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Getting someone's LINE doesn't mean much, you're leaving out a lot of details.Long story short, visited a provider in tobita multiple times. Ended up getting her LINE.
1. Is it safe to do private meets?
2. Any insight on what to expect? (What both sides can expect and what are no gos etc)
Getting someone's LINE doesn't mean much, you're leaving out a lot of details.
...is it safe? You have to make that call depending on what she's offering or what she's really after.
Really, you need to ask her what she's after? ....and what you're looking for, which is what exactly?
You could have just gotten her LINE so she can have you come back as a repeat client and nothing more.
Sorry about that! You’re right, forgot to leave more details. Basically said she was open to seeing me outside from the shinchi as long as it wasn’t near the place. She mentioned grabbing a bite but I don’t know if it meant just that or what exactly. But ya, I should ask her directly. Just was looking if anyone had any experience and insight with a similar situation, but thanks!
Thank you so much! Ya I’m still trying get a feel off the conversation. She mentioned getting dinner which I’m totally down for. Just don’t know what happens after ya know. I’ll be real me being naive I thought this was like a go to hotel privately and she pockets the cash type of situation. Which I’m not opposed to it at all, obviously. I want to be blunt and ask things straight up, but also don’t want to be rude.getting personal contact info is one of those things that are supposedly not allowed at many shops...... but is widely done.
makes sense as shops don't want any drama outside of business. In my personal experience, i primarily use contact info to help schedule future sessions.
I have "dated" escorts in the past, and the expectations are unque for each. I've gone all the way from platonic friends and up to sugar dating. I've read forums about dating escorts and one common pet peeve are too many people expecting free sex from meet ups. Too much time wasted and drama. If you've got a separate life, then it's frankly easier to just continue with traditional encounters inside the shops. Almost no drama.
Thank you so much! Ya I’m still trying get a feel off the conversation. She mentioned getting dinner which I’m totally down for. Just don’t know what happens after ya know. I’ll be real me being naive I thought this was like a go to hotel privately and she pockets the cash type of situation. Which I’m not opposed to it at all, obviously. I want to be blunt and ask things straight up, but also don’t want to be rude.
Thank you so much! Ya I’m still trying get a feel off the conversation. She mentioned getting dinner which I’m totally down for. Just don’t know what happens after ya know. I’ll be real me being naive I thought this was like a go to hotel privately and she pockets the cash type of situation. Which I’m not opposed to it at all, obviously. I want to be blunt and ask things straight up, but also don’t want to be rude.
If she replies “coffee” congrats!
Well no. They are human beings and at some level they crave affection, attention, respect, friendship, and love just like everyone else…just likely not from the gents who pay them for sexy times.Girls who work in this industry only expect for one thing which is money and nothing else.
Girls who work in this industry only expect for one thing which is money and nothing else.
Girls who work in this industry only expect for one thing which is money and nothing else.
Not true, some of us also expect presents.Girls who work in this industry only expect for one thing which is money and nothing else.
I told her most Japanese girlfriends and wives have a don't-ask-don't-tell attitude towards fuzoku and they don't want to know
Are you questioning the "don't ask don't tell" part of it? If so, you're not familiar with how it works here.LOL!!!! hold up a sec.... so you the foreigner needed to explain how you think most women from her country think? .. in an area that she deals with as a job?
I'm thinking she's humoring you
Are you questioning the "don't ask don't tell" part of it? If so, you're not familiar with how it works here
I just find it funny since it is so widely known, but that You had to explain it to the provider who would know better like its a revelation.
Homer69 said that they are both not young, so maybe she likes him enough to share a part of private infos.Agree, I'm pretty sure the girl is well aware of the social norms around this topic.
Anyway, it might help to know OP's age relative to the girl. If she's 23 and you're 58, obese and bald, I think we can steer this ship in the right direction with a high chance of success for anticipating the outcome. If you're 26, fit, good looking and have dong for days, well, then maybe she actually likes you.
Homer69 said that they are both not young, so maybe she likes him enough to share a part of private infos.
I am in a similar situation and in the past a couple of providers made a pass at me, so I understand.
Usually it's that non-Japanese are a bit of fresh air compared to usual customers and for non-cosmopolitan (non-Tokyo) girls much interesting.
My Own Private Gaijin 😂
It works both ways...
It is widely known however it is not ubiquitous, especially for foreigners. They know western wives and girlfriends are almost always intolerant of any fuzoku and they hate it and feel threatened by it. Not every Japanese female feels the opposite, either. One co-worker's Japanese wife hates it and told him if she ever caught him going he would have serious hell to pay.I just find it funny since it is so widely known, but that You had to explain it to the provider who would know better like its a revelation.
Yes, but the reply was directed to his postHomer isn't the OP.
Yes, but the reply was directed to his post
Anyway, it might help to know OP's age relative to the girl.