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Ah, this is a very good one. The amount of people who act like the "25 years in Japan" guy from this video, who try to badmouth the country and attempt to make the other foreigners thinking the same way is too damn high. Basically this is the Japanlife subreddit in a video.
 
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Ah, this is a very good one. The amount of people who act like the "25 years in Japan" guy from this video, who try to badmouth the country and attempt to make the other foreigners thinking the same way is too damn high. Basically this is the Japanlife subreddit in a video.

Why stay somewhere if it’s so bad? 🤨
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Ah, this is a very good one. The amount of people who act like the "25 years in Japan" guy from this video, who try to badmouth the country and attempt to make the other foreigners thinking the same way is too damn high. Basically this is the Japanlife subreddit in a video.

To me some of those jaded gaijin I’ve seen online always sound like they can’t handle baby’s first minority experience. Welcome to living in almost any country as a first gen foreigner :D
 
I just found interesting documentary series called "ここだけの際どい話” in Japanese, "Risque business" in English on Netflix.
It is about two Korean male reporters go into deep adult scene in the country and find out their back stories. When you have time:)
 
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I just found interesting documentary series called "ここだけの話” in Japanese, "Risque business" in English on Netflix.
It is about two Korean male reporters go into deep adult scene in the country and find out their back stories. When you have time:)
Interesting find, thanks for sharing. Found a preview link...

 
I just found interesting documentary series called "ここだけの話” in Japanese, "Risque business" in English on Netflix.
It is about two Korean male reporters go into deep adult scene in the country and find out their back stories. When you have time:)
I saw the first episode and it was good - and the guys are actually quite funny and surprisingly respectful. Very enjoyable.
 
Why stay somewhere if it’s so bad? 🤨
Meh
There has been a very interesting shift in how Japan is perceived at the very least online in the past 10 years. I remember during the 2010s when tourism in Japan picked up, everybody and their mom talked about Japan as this utopian wonderland with no faults. It was all anime, idols, nice people, beautiful nature and nobody in Japan could do wrong. And then sometime before the pandemic that view completely shifted to Japan being terrible. Shit work-life balance, high suicide rates, low birth rates, racist/xenophobic population who all just act nice but ultimately hate foreigners and a country with no future. This happens with many countries but especially Japan; people just really can not see that a country has it's good and bad sides. It's either all fantastic or all shit.

And that video is pretty good at calling out a specific group of people within Japan that have become bitter and cynical because of exactly what the "joke" was: they got there as ALTs, never progressed further, maybe got married to the first Japanese woman they met and are now hating life. They see other foreigners who recently started living in Japan and belittle them, tell them they'll hate it after a while too and that everything is shit in the hopes that it actually comes true so that they aren't the only miserable prick.
 
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I just found interesting documentary series called "ここだけの話” in Japanese, "Risque business" in English on Netflix.
It is about two Korean male reporters go into deep adult scene in the country and find out their back stories. When you have time:)
Cheers, downloaded Series 1(6 episodes about Japan) and Series 2(6 episodes about Germany and Holland).
 
specific group of people within Japan that have become bitter and cynical because of exactly what the "joke" was: they got there as ALTs, never progressed further, maybe got married to the first Japanese woman they met and are now hating life.
And these are the guys that most of the new arrivals and tourists meet, since they have no lives and all they do is hang out at cheap bars. The people that are relatively content here have families and friends and hobbies that fill up their days. And most of us assiduously avoid places with an abundance of tourists.
 
There has been a very interesting shift in how Japan is perceived at the very least online in the past 10 years. I remember during the 2010s when tourism in Japan picked up, everybody and their mom talked about Japan as this utopian wonderland with no faults. It was all anime, idols, nice people, beautiful nature and nobody in Japan could do wrong. And then sometime before the pandemic that view completely shifted to Japan being terrible. Shit work-life balance, high suicide rates, low birth rates, racist/xenophobic population who all just act nice but ultimately hate foreigners and a country with no future. This happens with many countries but especially Japan; people just really can not see that a country has it's good and bad sides. It's either all fantastic or all shit.

And that video is pretty good at calling out a specific group of people within Japan that have become bitter and cynical because of exactly what the "joke" was: they got there as ALTs, never progressed further, maybe got married to the first Japanese woman they met and are now hating life. They see other foreigners who recently started living in Japan and belittle them, tell them they'll hate it after a while too and that everything is shit in the hopes that it actually comes true so that they aren't the only miserable prick.

I don't think there has been a shift; there have always been different currents of thought and it probably depends on who you meet or your internet footprint. I remember in 2010 going to Scandinavia for a games conference and a bunch of guys were telling me how awful Japan was - turns out they had just been in Debito's online bubble. Go on to any reddit thread that mentions Japan for the past 10 years and you will find people talking about unit 731, lack of holidays (based on an Expedia press release from a couple of decades ago, lol), or fax machines. Including reddits aimed at people who live here. I read a thread the other day where some guy who has been living here less than a year was confidently telling people that Sydney has better Japanese food than Tokyo. Japan just attracts fucking insanity, both online and off. It's like Paris Syndrome but nobody has ever given it a name (or have they?).
 
Oh yeah Unit 731 is a classic I KNOW THE REAL JAPAN edgelordism. Unsurprisingly they can never elaborate on anything about it in significant detail, watching the a clip of Man Behind the Sun and skimming the Wikipedia page is enough because they’re experts in REAL JAPAN you see. They’re worthless even if you did want to talk about Japan’s Asia pacific war campaign or post-war relations in Asia fresh off the airplane with a creepy and angry looking 40+ years old man at HUB somehow
 
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Feels weird to only have this place to share this, but I just came back from a friggin date with a woman I gel with a lot. No sex but there was a teaser for a second netflix and chill date. It's funny, I was a virgin dumbass that never felt the touch of a woman before just three months ago, and an act that's seen as filthy and abominable by most of the western world, paying for sex, was the catalyst to rebuild self-confidence and put myself out there.
This is kind of a corny post but I'm legitimately thankful for having found this place where sexual services in Japan are demystified. The only problem now is to remember to hide the emails and browser history in all my devices so the gf doesn't find out my pathetic degeneracy in this forum, I have a big ass TAG icon on my browsers start screen for example, LOL. But I'll stick around... who knows, maybe she'll dump me the next day just like Leisure Suit Larry 2 but I have a feeling I won't stop being a degenerate fuuzoku enjoyer in any case. Thank you degentlemen of TAG, even though you all probably don't give a fuck about what I just posted about anyway. 🫡 🫡 🫡
 
There has been a very interesting shift in how Japan is perceived at the very least online in the past 10 years. I remember during the 2010s when tourism in Japan picked up, everybody and their mom talked about Japan as this utopian wonderland with no faults. It was all anime, idols, nice people, beautiful nature and nobody in Japan could do wrong. And then sometime before the pandemic that view completely shifted to Japan being terrible. Shit work-life balance, high suicide rates, low birth rates, racist/xenophobic population who all just act nice but ultimately hate foreigners and a country with no future. This happens with many countries but especially Japan; people just really can not see that a country has it's good and bad sides. It's either all fantastic or all shit.

And that video is pretty good at calling out a specific group of people within Japan that have become bitter and cynical because of exactly what the "joke" was: they got there as ALTs, never progressed further, maybe got married to the first Japanese woman they met and are now hating life. They see other foreigners who recently started living in Japan and belittle them, tell them they'll hate it after a while too and that everything is shit in the hopes that it actually comes true so that they aren't the only miserable prick.
It’s weird because in the early 2010’s there was almost no tourism because people were scared of the radioactivity and earthquakes and all of that.
But the people who did come to Japan really loved Japan and there was so much more authentic culture.

Now it’s full of tourists and the country tears down places where the locals have fun and put tourist traps instead.

But yeah, for some reason the media in the west loves to trash talk Japan nowadays. It’s like there is an article about the low birth rate in Japan every month in some random European newspaper. What does it even have to do with the European people? They have so little to write about?
Maybe other countries don’t like that their people take trips to Japan and spend their money there so they try to shit talk the country? Idk. That sounds like a reach though.
 
I don't think there has been a shift; there have always been different currents of thought and it probably depends on who you meet or your internet footprint. I remember in 2010 going to Scandinavia for a games conference and a bunch of guys were telling me how awful Japan was - turns out they had just been in Debito's online bubble. Go on to any reddit thread that mentions Japan for the past 10 years and you will find people talking about unit 731, lack of holidays (based on an Expedia press release from a couple of decades ago, lol), or fax machines. Including reddits aimed at people who live here. I read a thread the other day where some guy who has been living here less than a year was confidently telling people that Sydney has better Japanese food than Tokyo. Japan just attracts fucking insanity, both online and off. It's like Paris Syndrome but nobody has ever given it a name (or have they?).
And these are the guys that most of the new arrivals and tourists meet, since they have no lives and all they do is hang out at cheap bars. The people that are relatively content here have families and friends and hobbies that fill up their days. And most of us assiduously avoid places with an abundance of tourists.
I remember meeting a Scandinavian foreigner in a bar in Japan when I just got here who gave me an ear full about how all Japanese people are liars. Then months later I met a Chinese foreigner somewhere outside and for some reason I asked his take on it. And he said that foreigners who say that don’t understand the Japanese culture of being considerate and that they don’t say the straight truth because they do not want to hurt people.

Anyway yeah, people who are comfortably settled here usually don’t hang out at Hub.
 
people who are comfortably settled here usually don’t hang out at Hub.
More like people who are comfortably settled here usually avoid the Hub.
 
But yeah, for some reason the media in the west loves to trash talk Japan nowadays. It’s like there is an article about the low birth rate in Japan every month in some random European newspaper.
The weirdest part about this sort of topic is that the birth rates in many European countries aren't that much different or they're worse lol.
 
Anyway yeah, people who are comfortably settled here usually don’t hang out at Hub.
Nah, after you’ve been here a while you realize the hub isnt that bad.

0-2 years. hub is amazing, pints of gin tonic for 300 yen after a hard day’s eikaiwa. Life goal is a gold card.

2-5 years. Hub is for losers, go find ‘real’ places to drink. Im so cool because i only hang out at local bars with no other gaijin.

5+ years. Got over myself, happy to sit and eat lamb kebabs and fish and chips and a pint of cider by myself for 2,000 yens.

This of course doesnt include the shibuya or shinjuku hubs which of course should only be entered if you have ready access to antibiotics.
 
This of course doesnt include the shibuya or shinjuku hubs which of course should only be entered if you have ready access to antibiotics.
You can add Ikebukuro and Ueno to that list.

I'm still in the "avoid the Hub" camp, but that's more because of the tourist onslaught. Oddly enough there don't seem to be too many of them in the 82 Ale House stores.
 
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But yeah, for some reason the media in the west loves to trash talk Japan nowadays. It’s like there is an article about the low birth rate in Japan every month in some random European newspaper. What does it even have to do with the European people? They have so little to write about?
They really need to stop recycling old resources.
nowadays South Korea is the leading of declining population with fertility rate under 1.0 especially with the 4B movement.

I think this kind of news serve as international gossip/trivia.

Most topics about japan are : sexless society, earthquake country, work to death, declining population and lacking male pornstars.
 
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They really need to stop recycling old resources.
nowadays South Korea is the leading of declining population with fertility rate under 1.0 especially with the 4B movement.

I think this kind of news serve as international gossip/trivia.

Most topics about japan are : sexless society, earthquake country, work to death, declining population and lacking male pornstars.
I sometimes watch a Korean live streamer when they do IRL content (which is super hypocritical because I think IRL live-streaming is obnoxious but I still enjoy watching it).... but anyways when they walk past a baby or young child in Korea the chat always goes wild saying how rare it is. Mostly a joke but gets a chuckle out of me.

But yea its funny people always say Japan when Korea is doing way worse even than Japan with birth rate.
 
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Most topics about japan are : sexless society, earthquake country, work to death, declining population and lacking male pornstars.
Don’t forget about married couples cheating, one bit youtubers can’t seem to stfu about it