I started my journey from numpty to king of the Nampas on Monday. I went out dressed in the finest gear Uniclo can provide and hung around in the organic vegetable section of my local supermarket. After a few hours lurking next to the carrots I decided this was a poor location and so went to loiter around the English book section of a local bookstore. Again, this proved unsuccessful as my presence seemed to act like a deterrent, no even passibly attractive women were spotted.
Onto location number three, a cafe, at least hear there was a potential target, but she had her nose in a laptop. I sat next to her at the counter and tried to catch her attention, I stretched, I yawned loudly, dropped things and rustled around in the carrier bag I had put my sandwiches in, but alas I couldnt get her to look away from the screen and I couldn't think of a way to start a conversation. In the end I left, down and defeated, rang jk style and had a great time with a fit bird with super tits...
I will try again today...and tomorrow...
My figures so far...
Number of women talked to: 0
Number of emails obtained: 0
Number of free shags: 0
My advice would be to directly and actively engage women by initiating a verbal conversation, and not stalking/lurking or haunting an area around them.
1. SMOOTHLY, slowly, and confidently walk right up NEXT to women and start a conversation.
a) You walk up next or to the side of women, as to NOT scare them. If you walk up to their face, the bigger you are, the more likely you are to scare them.
b) Talk about: anything she is wearing (shoes, fingernails, fashion), ask for help about language (works in foreign countries), or anything happening around you (new building construction, car accident...)
2. It's best to approach women who are loitering. That is standing still, sitting, or walking very slowly and appear not in a rush.
Don't chase or run down women (craziness done by some PUAs/Nampa people). Avoid women walking extremely fast and looking like they are late for work or in a rush.
3. If you want to get away with a passive strategy, SIT somewhere with open seats on both sides of you. Like on the train, or bar counter at a coffee shop, restaurant, or club.
This is actually more a way of sneakily TRAPPING women, then talking, as opposed to just being passive, staring, and not doing anything.
Wait for a type of woman that you like to sit next to you. Then you START a conversation with her after 30 seconds or a minute of her sitting down.
Keep in mind that you will have to wait around (time wasting), you are counting on random luck, and it's best to implement in a high traffic busy place. Like a coffee shop where people are coming and going often.
4. Target Sitting Next To Women
Variation of the above, but more active. Can be used on trains, coffee shops, park benches, etc...
Key is don't get fearful or overly self-conscious about doing it. You can also leave some space (or a seat if on a train) between you.
Start a conversation, after 30 seconds. Play with your mobile phone or pretend you are talking on it, to play it off. You delay a bit, so she gets used to your presence and it allows her to run off if she is panicking, so you don't waste your time.
If the conversation starts well, then pretend it's hard for you to hear her, and then ask or just move next to her. If bolder or feeling the vibe, then start by sitting right next to her.
Keep in mind with all more assertive or aggressive strategies, women may walk away or not talk to you. Learn to handle rejection and KEEP going. It's an effeminate trait not to be able to handle rejection or give up easily when something isn't going your way. Men/warriors, persevere through adversity.
Why The Passive Or Passive-Aggessive Strategy Is Often Bad For Men
This passive strategy of being near a person, but NOT talking or too afraid to talk is effeminate behavior that has crossed over into modern male thinking. Men being told or influenced to copy female behavior, due to political correctness or boys being influenced that female behavior is "correct" over traditional male behavior.
The "stalker" tactic isn't effective for men, because when you hang around and near women, and are just looking at them (no matter how slick you may think you are being), many women label the guy as CREEPY.
Many women will become afraid of you, as if you are a rapist or pervert. If you sit or stand near them, stare at them, but say nothing.
Will probably create a thread on this particular theme, but here is what's going on:
1. Women lack testosterone, so are less aggressive and willing to take chances.
That, plus combined with less social and religious acceptability of female sexual assertiveness, women tend NOT to approach men directly.
2. Women therefore tend to simply go near males they are interested in, and try to play it off or seem innocent about it. This is especially important in traditionally religious societies, but also women tend to be more fearful in general.
3. Women are often better at side glances and peripheral vision (documented scientific fact).
Males are usually bad at it, so tend to stare directly or AWKWARDLY, thus creating more suspicion or fear.
4. Women, when standing or near men, have the advantage that their BODY or being DRESSED in a SEXY way, will cause sexual attraction in testosterone laced men around them.
This doesn't work in the reverse. You as a man, don't induce as much sexual attraction, as you do FEAR among women because of your SIZE or her thinking you are a threat to her safety (like a rapist).
