Pros and Cons of being an escort in Japan

[Yuriko]

Maybe some guys are curious how we are like, life as an escort.

Shall we share pros and cons?

Pros:
1) Definately, financial freedom.
2) We can buy fancy things. I don't hesitate if I was asked to go for 3,000 yen lunch! Pay by ourselves at office work!
3) We get invited at 5 star hotels.
4) We get to spk English.
5) We can meet successful, high profile guys.
6) We know how to get men's attention.
7) We can become a great kisser.
8) Great practice for leveling up on sucking cocks.
9) We know how to please men. What men are like.

Cons:
1) We got to be well controled for double workers.
2) We got to be watching ourselves, keep being tested from time to time, take special good care of ourselves.
3) We got to be smart, not leak our face photos, in order to keep our security.
4) We accept all kinds of people, who managed to book us. We can't say, "you're not my type" when we finally meet, we mostly meet completely blind, at our end.
5) Some clients can be dirty.., bushy right there..
6) We never know our schedule, sometimes can be busy, sometimes can be very quiet. Nothing on weekdays like.
7) We can't state how healthy or sick our clients are.
8) Likely to loose your partner, if you confess what you do.

What do you think? Any curious questions?

 

[Majestyk]

That’s a very honest assessment. Thank you for sharing.
But what would compel you to make a confession to your partner?
My suggestion: don’t tell. Life is too short.

 

[TheScientist]

Pro: beeen for pro framistan

Con: Savage apes shave with head phones

 

[Durg50]

1) Definately, financial freedom.
2) We can buy fancy things. I don't hesitate if I was asked to go for 3,000 yen lunch! Pay by ourselves at office

You know thats not what ‘financial freedom’ means, right?

 

[User#6517]

In my opinion..

Pros:
1) Flexible schedule. You can make more time for your friends, family, hobbies, etc.
2) Earn more in less time than you would at a regular 9 to 5 job.
3) Clients usually want to keep it NSA and a client-provider relationship. Drama and overthinking of things go out the window.
4) Sometimes your regular clients will offer you helpful advice depending on the topic that you want to talk about.
5) Japan is safe in general. Unlike other countries, screening is not really needed. I think we really take that for granted at times.

Cons:
1) You may have to invest a lot of money on lingerie, photoshoots, websites, ads, tours, etc.. depending on your client market and your goals.
2) Japan's population is about 99% Japanese, so if you can't speak the language or prefer not to see locals, you limit yourself to less than 1% of the population. You may earn less in Japan than you would at an English-speaking country (but of course, other countries' markets might be more competitive).
3) No Agent Provocateur chains in Japan if you're straight-size and into their stuff.

I think that's basically it. The pros outweigh the cons, so I think Japan's industry is alright.

 

[jhingy567]

Any curious questions?

Yes, I have some curious questions!!

Off the top of my head:
-Since you mentioned financial freedom, how much money per month do you make in your night job as an escort?

-do you like the taste of cum?

-why don't you like seeing guys under 24?

-do you make many friends while doing this job? Like with other escorts here in Tokyo? Or even clients?

-do you think there are many advantages to being a specialist bj provider? For example you can work on your period?

 

[Yuriko]

That’s a very honest assessment. Thank you for sharing.
But what would compel you to make a confession to your partner?
My suggestion: don’t tell. Life is too short.

Parners are always curious about, what is it exactly that we do...we get to ask often, but drag not to answer. In my experience, never give an inch of info, if you want to keep your partner. I agree with your suggestion.

You know thats not what ‘financial freedom’ means, right?

What do you mean? I already made my annual income, same as my office full time salary by my escort less than a year and I meant, you can spend on things not thinking prices, you can buy things freely. etc. It depends on personal state. When I only had low wage office jobs, one time I even had 3 part time jobs, I struggled with money. I don't struggle with money, nowadays.The strife is over.

 

[Yuriko]

Yes, I have some curious questions!!

Off the top of my head:
-Since you mentioned financial freedom, how much money per month do you make in your night job as an escort?

-do you like the taste of cum?

-why don't you like seeing guys under 24?

-do you make many friends while doing this job? Like with other escorts here in Tokyo? Or even clients?

-do you think there are many advantages to being a specialist bj provider? For example you can work on your period?

Thanks for asking cusious questions like the TED show's Q&A corner! lol.

- This is very personal, and maybe some people may not want to see the figures. I state it annually on my former reply, but if you want the raw data, I mean the overall monthly figure, I'll DM you.

- No, I don't but I got used to it. It's similar to I had powerpoint allergy, but the more you create spread sheets, the more you excel.

- Guys under 24, mostly can't take responsibility in making appointments IME. They ghost on the date we arranged. So, I ask for a least 2 years of work experience, so that they know how to keep the appointments. When they are under, it's stressful to deal with someone that are not financially secure, I may have to give suggestion of sharing hotel cost, they ask for lower rate potential etc. So far, it's less stress, than accepting all those "not ready for P4P types". That's why, I gave up accepting younger than 24. I'm much comfortable nowadays.

- I don't make friends...I don't have much contact with other escort ladies either. For clients, I have contact for repeaters. I don't emails for one shots or potential clients. It's not fair for those who spent on me and met, than email me only for free. When I don't see any potential, I drop.

- You have a good imagination. I'm afraid, I certainly do work on my period days, as you may know, I don't get my pussy involved, my panties always worn makes it possible. But I do shower with my client, when not too bloody...
I handle things reasonably. I wish not to see a critism after I disclose this. Thanks.

- I get to taste all kinds of cocks!!! It varies so much, just like the shape of belly button is different on one another!! The size, the shape of cock is absolute different by each guy, and you never get bored of it!!! But no cock pics needed, thanks.Haha.

Hope other girls share their pros and cons, would be more juicy!

 

[Lukes]

- Guys under 24, mostly can't take responsibility in making appointments IME. They ghost on the date we arranged. So, I ask for a least 2 years of work experience, so that they know how to keep the appointments. When they are under, it's stressful to deal with someone that are not financially secure, I may have to give suggestion of sharing hotel cost, they ask for lower rate potential etc. So far, it's less stress, than accepting all those "not ready for P4P types". That's why, I gave up accepting younger than 24. I'm much comfortable nowadays.

Wow, I'm actually a bit surprised that young Japanese guys are so flakey. I thought that the culture of punctuality and keeping commitments would make that a non-issue. When I was that age I was so horny that nothing would have stopped me from getting to that appointment, lol.

My question is this - do you ever get any strange requests? Like fetishes or anything else weird that guys ask for.

 

[Durg50]

Parners are always curious about, what is it exactly that we do...we get to ask often, but drag not to answer. In my experience, never give an inch of info, if you want to keep your partner. I agree with your suggestion.



What do you mean? I already made my annual income, same as my office full time salary by my escort less than a year and I meant, you can spend on things not thinking prices, you can buy things freely. etc. It depends on personal state. When I only had low wage office jobs, one time I even had 3 part time jobs, I struggled with money. I don't struggle with money, nowadays.The strife is over.

Financial freedom = your passive income is sufficient to take care of all your financial obligations and desires. In other words; you do not need to work in order to maintain your desired standard of living.

 

[Yuriko]

Financial freedom = your passive income is sufficient to take care of all your financial obligations and desires. In other words; you do not need to work in order to maintain your desired standard of living.

I heard from a caucasian, well educated American girl, who was using the word, to express how great to live having a finacial freedom and she does work to make living. I used as more of "Keizai teki na jiyuu" in Japanese translation, that it gives you financial freedom, you make certain amount of money that gives you comfort living by new money, you can buy what you want, you don't need to think of money situation, etc. So, I guess it's a trendy word nowadays, that in short, people use in different level of understanding, perhaps.

Causion: I do not need of judgemental comment on this. Please refrain from ruining the atmosphere. Thanks.

 

[jhingy567]

Thanks for asking cusious questions like the TED show's Q&A corner! lol.

- This is very personal, and maybe some people may not want to see the figures. I state it annually on my former reply, but if you want the raw data, I mean the overall monthly figure, I'll DM you.

- No, I don't but I got used to it. It's similar to I had powerpoint allergy, but the more you create spread sheets, the more you excel.

- Guys under 24, mostly can't take responsibility in making appointments IME. They ghost on the date we arranged. So, I ask for a least 2 years of work experience, so that they know how to keep the appointments. When they are under, it's stressful to deal with someone that are not financially secure, I may have to give suggestion of sharing hotel cost, they ask for lower rate potential etc. So far, it's less stress, than accepting all those "not ready for P4P types". That's why, I gave up accepting younger than 24. I'm much comfortable nowadays.

- I don't make friends...I don't have much contact with other escort ladies either. For clients, I have contact for repeaters. I don't emails for one shots or potential clients. It's not fair for those who spent on me and met, than email me only for free. When I don't see any potential, I drop.

- You have a good imagination. I'm afraid, I certainly do work on my period days, as you may know, I don't get my pussy involved, my panties always worn makes it possible. But I do shower with my client, when not too bloody...
I handle things reasonably. I wish not to see a critism after I disclose this. Thanks.

- I get to taste all kinds of cocks!!! It varies so much, just like the shape of belly button is different on one another!! The size, the shape of cock is absolute different by each guy, and you never get bored of it!!! But no cock pics needed, thanks.Haha.

Hope other girls share their pros and cons, would be more juicy!

Wow Yuriko,
Thank you for being so nice and taking time to answer all my questions!

-We actually share quite a similar salary (within 5%)! And Don't worry, I'll keep this info private.
Yes I wouldn't hesitate going on 3000yen lunches as well, especially if someone invites.
If you enjoy sucking cock so much it doesn't feel like work, then yes I guess in way you are 'financially free' in the way you don't need to 'lift a finger' to have the money keep rolling in. If this is so, I'm quite envious of you actually

- I like your humour!
I hate making PowerPoints as well.

- sorry to hear younger guys tend to flake. Yes it is very rude and I would not do this to you myself.

-agree. If I had a business I would certainly reward the loyal customers!

-that sounds very reasonable regarding the period thing. I'm sure no guy will be paying attention to the colour of water under his feet when there is a Naked Yuriko in front! Yes, I hope no one will give you criticism for that. I personally don't mind period blood myself. I assume people with female family members are used to seeing bloody toilet bowls as well

 

[e-smile]

4) We accept all kinds of people, who managed to book us. We can't say, "you're not my type" when we finally meet, we mostly meet completely blind, at our end.

why not ?
A client should have the right to decline if you're not his type, It would be fair if you could do the same.

 

[Yuriko]

Wow Yuriko,
Thank you for being so nice and taking time to answer all my questions!

-We actually share quite a similar salary (within 5%)! And Don't worry, I'll keep this info private.
Yes I wouldn't hesitate going on 3000yen lunches as well, especially if someone invites.
If you enjoy sucking cock so much it doesn't feel like work, then yes I guess in way you are 'financially free' in the way you don't need to 'lift a finger' to have the money keep rolling in. If this is so, I'm quite envious of you actually

- I like your humour!
I hate making PowerPoints as well.

- sorry to hear younger guys tend to flake. Yes it is very rude and I would not do this to you myself.

-agree. If I had a business I would certainly reward the loyal customers!

-that sounds very reasonable regarding the period thing. I'm sure no guy will be paying attention to the colour of water under his feet when there is a Naked Yuriko in front! Yes, I hope no one will give you criticism for that. I personally don't mind period blood myself. I assume people with female family members are used to seeing bloody toilet bowls as well

Thank you for being polite and nice!
I'm not going into details. Thanks for your friendly comment.

why not ?
A client should have the right to decline if you're not his type, It would be fair if you could do the same.

Well, they do. But I guess they quietly disappear via emails, that I guess we get chosen who to meet, by the Universe.

 

[Durg50]

I heard from a caucasian, well educated American girl

Lol, i dont think it matters what race she is.
Please go tell her that you heard from an anonymous poster (race unknown, gender presumably male) on an internet forum for people who like paying for sexual services that her definition of financial freedom is wrong.

 

[e-smile]

Well, they do. But I guess they quietly disappear via emails, that I guess we get chosen who to meet, by the Universe.

If I were an escort I'd ask for the client's photo along with other info.

 

[warubuta]

Parners are always curious about, what is it exactly that we do...we get to ask often, but drag not to answer. In my experience, never give an inch of info, if you want to keep your partner. I agree with your suggestion.



What do you mean? I already made my annual income, same as my office full time salary by my escort less than a year and I meant, you can spend on things not thinking prices, you can buy things freely. etc. It depends on personal state. When I only had low wage office jobs, one time I even had 3 part time jobs, I struggled with money. I don't struggle with money, nowadays.The strife is over.

Your definition of financial freedom is to be free from the strife of not having enough money. Financial freedom in a general sense means not having to work and having a secure and sustainable income from investments or other sources that do not require much of your time and attention. I agree that 3,000yen for lunch is nice. But if you have to give a BBBJ to a stranger twice a month to have a 3,000yen lunch everyday, I think some people would rather have a 1,000yen lunch. To each his own, right?

Seems to me that one of the biggest cons of being an escort is that your earnings are limited and they will decline as you age. You should save as much as you can while you are young. A professional who uses his brain and leverages his experience and education to solve complex problems, should be able to increase his income as he ages and gains experience.

 

[vargas]

Interesting post! I'll admit to being quite curious what independent escorts make on a yearly basis. How about girls who work at soaplands? I haven't got the faintest clue.

That’s a very honest assessment. Thank you for sharing.
But what would compel you to make a confession to your partner?
My suggestion: don’t tell. Life is too short.

How about basic decency and honesty? A relationship built on lies can collapse very easily. The only reason to hide something like this is because you know the other person can't accept it. Better to find someone who is ok with it.

 

[meiji]

- No, I don't but I got used to it. It's similar to I had powerpoint allergy, but the more you create spread sheets, the more you excel.

This was either a genius Microsoft Office double-entendre, or a beautiful coincidence. In either case, I salute you.

 

[warubuta]

Interesting post! I'll admit to being quite curious what independent escorts make on a yearly basis. How about girls who work at soaplands? I haven't got the faintest clue.

It would be interesting to know what they make.

 

[Durg50]

It would be interesting to know what they make.

The recent girl i reviewed from a high end soap told me she can make between 12-20 million per year depending on how many days pw she puts in.
She also said that most girls blow it all on designer bags and clothes and end up with no savings once they are too old to continue. She said she wanted to avoid that fate and she is quite frugal and saves a lot.

 

[Yuriko]

Lol, i dont think it matters what race she is.
Please go tell her that you heard from an anonymous poster (race unknown, gender presumably male) on an internet forum for people who like paying for sexual services that her definition of financial freedom is wrong.

So what? lol.

 

[warubuta]

If I were an escort I'd ask for the client's photo along with other info.

And you would get less business as a result. I would never share my photo with an escort.

 

[warubuta]

Other pros and cons: Pro: I am guessing you are not going to pay taxes on your income. Pro: The pay on an hourly basis is better than other unskilled jobs such as working at McDonalds. Con: You might get arrested and thrown in jail. Con: Your mother and father probably wouldnt be happy with your choice of career. Con: You might get assaulted or even murdered. Con: You might get an STD such as herpes or even worse, HIV.

 

[TokyoML]

Stay positive guys. It's hatred in disguise

Con: You might get arrested and thrown in jail. Con: Your mother and father probably wouldnt be happy with your choice of career. Con: You might get assaulted or even murdered. Con: You might get an STD such as herpes or even worse, HIV.

But your Cons also pertains to us. We even have to pay for the cons!!! At least they are making the money.