The women had a post board with slips of paper with their information on it. You have to be able to read some Japanese, but its really straightforward. Based on what the women wrote and their appearance, men can make nominations to speak with a woman for 10 minutes in a private booth. Speed introductions and discussion of preferred date details, and a decision is made to the staff. If a date is agreed upon by both parties, then they meet outside by the elevator and the date.commences.
Costs of the service:
Costs exist for entry, nominations, and setting dates. So you might pay to go in, pay again to speak to a girl, and pay again to select. It could add up quick if bad selections are made. It also puts some risk of spending money to just chat for 10 minutes. The cost of each component varies depending on what plan/package you purchase. For example, one plan might be ala cart style and you pay each fee. .One plan allowed one free chat. There was a special for the day, so I purchased the max plan which was unlimited for the day. I wanted the full experience....
Inside they had coffee and non-alcohol drinks no extra charge. there was a separate smoking room. One single toilet was there for the men and staff. They had a variety of reading materials to help pass the time waiting. It was cramped and dimly lit. The men side were tripping over each other but mostly just ignored each other. The women side looked comfortable with couches, better lighting, and a nicer looking drink machine. The women looked fairly comfortable considering they knew they were being watched and most just fiddled with their phones.
Some women wrote that they only wanted to talk and eat, and nothing more. The men mostly seemed to ignore them and I didn't see any get nominated. I was tempted to talk to one just to get her perspective since I had the day unlimited plan, but didn't see one that I was interested in (based on writtin intro and appearance). However my first selection straight up said she just wanted a meal and didn't have time for a hotel despite what she wrote. She asked for 5000 yen to take her out to eat, and I agreed since she was teaching me the process and helping me learn anyways. I think 5000 yen was likely an average price. After the date she said we could meet in the future for hotel time and we exchanged info. I don't think I'll pursue anything further though. I chalked it up as a fun date and learning experience.
I went back for a second visit. After a short period of waiting, I made a new selection rather promptly this time. This woman straight up said that she loves alcohol, loves sex, and wanted to go out with me within the first minute in the booth. She asked for 20,000 yen which seemed reasonable. I've read on this forum that guys often go with 15,000 (ichigo), but I don't like to haggle for something like this. I thought that we would go to a bar or restaurant, but she went to the combini for drinks and snack. Back in the hotel, it was chatting and straight into foreplay. I've read that a common complaint is that some girls try to quickly fuck and leave, but this wasn't the case. We spent a couple hours together and enjoyed ourselves. Amateur material but seemingly a deai-cafe-pro. Sex and BBBJ were awesome with some obvious skills. I prep my own condoms, but I have a feeling she was down for BB. We exchanged contact info and already have a follow up date next week.
Then I went back for a third visit around 9pm.. There were only 3 women and about 5 men. As soon as a new woman entered, the guys would rush over to read the card. selections were made fast in some cases. A new woman came in that I instantly was attracted to. Two other men had jumped up to read the card first and turned away. The card was all handwritten and didn't suggest sex. Anyways, I nominated her for a chat. She said she was really hungry and wanted to go out to eat. I said that would be fine, but was also hoping to spend some adult time with her later if she was comfortable. She agreed and said we could do two dates. one for meal and one for hotel later. I was assuming this meant she was reserving the option to leave if she didn't like me. Her suggested costs seemed higher and asked for 10,000 for meal and 20,000 for hotel. I was really attracted to her and I didn't think there would be many more options later, so I agreed to the cost. We went out for sushi and back to the hotel. We hit things off well and sex was incredible. By this time, it was nearly impossible to cum so we went at it for who knows how long. It was like our own little JAV with her sweating, moaning, and convulsing. Total opposite of a maguro girl. Afterwards, we were cuddling and chatting. She said that she been at the Shinjuku location earlier in the night, and nobody wanted a meal date. She said everyone was just etch etch etch, so she switched to Ikebukuro. I didn't ask whether she actually went on other dates, since that's none of my business. However. I think she wasn't originally wanting sex. and may have been getting turned down. She said the Shinjuku location was much busier and quoted about 50 women while she was there. We exchanged contact info and likely will meet again when she is in Tokyo (she said she was from far out of town and came for a concert).
My impression of the experience is that it can be worthwhile. It takes time to wait around. Dates could be a bust. However, at least for myself, I liked this better than most of my previous escort experiences.
If anyone is on the fence and considering going, then I'd suggest trying, but don't be in a rush. Also Japanese speaking ability is a total must. I don't think Google translate type apps woild work that well.
My usual SB date seems to have stopped responding to me lately. I'm suspecting she must have found a boyfriend over the holidays. I started looking for another companion, and went on a date in Ikebukuro. However, the date was short and perhaps she wasn't interested in me. So there I was lonely in Ikebukuro on an early afternoon..
I like longer term relationships and am tired of the impersonal nature of DH and SL (i enjoy dating and not just sex), so I figured I'd see what a deai club was like for the first time. I've been intrigued with the concept of a deai cafe, but have seen many negative reactions and have avoided trying for a long time. I don't know the differences between the well known Kiriri and Momo chain, but I thought the web commercial for Momo was a bit more odd, so I went there.
The location was easy to find and was in a convenient location next to restaurants and hotels on East side of Ikebukuro. The entrance led directly to a desk staffed with two male attendants. Almost no English was spoken by the first attendant, and the second knew some basic English. My Japanese is mediocre and is worse in unfamiliar situations (such as a first visit to a deai club). No materials were available in English. The staff needed to be sure that I understood and were patient with trying to rephrase what they were saying when I didn't understand new words. They gave me a slip of paper to write basic info about myself and led me to the observation room. It was around 4pm and there were maybe 5-6 women available and over 10 men standing around. The women had a post board with slips of paper with their information on it. You have to be able to read some Japanese, but its really straightforward. Based on what the women wrote and their appearance, men can make nominations to speak with a woman for 10 minutes in a private booth. Speed introductions and discussion of preferred date details, and a decision is made to the staff. If a date is agreed upon by both parties, then they meet outside by the elevator and the date.commences.
Costs of the service:
Costs exist for entry, nominations, and setting dates. So you might pay to go in, pay again to speak to a girl, and pay again to select. It could add up quick if bad selections are made. It also puts some risk of spending money to just chat for 10 minutes. The cost of each component varies depending on what plan/package you purchase. For example, one plan might be ala cart style and you pay each fee. .One plan allowed one free chat. There was a special for the day, so I purchased the max plan which was unlimited for the day. I wanted the full experience....
Inside they had coffee and non-alcohol drinks no extra charge. there was a separate smoking room. One single toilet was there for the men and staff. They had a variety of reading materials to help pass the time waiting. It was cramped and dimly lit. The men side were tripping over each other but mostly just ignored each other. The women side looked comfortable with couches, better lighting, and a nicer looking drink machine. The women looked fairly comfortable considering they knew they were being watched and most just fiddled with their phones.
Some women wrote that they only wanted to talk and eat, and nothing more. The men mostly seemed to ignore them and I didn't see any get nominated. I was tempted to talk to one just to get her perspective since I had the day unlimited plan, but didn't see one that I was interested in (based on writtin intro and appearance). However my first selection straight up said she just wanted a meal and didn't have time for a hotel despite what she wrote. She asked for 5000 yen to take her out to eat, and I agreed since she was teaching me the process and helping me learn anyways. I think 5000 yen was likely an average price. After the date she said we could meet in the future for hotel time and we exchanged info. I don't think I'll pursue anything further though. I chalked it up as a fun date and learning experience.
I went back for a second visit. After a short period of waiting, I made a new selection rather promptly this time. This woman straight up said that she loves alcohol, loves sex, and wanted to go out with me within the first minute in the booth. She asked for 20,000 yen which seemed reasonable. I've read on this forum that guys often go with 15,000 (ichigo), but I don't like to haggle for something like this. I thought that we would go to a bar or restaurant, but she went to the combini for drinks and snack. Back in the hotel, it was chatting and straight into foreplay. I've read that a common complaint is that some girls try to quickly fuck and leave, but this wasn't the case. We spent a couple hours together and enjoyed ourselves. Amateur material but seemingly a deai-cafe-pro. Sex and BBBJ were awesome with some obvious skills. I prep my own condoms, but I have a feeling she was down for BB. We exchanged contact info and already have a follow up date next week.
Then I went back for a third visit around 9pm.. There were only 3 women and about 5 men. As soon as a new woman entered, the guys would rush over to read the card. selections were made fast in some cases. A new woman came in that I instantly was attracted to. Two other men had jumped up to read the card first and turned away. The card was all handwritten and didn't suggest sex. Anyways, I nominated her for a chat. She said she was really hungry and wanted to go out to eat. I said that would be fine, but was also hoping to spend some adult time with her later if she was comfortable. She agreed and said we could do two dates. one for meal and one for hotel later. I was assuming this meant she was reserving the option to leave if she didn't like me. Her suggested costs seemed higher and asked for 10,000 for meal and 20,000 for hotel. I was really attracted to her and I didn't think there would be many more options later, so I agreed to the cost. We went out for sushi and back to the hotel. We hit things off well and sex was incredible. By this time, it was nearly impossible to cum so we went at it for who knows how long. It was like our own little JAV with her sweating, moaning, and convulsing. Total opposite of a maguro girl. Afterwards, we were cuddling and chatting. She said that she been at the Shinjuku location earlier in the night, and nobody wanted a meal date. She said everyone was just etch etch etch, so she switched to Ikebukuro. I didn't ask whether she actually went on other dates, since that's none of my business. However. I think she wasn't originally wanting sex. and may have been getting turned down. She said the Shinjuku location was much busier and quoted about 50 women while she was there. We exchanged contact info and likely will meet again when she is in Tokyo (she said she was from far out of town and came for a concert).
My impression of the experience is that it can be worthwhile. It takes time to wait around. Dates could be a bust. However, at least for myself, I liked this better than most of my previous escort experiences.
If anyone is on the fence and considering going, then I'd suggest trying, but don't be in a rush. Also Japanese speaking ability is a total must. I don't think Google translate type apps woild work that well.
