In 2 years using tinder here, no luck except meeting one 48-year-old haggard-looking model for coffee. And, I'm not bad looking either, but decent. I sometimes get matches, but they are often very short one word replies or dead weight. When I meet face to face at a bar (like I did this week) sitting down next to one, it goes much better (if they are alone), and much younger and with much more beautiful women. The problem is I get their line and I don't know how to (or maybe don't want to) communicate via that method. Like this last one I met in person, she's really nice looking, 28, but I'd rather just keep silent for a few months and contact her whenever I can be free and say "hey let's meet up again," which may be ultimately too late to wait to restart conversation. Tinder for me burns out really fast if it even starts a kindle.