New Here - Advice PLEASE

[AboveSin]

Hi all,

When I say "New Here", I mean I am new to this world of erotica. Never before have I paid for sex and over the course of my last year of living in Japan, I have never once indulged in the "darker" side of Tokyo. I am curious and I very ready to dive in, though I am slightly hesitant and skeptical. I have read some posts on Do's and Don't of the escort services offered. Most seem like common sense and common courtesy. There are some questions of legality that arise from my curiousity. Simply, what is the likelihood of being set up by Japanese police for taking advantage of the prostitution loophole. Ie. no vaginal intercourse. Are "sting" operations a thing? Video cameras set up in hotel rooms to see if there is any actual penetration? Is Chris Hanson gonna pop out of the framework with a film crew and police officers? etc.

I did see some ads of interest. One example was titled "Stunning Curvy Russian" available to duo with friend to do a "girlfriend experience" (link as follows: https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/stunning-curvy-russian-brunette-is-in-tokyo-now.22561/) Two things: 1) It appears that this ad was posted a few months back, but there are no reviews for it? They seem attractive and the price of ~$250 for one girl is extremely reasonable. Fake ad I am wondering? OR do people on this site only like/prefer nihon women? OR more likely, I probably missed the reviews as I am new to the platform and this is all foreign to me? But please advise, I'd like her to pop my escort cherry (likely with her friend). 2) I watched many youtube videos and read quite a few posts about the "girlfriend experience" and it seems to vary dramatically. Some include everything but vaginal pentration, others are just wine and dine experiences (almost literally a girlfriend experience) where the customer seeks solely conversation. I want to ask the escort for clarification, but I am again concerned with legalities and I know that no text message can be erased and it can certainly be used against you. So, for my understanding, can someone clarify that intercourse (vaginal) is illegal while everything else is open (if the girl is open to it or that is the service offered)? Are there any other hidden landmines of the legal nature that I should avoid/be cautious of? Or common mishaps that can be easily avoided?

Frankly, I am married and I am looking for something exciting, brief, discrete and certainly sexual. Conversation is okay. I do not mind the companion part of it, but I know that most of these conversations will be superficial and certainly strained, so I would like to keep that to a minimum. I just want a girl(s) to make me feel good. Even if just temporarily. Also, I am sure escorts are mostly professional and will not ask many personal questions, though, AGAIN, ARE THERE STING OPERATIONS IN JAPAN. Lol.

Any further assistance/advice navigating the platform, and basic how-to's and other Do's and Don't would be greatly appreciated. HELP. Lol. Thank you very much for your time and patience.


I apologize if any of these questions are redundant or previously concerned in other threads. Thank you again.

 

[Simonka]

Sting operations are not common in Tokyo and the worst thing you can experience is bait and switch, someone who doesn’t look like her pictures or not in her best mood.

The girl you’re inquiring for is a traveling escort currently advertising on Tokyo Adult Guide. She probably is lacking reviews because she’s not based in Tokyo therefore doesn’t meet a lot of clients here. All of us independent escorts advertising on TAG are legit providers and this is the most reliable platform if you’d like to book an indie.

 

[TAG Manager]

AGAIN, ARE THERE STING OPERATIONS IN JAPAN. Lol.

No. You just simply don't agree to [paid] sex in a public area where people can see you.

I did see some ads of interest. One example was titled "Stunning Curvy Russian" available to duo with friend to do a "girlfriend experience" (link as follows: https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/stunning-curvy-russian-brunette-is-in-tokyo-now.22561/) Two things: 1) It appears that this ad was posted a few months back, but there are no reviews for it? They seem attractive and the price of ~$250 for one girl is extremely reasonable. Fake ad I am wondering?

Do you see the verified tick mark next to the poster's name? That means we have met them in person and if the ad is posted on this site, it means they have paid us for the month. You cannot list an ad on this site unless we physically meet you and the fee is paid.

 

[MikeH]

Loosen your necktie and relax.

There are no fake ads in TAG. Japanese police do not do sting operations trying to figure out if your weener was inside or outside.

The two Russian girls just came back to town, I believe this might be their second tour.

But be careful when you dip your toe in the p4p world. It's not a slippery slope, it's a waterslide.

 

[TAG Manager]

Sting operations are not common in Tokyo

It's illegal to do in Japan in the same fashion that most westerners expect.

They can do raids, but they can't operate bait traps and trick you into something.

 

[TAG Manager]

One additional point: The ads are usually recycled and refreshed with new pics and info, the actual posted date doesn't mean much.
If the ad is listed at all, it means that it's valid and paid. It's impossible to list a fake or bait 'n switch ad here.

 

[MikeH]

They can do raids, but they can't operate bait traps and trick you into something.

Even when they do raids they target the unlicensed massage places and let the customers go.

 

[Simonka]

Hi all,

When I say "New Here", I mean I am new to this world of erotica. Never before have I paid for sex and over the course of my last year of living in Japan, I have never once indulged in the "darker" side of Tokyo. I am curious and I very ready to dive in, though I am slightly hesitant and skeptical. I have read some posts on Do's and Don't of the escort services offered. Most seem like common sense and common courtesy. There are some questions of legality that arise from my curiousity. Simply, what is the likelihood of being set up by Japanese police for taking advantage of the prostitution loophole. Ie. no vaginal intercourse. Are "sting" operations a thing? Video cameras set up in hotel rooms to see if there is any actual penetration? Is Chris Hanson gonna pop out of the framework with a film crew and police officers? etc.

I did see some ads of interest. One example was titled "Stunning Curvy Russian" available to duo with friend to do a "girlfriend experience" (link as follows: https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/stunning-curvy-russian-brunette-is-in-tokyo-now.22561/) Two things: 1) It appears that this ad was posted a few months back, but there are no reviews for it? They seem attractive and the price of ~$250 for one girl is extremely reasonable. Fake ad I am wondering? OR do people on this site only like/prefer nihon women? OR more likely, I probably missed the reviews as I am new to the platform and this is all foreign to me? But please advise, I'd like her to pop my escort cherry (likely with her friend). 2) I watched many youtube videos and read quite a few posts about the "girlfriend experience" and it seems to vary dramatically. Some include everything but vaginal pentration, others are just wine and dine experiences (almost literally a girlfriend experience) where the customer seeks solely conversation. I want to ask the escort for clarification, but I am again concerned with legalities and I know that no text message can be erased and it can certainly be used against you. So, for my understanding, can someone clarify that intercourse (vaginal) is illegal while everything else is open (if the girl is open to it or that is the service offered)? Are there any other hidden landmines of the legal nature that I should avoid/be cautious of? Or common mishaps that can be easily avoided?

Frankly, I am married and I am looking for something exciting, brief, discrete and certainly sexual. Conversation is okay. I do not mind the companion part of it, but I know that most of these conversations will be superficial and certainly strained, so I would like to keep that to a minimum. I just want a girl(s) to make me feel good. Even if just temporarily. Also, I am sure escorts are mostly professional and will not ask many personal questions, though, AGAIN, ARE THERE STING OPERATIONS IN JAPAN. Lol.

Any further assistance/advice navigating the platform, and basic how-to's and other Do's and Don't would be greatly appreciated. HELP. Lol. Thank you very much for your time and patience.


I apologize if any of these questions are redundant or previously concerned in other threads. Thank you again.

Why do you think the conversation has to be superficial?
As for a personal example recently we talked about marine biology and genetic mutations of star fish with my client during the down time. The ability to hold an intellectual conversation and offering a good p4p time *can* coexist with each other.. The fun fact is men relax after they get rid of the sexual tension and you can appreciate each other’s company and intellectual abilities.. until the next round.
You sound like you have some prejudice against something you haven’t experienced yet and IMO venturing into p4p with an open mind would be much better.

 

[TAG Manager]

Even when they do raids they target the unlicensed massage places and let the customers go.

Yep, excellent point. Chinese massage places that haven't paid their dues are usually the ones to get hit...

 

[AboveSin]

Why do you think the conversation has to be superficial?
As for a personal example recently we talked about marine biology and genetic mutations of star fish with my client during the down time. The ability to hold an intellectual conversation and offering a good p4p time *can* coexist with each other.. The fun fact is men relax after they get rid of the sexual tension and you can appreciate each other’s company and intellectual abilities.. until the next round.
You sound like you have some prejudice against something you haven’t experienced yet and IMO venturing into p4p with an open mind would be much better.

Fair point. I did not mean to insult or insinuate. I suppose I am merely projecting. I think it would be my own inability to carry a meaningful conversation that plagues me.

 

[AboveSin]

Avoid craigslist, use TAG.
Tbh, I didn't know Craigslist was a thing.

 

[wraithfive]

I do not mind the companion part of it, but I know that most of these conversations will be superficial and certainly strained

If the lady is good at what she does then the conversations should not be "strained". Superficial, maybe, depends on you mostly. I've had great conversations with escorts about a broad range of topics. If you don't want there to be much chit chat that's fine as it's your preference but if your just worried the conversation would suck try to keep an open mind.

I watched many youtube videos and read quite a few posts about the "girlfriend experience" and it seems to vary dramatically

GFE, "girlfriend experience", most often refers not to any specific sexual acts that will occur and more to how the lady will interact with you. It's going to vary some from provider to provider just like every girlfriend you've ever had has probably been a little different. The idea however is that she act and gives you the feeling of being with a girlfriend who is enjoying her time with you and actively wanting to have sex (or blow you or whatever is on offer) with you not a paid escort. The reason why I replied to you out of order is the GFE is typically at odds with your stated desire to have very little conversation.

 

[TAG Manager]

Tbh, I didn't know Craigslist was a thing

It was until shit went sideways with laws... same with backpage.

 

[AboveSin]

GFE, "girlfriend experience", most often refers not to any specific sexual acts that will occur and more to how the lady will interact with you. It's going to vary some from provider to provider just like every girlfriend you've ever had has probably been a little different. The idea however is that she act and gives you the feeling of being with a girlfriend who is enjoying her time with you and actively wanting to have sex (or blow you or whatever is on offer) with you not a paid escort. The reason why I replied to you out of order is the GFE is typically at odds with your stated desire to have very little conversation.

If not GFE, what service would I be more inclined to seek? I hate being blunt as it can be perceived as rude, but aside from a review on a Japanese strip show I read on here that I will likely partake in, I am strictly looking for sex (or the closest thing).

 

[Frenchy]

Why do you think the conversation has to be superficial?
As for a personal example recently we talked about marine biology and genetic mutations of star fish with my client during the down time. The ability to hold an intellectual conversation and offering a good p4p time *can* coexist with each other.. The fun fact is men relax after they get rid of the sexual tension and you can appreciate each other’s company and intellectual abilities.. until the next round.
You sound like you have some prejudice against something you haven’t experienced yet and IMO venturing into p4p with an open mind would be much better.

Just for that you wrote, you’re my Queen and I’m your humble servant

 

[wraithfive]

If not GFE, what service would I be more inclined to seek? I hate being blunt as it can be perceived as rude, but aside from a review on a Japanese strip show I read on here that I will likely partake in, I am strictly looking for sex (or the closest thing).

You have to remember your dealing with ladies who see ALL TYPES of men with all sorts of requests. You are most likely NOT the first to ask them ANYTHING. Just tell them you aren't after a GFE and prefer things to be more business like or however you prefer. The worst that can really happen, in Japan at least is they say they don't like to work that way and don't accept you as a client. If that happens just thank them for their time and move on.

Frankly though, if your new to this, I suggest you simply tell them that and that you aren't yet sure what you like. Try to keep an open mind at first and just relax and go with the flow. There is a reason these ladies are called professionals. They know how to get a man to relax and have a good time.

Not every lady is for every man, that's why we have TAG and reviews in the first place, so it's possible you may pick someone that you just don't "click" with at times. If so just don't book that lady again. She isn't going to be offended and ask you why you never called her back like a crazy date would.

 

[Sudsy]

Are "sting" operations a thing?

No, they are not.

The Japanese police are forbidden by law from conducting sting or undercover operations.*

The only agency that is permitted to do so is the Narcotics Control Agency (which has less than 300 total staff nationwide, including administration) who are part of the Ministry of Labour, Health, and Welfare, not the police.

So unless you're selling large amounts of illegal drugs, you don't need to worry about stings.

*Edit: This is to prevent a resurgence of the abuses of power exhibited by the kenpeitai in the pre-WWII years.

 

[AboveSin]

This is enlightening. As much as I like to think myself emotionally aloof, I am thinking GFE is the right service after all.

You have to remember your dealing with ladies who see ALL TYPES of men with all sorts of requests. You are most likely NOT the first to ask them ANYTHING. Just tell them you aren't after a GFE and prefer things to be more business like or however you prefer. The worst that can really happen, in Japan at least is they say they don't like to work that way and don't accept you as a client. If that happens just thank them for their time and move on.

Easy enough. Thank you.

 

[wraithfive]

This is enlightening. As much as I like to think myself emotionally aloof, I am thinking GFE is the right service after all.



Easy enough. Thank you.

FYI I hit post before I meant to and had to edit and add more to it in case you didn't see the whole thing.

 

[Frenchy]

No, they are not.

The Japanese police are forbidden by law from conducting sting or undercover operations.*

The only agency that is permitted to do so is the Narcotics Control Agency (which has less than 300 total staff nationwide, including administration) who are part of the Ministry of Labour, Health, and Welfare, not the police.

So unless you're selling large amounts of illegal drugs, you don't need to worry about stings.

*Edit: This is to prevent a resurgence of the abuses of power exhibited by the kenpeitai in the pre-WWII years.

So ... selling (or taking) SMALL amounts of illegal drugs is fine then
Cool coz I must admit I tried ecstasy first time in Japan . Hated it and made me act like an asshole which frankly was not worth a few months in jail

 

[MikeH]

Hated it and made me act like an asshole

Just how many years the effect has now lasted?

 

[Frenchy]

Just how many years the effect has now lasted?

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