Virgin looking to lose it this week in Kansai

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Now I'm just anxiously looking through the web for whether I've got to bring condoms, what type to get, whether I should abstain from porn/jacking off to resensitize(?) myself or whatever 😅
I would abstain from fapping for 72hrs if virgin, you don't know what expectations and anxiety will cause.
Better shot quickly than not at all IMO.
 
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Now I'm just anxiously looking through the web for whether I've got to bring condoms, what type to get, whether I should abstain from porn/jacking off to resensitize(?) myself or whatever 😅
I brought my own, but I think due to communication issues, I ended up using hers instead at AM. I wouldn't stress about bringing condoms.
 
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Already made my booking yesterday for some time next week, AM staff was super helpful with setting things up! Hope all goes well for you too.

Now I'm just anxiously looking through the web for whether I've got to bring condoms, what type to get, whether I should abstain from porn/jacking off to resensitize(?) myself or whatever 😅
Hope you have fun!

I agree with Cinnabums--abstain for 2-3 days. It'll feel better. As for condoms, I'd personally use my own if given the choice. I don't like most Japanese condoms and I even have a preference for specific condoms in my home country too. They don't all feel the same and it's really kind of trial and error to find what works/feels best for you.
 
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I would abstain from fapping for 72hrs if virgin, you don't know what expectations and anxiety will cause.
Better shot quickly than not at all IMO.
I brought my own, but I think due to communication issues, I ended up using hers instead at AM. I wouldn't stress about bringing condoms.
Hope you have fun!

I agree with Cinnabums--abstain for 2-3 days. It'll feel better. As for condoms, I'd personally use my own if given the choice. I don't like most Japanese condoms and I even have a preference for specific condoms in my home country too. They don't all feel the same and it's really kind of trial and error to find what works/feels best for you.
Abstain from porn as long as possible.

Masturbation maybe a few days.
Will hold on for the day! And for condoms, just gonna bring along the one pack that I tried (Okamoto 001s), and assume we'll use it if we have to.

Btw, is there any reason to avoid mentioning TAG?

Thought it might come up if the topic of how I found her or why I decided to go with an escort came up, but didn't see any mention or advice about this in any review/FAQ.
 
Yeah at least 3 days no fapping. Okamoto 0.01 is good, it’s also my condom of choice. Some providers might not want being reviewed. If the topic comes up, just say you found AM on Google or it was recommended by a friend.
 
Btw, is there any reason to avoid mentioning TAG?
It's generally not a good idea. You never know what kind of reception you may get... There have been some strange responses to mentioning TAG from overly positive right down to making someone quit the business. Until you are repeat with some mutual respect... I wouldn't mention it.
 
It's generally not a good idea. You never know what kind of reception you may get... There have been some strange responses to mentioning TAG from overly positive right down to making someone quit the business. Until you are repeat with some mutual respect... I wouldn't mention it.
Yeah at least 3 days no fapping. Okamoto 0.01 is good, it’s also my condom of choice. Some providers might not want being reviewed. If the topic comes up, just say you found AM on Google or it was recommended by a friend.
Thanks, that makes sense, will refrain from mentioning the site/reviews.
 
Anxiety is a problem. When I first went to P4P in Japan (a soapland), anxiety was really a problem so that I couldn't turn on for a very long time. Reason is that I had N5 Japanese not communicable with the girl, so I did not know if there were some "no"-rules or unpolite behaviors. It was difficult to ask via a translator in that circumstance.

So my suggestion is: don't think too much on the price–performance ratio or try all ways of playing in your first time. Just let the girl take the lead, let her instruct you what to do next. She will ask if you are comfortable or want to change or something. Normally the girl is more expertised than you.

I do not recommend to go to Shinchi before you have overcome the anxiety of such activity. In Shinchi, the time is short (30min Tobita / 40min Matsushima = less than 20min main course before the bell rings). So in your mind there is a clock ticking, pushing you to the end. Escort (deli heru) and soapland are better because you have 1 hour or more to play.

Besides, have a good rest before you go. If you feel tired that day, don't force yourself to.

Condom is not a problem. The girl will bring some. Sure you can use yours if you have perference.
 
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Anxiety is a problem. When I first went to P4P in Japan (a soapland), anxiety was really a problem so that I couldn't turn on for a very long time. Reason is that I had N5 Japanese not communicable with the girl, so I did not know if there were some "no"-rules or unpolite behaviors. It was difficult to ask via a translator in that circumstance.

So my suggestion is: don't think too much on the price–performance ratio or try all ways of playing in your first time. Just let the girl take the lead, let her instruct you what to do next. She will ask if you are comfortable or want to change or something. Normally the girl is more expertised than you.

I do not recommend to go to Shinchi before you have overcome the anxiety of such activity. In Shinchi, the time is short (30min Tobita / 40min Matsushima = less than 20min main course before the bell rings). So in your mind there is a clock ticking, pushing you to the end. Escort (deli heru) and soapland are better because you have 1 hour or more to play.

Besides, have a good rest before you go. If you feel tired that day, don't force yourself to.

Condom is not a problem. The girl will bring some. Sure you can use yours if you have perference.
Thanks so much, I'm relating to this so much rn, want to be proactive in being an active part of the encounter but scared of doing something bad or making it uncomfortable. Can just see the anxiety building up

Going to try and bang your advice into my head and take it slow 🙏 and yeah, if somehow the appt gets cancelled definitely will just hold on for next time with another escort.
 
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