I met a girl around the start of this year (she was working as a waitress at a cafe) and we've been texting since - for the first week it was pretty hot so I asked her out. She gave some vague affirmative answer (if we could, that would be great! - that kind of thing) but when I offered a time and place she ignored me and changed the subject.
Okay, maybe it was too early for her, she wants to get to know me better over text. I give it another week and ask her out again. She's busy with work now but wants to hang out later this year in spring, she says. That's pretty much a load of crap, so I wrap things up nicely, tell her good night and leave it at that.
Silence for a few days, then she hits me up on Snapchat and starts snapping me and messaging me like crazy. I mean looking at my phone with twenty messages from her kind of crazy. I'm lukewarm about it, I mean, we can text forever but not meet, what's the point in that? I give her a couple of pandering responses, we chat for a bit. She starts mushi-ing me in the middle of conversations and leaves my messages read for two or three days, then another barrage of messages and snaps.
Should I even bother at this point? I'm still texting her because she's hot, but I'm getting nowhere with her behaviour. My last message was ignored again and I'm just waiting for my phone to blow up randomly in the morning, afternoon or even 3am. Girl has me wondering what's up with her.
Okay, maybe it was too early for her, she wants to get to know me better over text. I give it another week and ask her out again. She's busy with work now but wants to hang out later this year in spring, she says. That's pretty much a load of crap, so I wrap things up nicely, tell her good night and leave it at that.
Silence for a few days, then she hits me up on Snapchat and starts snapping me and messaging me like crazy. I mean looking at my phone with twenty messages from her kind of crazy. I'm lukewarm about it, I mean, we can text forever but not meet, what's the point in that? I give her a couple of pandering responses, we chat for a bit. She starts mushi-ing me in the middle of conversations and leaves my messages read for two or three days, then another barrage of messages and snaps.
Should I even bother at this point? I'm still texting her because she's hot, but I'm getting nowhere with her behaviour. My last message was ignored again and I'm just waiting for my phone to blow up randomly in the morning, afternoon or even 3am. Girl has me wondering what's up with her.