Tastes like nothing to me unless it's flavored?OK so here's a question for @User#8628 @Anna Summer @MissInsomnia how do y'all like the taste of lube?
Tastes like nothing to me unless it's flavored?OK so here's a question for @User#8628 @Anna Summer @MissInsomnia how do y'all like the taste of lube?
Tastes like nothing to me unless it's flavored?
3. Somewhat related to #2 it reduces flexibility. At least I like to kiss down there a lot at various stages. Once you put lube there you have to finish the act and clean the mess, before you can go down there again.
We'll have to give that a try sometime!Still searching for playmate who is happy with cleaning up my whip creamed body. Oops!
1. It detracts from GFE... I can't remember to ever have used it with a gf... We either spent the time required or if she would get in the right mood for whatever reason went with other forms of intimacy that go without penetration
I personally dislike the taste of lube, flavored or not.. but fortunately, it's not necessary for BJ. It's good for HJ and intercourse, though, and sometimes a good substitute for massage oil.OK so here's a question for @User#8628 @Anna Summer @MissInsomnia how do y'all like the taste of lube?
We'll have to give that a try sometime!
Same here, which is why I don't understand this objection:
It is not like the lube is poisonous or has a foul taste or anything...so why does it have to be cleaned away before more oral action?
-Ww
I personally dislike the taste of lube, flavored or not.. but fortunately, it's not necessary for BJ. It's good for HJ and intercourse, though, and sometimes a good substitute for massage oil.
Hehe either whip cream or chocolate spray
I think a lot of men are quite insecure.. If their partner doesn't get wet enough, doesn't seem as into it or doesn't achieve orgasm.. Some people view it all as personal slights.
This.
<sigh>
-Ww
This is very true. Comdoms definitely dry you out in the long run and things are not so black and white that if someone is attractive a girl is soaking and if she's not into you she's dry as hell. There are definitely more factors.Personally always insisted on using lube for safety reasons because I understand how my body reacts to condoms. After a while it will actually cause my body to dry up. Most of my clients have not had an issue with using lube, and they even find it exciting to use lube because they can go much faster and deeper.
I don't think vaginal dryness/wetness has much to do with the level of arousal. Yes, there are definitely correlations, but it's definitely not the defining factor.
As for whether it "spoils the mood".... seriously? I think taking a few seconds to use some lube isn't disruptive at all, compared to the possibility of a broken condom. Guys who are able to distinguish "fantasy" and reality of sex wouldn't find putting lube to be an issue at all IMO.
Things associated with sex and attraction are highly personal to people. There is a vulnerability when clothes come off that most experience.
Women are not different. Reject a woman and there is a good chance she will not accept it gracefully. Such has been my experience. Men are always supposed to want it, so if you reject her then you are giving mortal offense. Don't get erect or respond well to her technique and again, bad reaction.
Providers are selling a fantasy though of a GFE and passion. They are not putting on their sites "come masturbate into me while I am passionless and look bored". Something as undefined as GFE invites the brain to fill in fantasy details. At some level all mongerers are looking for some level of unreal fantasy. They just set the line differently. What sign do you need to believe there is passion or a GFE is more the issue. If that doesn't occur in the encounter then just move on. The whole scene is big YMMV territory.
There is nothing wrong with having a preference for any reason. Nor is everyone going to click. I just wouldn't recommend getting upset over anything that isn't fraud.
They are not putting on their sites "come masturbate into me while I am passionless and look bored".
At some level all mongerers are looking for some level of unreal fantasy.
I don't think using lube gives the impression of being bored or lazy. Although I admit that it could lead to overthinking. But then, there are forums and threads where couples talk about what type of lube is the best to use for sex. It's not a secret that many women have problems getting wet. I myself had this problem on the birth control pill. Even if I felt aroused, down there it was a dry desert.
I also agree with @Rebeccalee about the condoms. I even had a broken one in private because let's be honest... a woman can't stay wet for over an hour penetration nor can the condom stay in 'shape' with so much friction going on.
Agreed.I personally find that lube makes it more exciting! For so many reasons...... So many clients have commented that I start to get a bit wilder and more passionate post-lube! (*´∀`*)
Well, I have never seen anyone advertise a W(ife)E(xperience).
I use natural coconuts oil Still searching for playmate who is happy with cleaning up my whip creamed body. Oops!